Virgo Man and Scorpio Woman Compatibility

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This is an unlikely combination, pretty much guaranteed to destroy the best in each other after an initial period of obsession.  Scorpio is a very strong sign interested in power based on sexual prowess in the female and this is not particularly geared toward enticing a Virgo man who could generally care less about power or sex and is mainly interested in self-mastery and integrity.  In fact, it might be a test of his integrity to turn away from The Temptress.  The initial basis of attraction between Virgo man and Scorpio woman would be the intensity they both can feel for the object of their desire.  Both signs are discriminating to the nth degree.  Scorpio is looking for a certain type of sexual connection — after all, sex is their religion.  Virgo is looking for a particular fit — according to their inner diagram of “the soul mate”.  Of all the signs, these are the two least likely to date around, to date casually, or to be players.

How to Attract a Virgo Man as a Scorpio Woman:

“Come into my parlor,” said the spider to the fly.  We mean nothing negative about this; it’s just the nature of spiders and flies.  If ever a man in the world needed seducing, it’s a Virgo man.  So, please, Scorpio lady, do your thang.

How to Attract a Scorpio Woman as a Virgo Man:

The Scorpio woman does the choosing, but if you have your eye set on her, your best bet is to show an intense sexual vibration in your aura.  This is one lady who moves quickly to consummation — if she’s interested at all — and all you have to do is be a willing participant.  You probably need to muster up some emotions and say a few of the right things, but she’ll pretty much take control if she’s interested. If she’s not interested she’ll flick you off like a fly on her shoulder and you’ll just have to take “no” for an answer.  By way of encouragement, I will add that your discriminating faculties are usually correct.  If you are interested in her, it’s not for no reason.  Trust your instincts.  (Of course it’s well known that Virgo likes to “reform the whore.”)

Degree of Romance:

Scorpio will be oriented toward sex and emotions, tending to excess in both.  Virgo can supply a fine stream of romantic counter-point, bringing the relationship into balance.  Virgos are among the most romantic signs in the zodiac, and, like Don Quixote and Dulcinea, they handle illusion well, and the illusion is that you are a fairy princess, even if you fall a little short of the mark.

Degree of Passion:

There is a high degree of erotic attraction here which surpasses passion in its intensity.  A Scorpio woman is probably every Virgo man’s secret fantasy.  At least half the time he’s with you, he’ll be thinking “If this is a dream, don’t wake me up.”

Degree of Friendship:

These two can be exceptionally devoted friends.  Virgo can sooth the trouble waters of Scorpio like no other and reduce the enormity of her concern to pragmatic details that can be easily taken care of.  At this, she will marvel.  In turn, the Scorpio woman can provide emotional support and push forward the Virgo man forward in his career.  These two will always have plenty to talk about as friends, too.  They are perhaps at their best in this function.  Many a Scorpio woman has taken a Virgo man under her wings and helped guide him through the morass of political snares because she understands the undercurrents of the group and the not-so-nice motives of some people (people do things that the normal Virgo would blush to imagine).

Degree of Marriage:

This can make a good marriage if the emphasis is on work, raising a family, and accomplishing things.  Virgo does not start out to set the world on fire, but many a Virgo becomes terribly successful by virtue of being so good at what they do.  Many Virgos are “the best in their field,” be it SCUBA diving, library science, or brain surgery.  Many Virgos wind up as consultants later in life because so many people have learned to look up to them.  Together, Virgo and Scorpio accomplish a lot.  If she is a Lady Macbeth-type Scorpio and he’s a Casper Milquetoast-like Virgo, of course it will be disastrous.

Progression of Relationship:

Virgo tends to do things right the first time, including courtship, but Scorpio may not be so easily led.  She may try to rush into sex as a means of getting power.  If only she knew how much better it would be to wait and do things his way.  The Virgo man will probably be forgiving of any mistakes the Scorpio woman makes — and quietly correct them.  As I said before, he will insist on treating her like a lady, even if she isn’t acting like one.  Virgos are the farthest thing from casual and impulsive.  The Virgo male will have his plan of courtship laid out carefully in his own mind, step-by-step, and it is probably a thing of great beauty.  If only she would “let it be.”  If you do just let it be, he will amaze and delight you, having put more thought into what might please you, than you can almost imagine.

Sex:

This is likely to be a strong point in their relationship.  Most Scorpio woman are masters at sex,  and exude confidence and expertise at love making, whereas Virgo prides himself on going to any extreme to make sure to please and fulfill their partner.  They will explore the ins and outs of sex, sharing many notes and details and points of interest.  And remember both these signs are perfectionists in their own way.  When they focus intensely on the erotic union, they will take years and years to explore all of the nooks and crannies of delight.

When It’s Over:

Scorpio has a reputation for bad endings, like the 3rd act of a Verdi opera.  It’s hard to bring Virgo down to that level.  Scorpio may rant and rave, threaten, stalk, and seek revenge, but it’s hard to carry through when the other party is disinterested.  Vindictiveness is a game for two.  If Virgo decides he must leave, he will do it the way he does everything — precisely and carefully, and with his own brand of honor.  What she keeps throwing down, he will pick back up, polish off and put back where it belongs, until everything is tidy and in order, drawing things to a successful conclusion.

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