North Node in 10th House
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Traditionally, the North Node in 10th House placement denotes great worldly success but troubles at home.
You came into this lifetime owing karma to your family. You may work exceptionally hard to provide and care for them. You should know you will rarely find appreciation. You were especially sensitive to your mother and early surroundings as a child. However, you will identify with your father as you grow older. As an adult carrier of the North Node in 10th House, you may have one child in particular who demands your energy and attention but who returns little to you. Your spouse is likely to be absent as a parent, emotionally or literally.
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Your family’s needs never seem to dissipate. You may feel forever bogged down by your responsibilities to them. This may include your responsibilities to the family of man, as well, since you tend to “adopt” new acquaintances. In fact, you probably turn everyone with whom you interact into a family member. This leaves you spending a great deal of energy. This energy is from trying to balance your need to do things for yourself with your need to do things for others. You attract and create these experiences to develop maturity.
Maturity means understanding the emotional needs of others. Once you “get” this lesson that comes with the North Node in 10th House, worldly success will come more easily. Later in life, you will relish the opportunity to provide stability and shelter for those who are in need. Until then, however, you must guard against resenting those dependent on you. Resist the urge to let family issues keep you from developing your full potential.
To speed your spiritual growth, be disciplined about a positive outlook. Go out of your way to expand your circle beyond your blood relations. Even if you are financially independent, you must work. This is the path to achieving the authority you so greatly desire.
As you make your way in the world, be wary of any unconscious tendencies towards classism or nepotism. Also be aware of how your family values may have shaped your ideas about career. Having the North Node in 10th House, you are deeply and psychically connected to your family. This gives you the energy to go out into the cold cruel world. Your task is to forge your own path.
It may help you to think deeply about the difference between status and vocation. While you can daydream that success and power will come to you in a certain way, what you have really incarnated to do in this lifetime is find something valuable to do for the group. When you make a substantial contribution to society, you will earn the authority you seek.
More than anyone else, natives with this placement of the North Node in 10th House feel a sense of destiny. It can be particularly difficult for women to channel this energy, depending on their circumstances. This is because the individual’s self-esteem comes from work and the achievement of goals, not domestic activities. If you know a woman quietly pushing to break the glass ceiling in her career, she probably has North Node in 10th House. These include Hillary Clinton, Geraldine Ferraro and Eleanor Roosevelt. Also Beyonce, Amelia Earhart, and Margaret Mead
You spent plenty of lifetimes in seclusion, meditating and pondering your soul’s development. This will be balanced in the current incarnation with lots of social activity. Though you are shy and a natural introvert, you will find your greatest happiness climbing the ladder of success. It may take the first forty years of your life to find the delicate balance between family and ambition that will allow you to focus on your career. Once you figure that out, the world is your oyster as the proud carrier of the North Node in 10th House.
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This is enlightening. I’m a 10th house NN in Gemimi. Aside from the emotionally or literally absent spouse (although my ex-huband was very much that way,) this is completely accurate. There is such guilt brought on by trying – and failing – to balance my family life vs my career.
Try not to be so fatalistic with this. North node in the 10th does NOT mean that you won’t have children that don’t appreciate you (in whatever way) and it doesnt mean what some of the commenters are saying either. My condolences if you have a child that is disabled in any way, but that has nothing to do with the north node. That’s such a fatalistic thought process, and it’s something that’ll scare people that come here to read this, so please refrain from thinking that astrology is causation to something. I don’t want to fear not having a happy home life just because some people have a few bad experiences on this post, so please try to not make this so particular? Especially because everyone born around the same time frame that happen to have the same rising sign would have a north node in the 10th and they don’t all grow up to have experiences like this, jeez.
Correction: it doesn’t mean that you WILL have children that don’t appreciate you
Me too! NN Gemini in 10th. Sadly there’s not much info about this particular combo online.
I have my north node in the 10th house (with no planets conjunct my south node in the 4th house of family) and this post regarding my birth family’s attitudes toward me is highly accurate. The more I put my attention and energy into non-blood relatives and into helping the world through my career, the more balanced my life becomes. My partner has his north node in the 10th house, however his south node in the 4th house is conjunct several planets. This changes the dynamic. He still benefits by staying very involved with his birth family. There is more reciprocation and appreciation from them to him compared with my family situation.
North Node in the 10th house? Welp, time to kill myself.
Do you want to tell us what’s going on?
wow… this was spot on! thank you.
this is a very general description and not really accurate. nn in the 10th house is about integrating the early family expereicnes into your vocation and finding independence in that expression in a public form. by no means does this mean you will have an absent spouse or children who do not appreciate you ( HUH? where do you come to that conclusion without the sign on the house cusp or nn?) Im nn in sag I have an amazing hubby and great children who join me on all my teaching seminars. I advise to google and look around more
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I have nn in Tauras In 10th house,was raised by my dad my whole life, i cant keep a man Cuz they dont know how to BE Men, im Very good at my job, famous actully.and my kid dosent appreciate me but he’s maturing as he ages i found this description about 80% accurate as long as they’re talking about Taurus in the 10th house
In the interest of fairness and accuracy, what she said was that we with this placement would have one child who demands a great deal but who returns little to us. If you use your imagination to include the array of human experiences, you realize that this does not have to mean your kids won’t appreciate you. I can’t be so unkind as to suggest to you a list of possible ways that could still happen to you, but if you wanted to use your imagination a bit, I’m sure it would come. I have two children and one is severely disabled. I also have NN in the 10th. She is a heartbreak every single day of my life through no fault of her own. If anything, it’s my fault for being selfish and wanting kids and bringing her here. If I’d known what’s written above at the time I was setting that course for myself, and if anyone had come to me and told me how much pain everyone would be in, I would have made entirely different life choices. It would have deprived me of the love of my life, her younger sister, but I would not have known that then. I love my older baby immensely, but she hurts so much, both her own pain and mine, that sometimes I wish the end would come quickly, quietly and painlessly in her sleep in the near future because I think it would be far more humane on the Creator’s part, but what she has is autism (severe, low functioning) and mental illness, and people don’t physically die from that. Her future looks like nothing but a horror show. My spouse is everything Celestina described and my marriage is excruciating, but I have been kept from working because of my daughter’s disabilities and my family situation, so I didn’t get to build this fabulous career and wealth and choose not to be in a relationship that hurts. I’ve been studying astrology for a long time, but I didn’t understand nodal astrology well enough when I was making my life choices. What didn’t happen to me that Celestina wrote about was the great family of origin story. Mine was very painful and damaging. I do think I would have fulfilled this north node much more fully had that not been true, and not been so co-dependent in my relationships or been so hell bent on marriage and kids that I forgot about me. I have south node in 4 (obviously) with Mars conjunct.
I would love to believe that at 50, I can still do it. I mean…I do have Saturn directly on my MC. Isn’t that supposed to delay these things?
In my life before the family, I relate very directly to what Mike said above, especially in the first 3 sentences or so. We’re very close in age, with similar placements.
I have thought about your post so often since I first read it a few weeks ago. I hold you close to my heart. From your post, I couldn’t tell what it is you are still hoping to create after 50 (a career?), but whatever it is, I do think you can still manifest and build something meaningful. It’s not too late.
I am so happy to hear someone with these placements enjoys a loving a fruitful life….
Im fairly young, and these placements can been condemning in a way that makes me never want to have a family.
Hi Jessica. Thanks for your comment on this. Please can you explain further on what you mean by “…integrating the early family expereicnes into your vocation and finding independence in that expression in a public form” ?
Thanks
Thank you for this! My NN is in Sac too and I was like whaaaaaat?! An absent spouse?
thank you for your insight!
Thank you 👌 right on spot
I agree. Each sign in the 10th house is literally worlds apart.. this is general however some things generally can apply to all of us 10th housarians , 😆
I understand that first comment all too well! I have Aries NN in 10th house, and life has been a constant struggle to survive! I’ve listened to all the “grown ups” in my life continually degrade my self-worth, as well as make a mockery of what I felt was my destiny, which is related to the music I write. I was born with quite a number of disabilities, making it nearly impossible for me to ever be understood, no matter many times I reiterate myself. North node in Aries, but Venus/Mercury conjunct in Pisces in the 9th. Sure, I have Mars in Aries, as well as Saturn in Aries, in the 10th house. I’m 48 now, and am at the end of my rope! I feel I’ve made a compete failure of my life being the beaten down thing that everyone has manipluated me into. I can’t find a job that I am allowed to,keep,for,more than 3 years, and right now, no one wants to hire me due to this poor record. I am not a bad person, I am not lazy, just have spells of misfortune. As a plus, moon in Capricorn on the 6th/7th cusp makes me want to just jump in front of the next train. I know I was supposed to get past all that, but I have tried so hard, and am ready to just end it. I’m at wits end! Of course, tomorrow, I’ll feel embarrassed for even admitting that, and probably much better, but days like this are just unbearable. I’m at a dead end, facing a brick wall, with a one way sign leading to that wall. I read so much about Aries north node, and have done all I can to find my way through it…and this is where I keep ending up. Good to get that off my chest anyway.
Hi Mike
how you doin?
Ugh Pisces NN in 10th House conjunct Pisces Venus. Why? Literally, I’ve asked WHY so many times, just in 2016 alone!
It’s been a constant struggle to be my own person and do my own thing without feeling like I have to give in and be a self-sacrificing martyr all the time. There’s no way I was born for the sole purpose of catering to the whims of others at the detriment of my own self-development! Could my Chiron in the first have anything to do with that?
Where’s the balance to this though?
I have Chiron in the first as well. NN 10th House Aries….
The only escape to what you have written is to to take the leap of faith….. I did it… you might have to leave people behind (temporary) but once you have the foundation they can come back… they’ll be mad, but what matters is… the end results…. and i can tell you…as of 9/21 doors are opening on their own…. do the work
As if I need more challenges in this life. I see my Taurus 10th house NNode at 28+ degrees is conjunct Nessus and Varuna. No wonder my bosses have always been abusive aholes. I also have 8th house stellium opposing my U/P Rx exactly conjunct and Neptune conjunct SNode in 4th house of Scorpio.
Thank you so much. This is so right on, and exactly what I needed at this point in my evolution. It answers so many of the questions that I have been sitting with recently. Many blessings to you
me too!! Blessed by this info
Nm 10th house…in gemeni! It’s like my whole chart just conflicts and contradicts itself. Pisces sun, Virgo rising. Leo moon Aquarius merc…and others I cant think of!
Me too! Same with the chart… what a mixup hehe 😉
Nm 10th house…in cancer! It’s like my whole chart just conflicts and contradicts itself. Pisces sun, Virgo rising. Leo moon Aquarius merc…and others I cant think of!
Sorry I posted twice! My NN is in cancer not gemeni.
This is the most enlightening understanding of my 10th house Leo North node. I did everything I could for my mother, my father was absent, and my kids who are now adults I am estranged from. Thank you. I understand now my love of rescuing animals and birds. The actually appreciate it.
Thank you for the note, Lana.
I was a foster child my mom didn’t want me. In a couple years I’ll be forty and Im a loner. My north node is also in Leo and I don’t know what to do? Can someone teach me how to make a living with astrology? Some promise it but want alot of money but I live paycheck to paycheck. Is it possible to achieve this worldly success without family and alone? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
What if you were a foster child and have to do it alone and without money and mine is in leo. It seems impossible or next impossible?
my mean north node moon at my natal charter is at 022.29 and my True Node 1.51.1.D also in Aquarius
. My Asc at .9.22 in Aquarius. my 7 house in Leo now progressive Mean and True moon nodes in 12 house along with Chiron. AND PROBLEMS I HAVE WIHT A GROUP week they change to reform the org for better they resist and abused their position against me now i took them to court wonder what is happened no judgement is out yet, i seek justice and change which will benefit me and others now and in the future. wonder what is to happen . all that happened to me is been very painfull. any help ?
I got to say that this description of the 10th house was a bit unsettling. Sometimes you have to be wary of astrologers describing in only a negative way. With anything there’s balance. That’s life’s way. Just as your sign has positives and negatives, so does your planets and nodes in which ever house there in. Why did who ever wrote this not add the positive side of the nn in the tenth? It’s strengths. I’m not saying it rubbish or anything. Just that make sure you keep self love and real success and power is from self not from outer sources. I agree that there’s something with family. I don’t talk to my mother or father but the point is to learn. From troubles with my parents I learned that real authority is self authority. People see that in me and don’t try me. If they do, they firmlfirmly get out back in there place. These circumstances what she described, wont happen if you you know your worth, know you have the power and self love.
Unsettling but true and a bit scary as to how accurate it was. But it allowed me to have a better understanding of what, and why things have taken place. Too bad I didn’t learn about my Natal chart at a younger age. But to be 33 years old I still have a chance to follow the true path I was place here for.
My NN is in my 10th house in leo…28 degrees…right when the total eclipse is tomorrow…hahaha…should I be concerned?
So Crystal, was there anything to worry about?
That’s the best article on the NN in the 10th house. It fits me. Thank you, Celestina! Both of my NNs are in Pisces sharing the 10th house with Kiron Aries. I am just a newbie in Astrology but I wish I knew some of these things years ago. I think I paid, I have repaid and I will repay the owning Karma to my family in this life, for many lives to come. I am the only child and my mom has done everything for me after she got divorced. When the time had come to move on with my life, I could not leave her behind thinking she has no one else; when my transiting Kiron went in to the 10th H, she fell ill – that’s a hard payback on me, a long term chronic disease with more downs than ups. Years ago, I was in a toxic relationship and I ended up being a single mother for a physically disabled child. He cannot do anything for himself, let alone for me. I still am a single mother with a 20yo disabled son now and an ill mom. When my ex had left years ago, he left me with nothing and with the little one. Luckily, I had and still have a job. I had to leave my country and become an emigrant so I could be able to survive and make a living for my family. There is no life, time and strength left for myself. I asked myself many times what can I do to ease my life? This is why I got interested in Astrology, even though it is too late for preventing. The truth is I could not and cannot do anything, whether I know or I don’t know Astrology. The only thing I can do is pray for strength.
My job is very demanding, in healthcare. I work only night shifts so I can be at home during the day for my family. Everywhere I turn in my life I see pain, death and suffering. It’s been so hard along the way that I’ve lost any strength and desire to move on with my career. The only thing that helped me to keep myself together and carry on, it was to surrender to life, live in the present and go with the flow. There is no ladder of success for me to climb. Climbing a ladder means more responsibilities, and I think I have more than enough on my plate. As for social life, God, out there are only people who complain, and complain about everything and anything from above to below, and from below to above, when they actually have no real reason to do that. Because of this, I prefer my bedroom and a good book when I have a little time instead of going out. And for some reason, the very few friends I have, they always open up to me with their little problems. I keep quiet and I listen to them, even though sometimes I feel like telling them “shut the f.ck up!”. They don’t even realise that they should not complain to me. They have families, they healthy, they have good lives, not rich but not poor either. I’ve been all along alone without any help, and I do not complain. Complaining won’t change anything. The only thing that scares me is that if there is God, after life, reincarnation, or anything like that, and I didn’t climb my ladder of success, will I come back to the same life? Don’t answer me, it’s just a rhetoric question.
Be blessed, Celestina! Xx
Oh, I can very much relate to your life situation. I am in my 70’s now and “retired.” I have a son with a mental disability and for the past 7 years have been more physically there for him (he has been in group homes for years). I had dual careers as writer and counselor. Most of those years were separated from family issues (put on the back burner). Balancing home and career was not easy. I guess it’s all about how you define success. I am very happy to give my adult son extra attention now, though I resented it in the past. I, too, started avoiding complaining friends. As you say, “they have no idea.” Well, maybe it’s time to tell them what it’s truly like. In writing, poetry, or face to face. I’m very independent, confident, and have a don’t give a damn attitude now, cannot relate to “normal” families, found great guidance and friendship in Alanon, and value living the 12
Steps. I don’t worry about the next lifetime. Struggle has made me who I am today, and when I look around, I see that I have been living a much richer life. I wish you the best!!!
P.M.
Best comment I’ve read! Peace & Blessings to you.
I forgot to mention, Celestina, that my north node is 10th house, close to Saturn in Cancer in 10th. Been studying astrology for years as a hobby.
PM
I can certainly relate to both the description and your experience Mary.
I have NN in Taurus near my midheaven, opposed my Neptune in my natal chart. My mother was an astrologer and this description wowed me. I have two disabled children, one child without disabilities, and my husband died suddenly when the kids were young. It has been said by many that my home life is overwhelming and I am instantly forgiven for any mistakes. No one knows how I do it. I respect their point of view, but I also have Jupiter sextile my NN. I am far too relentlessly optimistic to accept that point of view as my own. The relationship between me and my two disabled children has been upended by professional obligations, undermined by friends and other family members, and pitied by many, but my personal fulfillment is unmeasurable. I see human intelligence and purpose in a way that many people don’t understand. I love freely without complications, and the two children that still live with me in their own adulthoods support my personality in a way I never imagined being supported. They support me in the way I never thought I would ever find in another human being, and this is partially because they learned from the way I accepted their intelligence and worth since the day they were born. I never dreamed of this as a gateway to what I was looking for all along. I was just following my own instincts the same way many parents do when they have children with disabilities. Yes, I sacrificed enormously for my children in the absence of their father, but what I found was what I never even knew I was looking for in life. Epiphany is a beautiful thing. I could look at my life as a series of unfortunate events, but somewhere in the background is the faint whisper of the scent of roses. It calls me out and tells me over and over again that professional recognition is an illusion. What is real is in how I support others and how that same support comes back to me even when I am too busy to notice it. It comes back to me even when it is not what another parent would recognize as support. The NN is also square my ascendant. My point of view doesn’t mesh with the social norm, and I could let this bother me. I don’t like all the pity, but I can also choose to concentrate on that faint scent of roses. Which brings me back to Neptune opposed the NN. I am, for all intents and purposes, delusional, but regardless of where the answers lay, I can’t live someone else’s idea of reality. (The is the hardest part of being the parent of a child with disabilities. Everyone has an opinion on how you should do it, nearly every opinion is different, and if you suffer any setbacks it is your own fault for not listening to whoever it was you weren’t listening to.) Oiy! Yet, don’t discount me yet because that same beleaguered NN is also trine my Pluto/Uranus conjunct in Virgo. This aspect is only off by only a degree or two. I also have my Venus/Mercury conjunct and adjoining that same ascendant in hard aspect to both my NN and my Neptune. On top of that, Venus and Mercury are in the twelfth house. Think about it, the twelfth is traditionally known as the house of self-undoing, but what are the positive connotations for a woman with two disabled children and the moon trine Venus/Mercury from Sagittarius. One comment further down mentions the negativity assigned this aspect, but there is always another possibility. What we are in hard aspect to is often just the fuel that our more positive aspects require to shine. Yes, I have an overactive imagination, but I smell the roses and maybe that is the success I came here to achieve. If not, I guess I will look somewhere else.
You stole the text from grupovenus but ok, your saturn website is nice 😉
I wrote the content myself and stole from no one — further, I’ve never heard of this site — so if you can provide me with a URL perhaps I could make sure they aren’t borrowing from me without attribution.
Do you utilize out of sign conjunctions? I am Pisces rising with north node 3° Sagittarius in my tenth whole house. I have Saturn in the ninth whole house in 26° Scorpio. Do you consider that a conjunction?
Do you use whole houses or another method?
Thank you for this – Taurus is in my north node and is in my 10th house and with Uranus going into Taurus I’ve stared to do some in-depth research. Everything you’ve said is spot on. I have a very high level job, but feel guilt when I can’t so all the PTA stuff for my daughter. Just now realizing I’m actually being a better role model for her (self sufficient) than what her dad expected of me (supermom – support him and be at every single grade school /sports event). It’s been a real tender spot and I’m finally realizing it. I mean – a volleyball coach shouldn’t have control over my work schedule right? Then why so I feel guilt….. see? Perfect article for me.
One of the reasons for my divorce was that my ex expected me to be the super career woman AND be super mom – at every event with cookies. No way could I meet those expectations. Felt a lot of guilt about it, now resolving that. Hopefully this Uranus transit through my 10th house (taurus) will help me clear the past negativity.
I looked up my birthchart in cafeastrology.
in my tenth house i have an aries midheaven. I have a north node in Libra. What does this mean?
This was spot on! My husband passed away unexpectedly and I was left to care for 3 young children on my own. One of my children is severely disabled and needs round the clock care. This prevents me from having a career or a social life. I’m trying to learn how I can balance my home life with a career, but I’m having a hard time figuring it out. Lately I have felt down about it. But I will never stop trying.
That sounds so difficult, Claudia. I’m sorry. Courage!
Wow, what a post – an eye opener-but reading the comments I am finding the closet to my situation. I have Aries 10th house with stellium of NN and Chiron both 0 degrees midheaven, venus 6 degree and saturn 20 degrees – also 4th house stellium pluto, south node, uranus and jupiter, then 5th house stellium mars, moon, neptune….my first child is severley disabled with CP, my husband has electro-hypersensitivity – which makes life very difficult in this modern technological age and my middle child has high functioning autism (gets lost on the way to the loo, but incredibly funny and intelligent). We only planned on 2 children, but we went for 3 and I have a beautiful younger daughter. I agree with ‘rather stay at home and read a good book than go out with people that moan about their lives that are actually not that bad’ and I am so so wanting to be in the 10th house especially with regard to environment and health!…My circumstances have made me face so much stuff and I have really delved deep (moon scorpio, Sun 8th house Aquarius) and done so much healing of myself and also…. my kids, and husband through shamanic practices, past life karmic clearing. I feel that all this stuff thrown at me in this life has been done in order to heal not just myself, but to clear lives of past influences and restrictions of those close to me, When the universe keeps throwing you curve balls you have to go ok, I need to deal with something here and that is what I have done. I am now coming up to my Chiron return, God knows whats going to be next and if i will get to the 10th house – I so hope I will as I have this inner drive to help heal the world…..Sending so much love and support to you all, it is so tough being a parent to a disabled child
Donald trump also has north node in the 10th house like hillary clinton. Interesting…
I also have a north node in the 10th house.
I am pisces sign i have north node conjunct moon in aries 10th house and jupiter conjunct midheaven 29degree pisces mars in 11th house my mother live in another countries I live with my father and my mother wants me to go to live in another country to work
This description of the knots is great I do not feel comfortable in my native country I had to make a lot of sacrifice for the good of my family of origin now it is time to leave
I have my NN in Virgo 10th house and Midheaven, I have Saturn in 10th house. Sag rising, Pisces moon in 4th & SN. I have been interested in astrology and have never come across such description as this one, I must say it really caught my attention. I got into astrology to understand what was going on in my life, my purpose, and why I have gone through so much turmoil. There has been this pull and tug with family, that seems to never end! I’m estranged from my both brothers, as they only seek me when they need something, I have cut off a lot of family, if not all, for this very same reason! I have problems trusting others, as this has played out a lot, I rather be on my own than to be taken for granted or be used. No thanks! I am better off on my own. My son, like many others have commented before me, is special needs as he born with a severe heart condition that is both rare and incurable. I am often at odds, balancing my emotions and not dwelling deeply in the sadness of having a sick child and feeling powerless, not knowing when or how things will end. It is both a beautiful experience and at times overwhelmingly difficult. I feel at times like I cannot endure or continue to live this way. I am isolated, a lot by choice but also my sons illness. I cannot seem to meet any genuine, sincere honest men, I’ve read that Virgo’s marry late in life. I’ve never been married which I find, somewhat depressing. I know there’s more to live for but it would be great to have a life partner to share life with and not just endless struggles and overcoming of turmoil. I have my mom that helps me with my child, as his father is not present (my choice). He was no good and besides the fact that I now regret having chosen to have gotten pregnant by him, but also choosing to have a child with such a horrific disease, I pray sometimes for his and my pain to both end. I love him dearly, but in no way did I ever see this being my life or for my child to suffer or live this way! Being at service or paying out karma to my family, their drama and needs of family, never ends or is never enough it seems. I have just gotten to the point where I just want to be left alone by family and people. So called friends (fakes) because they only seem to come around to get something from me, or to use me. No thank you! My son’s developmentally delayed, possibly on the spectrum but still have not been diagnosed, he is now 7. On top of this, I have my mother who looks down on me, by slick way of words, judgmental looks, or judgmental criticism period! Btw, she is a Virgo, my son is a Virgo rising. He is a Capricorn and Leo moon. I find it interesting that my NN is in Virgo, in Saturn, and in the Capricorn house! My Jupiter is in Leo 9th house. I’m Sagittarius asc. I wish I had known what to look for and possibly made different decisions when it comes to being a mom and family. I never even really wanted kids, and the crazy part is that I knew I should not had gone through the pregnancy. I had this feeling about something but did not listen to my instinct and I knew, I should not have gotten pregnant by his father. I have Neptune in 1st house too and I just know things somehow, that’s why I prefer to avoid majority of people and crowds. It seems that I am meant to overcome my comforts of home and solitude, to be “social” and be out in the world. Sigh. My sun & Venus are both in 7th house in Gemini. I’ve always wanted my own business, my father a Libra (coincidentally) had a few businesses too.
This is dead on! big facts! the person below really not know her chart because I know how to read mines and this i right on point! Thank you!!!
Hey, I’m an 18 year old college student reading this. With no children or husband obviously. Most of these comments are discouraging but I’m still pretty optimistic, and am excited for the future. I’m also grateful that I’ve gotten into astrology as young as I am, so I can be ahead of the game lol. Any advice for me?
Btw I have my NN in Gemini in 10th house. So far I can only relate to the rough childhood, but I’m blessed to say that regardless, I have a loving family although they do get on my nerves most of the time. The only thing that worries me is the possibility of having disabled children or an absent husband? Anyone feel free to give me advice!
I have north node in Libra in the 10th house. The north node is at 29 degrees. I also have Mars in the 10th house libra. and my mid heaven is also libra. please advise…….
I do not want an absent spouse……
I do not want a child parent dynamic listed above….
yet so many other things re: family / career are correct. especially regarding breaking the glass ceiling.
I agree 100% with this astrologer I am a women and I have my North Node in Virgo 10th house with Mars conjunct Jupiter conjunction to the North Node in natal chart it is exactly what the author described it. I try to fight it go back to my South Node in Pisces but the North Node keeps pulling me by dissolving my comfort zone having me fight my way to an unknown future. For a cultured woman this is very scary Bringing a good name to your family status is just as important as being a shadow parent you have to balance both.
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North Node 10th house Scorpio. This is eerily accurate! Starting with my mom, one child & emotionally absent spouse . I spent the 1st 30+ years completely focused on & recklessly devoted to my own & extended family , I became resentful because there was zero appreciation & never ending expectations it took a life altering accident for me to finally learn balance my needs & set boundaries for myself & others. Now at 54 I’m creating a life I enjoy ,the past has becoming lessons worth sharing . There are days I wish I knew sooner & feel guilt for ” wasted ” years ,thankfully they occur much less due the understanding I am who I am due to these experiences. Today life is filled with beautiful experiences &opportunities to grow & become .