Capricorn Woman and Aquarius Man Compatibility
Famous Aquarius-Capricorn Couples:
Carla Bruni and Nicholas Sarkozy, Helena Christensen and Michael Hutchence, Loretta Young and Clark Gable, Christy Turlington and Ed Burns, Ali Wentworth and George Stephanopolous
The Aquarius man and Capricorn woman couple falls into the archetypal Greek realm of logos and eros. Aquarius is “the word” and Capricorn is “the word made flesh.” Together they make the perfect pair. Aquarius is the visionary, master-minding in the conceptual range of pure archetype. Capricorn will draw the vision down into reality and ground it with commitment and structure. They are mysteriously drawn to each other because of this hidden bond; each is only half without the other. Capricorn brings out the visionary aspiration of the Aquarius because she has the potential of making it real.
How to Attract a Capricorn Woman as an Aquarius Man:
If you are an Aquarius man trying to attract a Capricorn woman, it actually helps if you have your mind on other things. She expects you to be tripping out in the universe and she is eager to help you deal with the reality of people, places and things, while your inclination is to stay with forms and ideals. You are the architect for her building. Because of this connection, your first conversations may be rather peculiar and abstract. You may now know what you are fishing for in each other. The more you talk to her, the more inspired you will become until you realize that it is her energy that is giving you the extra realm of possibilities that suddenly becomes obvious to you. It doesn’t even matter if she understands what you are talking about; it’s all her energy.
How to Attract an Aquarius Man as a Capricorn Woman:
If you’re a Capricorn woman trying to attract an Aquarius man, what you need to do is to get interested in what interests him. Your attraction to him will be based on your potential ability to ground his vision. He is attracted to your practical nature and your substance as a woman. Unlike other men who may find you a little boring or staid, you are exactly what this man is looking for. Ask practical questions. Question everything. Be the ladder that Jack in the Beanstalk climbs down to reach the earth. You also need to be tolerant of his eccentricities. It doesn’t matter if he’s smarter than you are. What he’s looking for is a sounding board. Just talking to you helps him straighten out his thinking.
Degree of Romance:
This combination can be very sweet in its attempt at being romantic. Neither sign is particularly gifted with the Romantic Gene, but for some reason when they get together, they start to feel like they should be. Each will be very tolerant of the other’s attempts at romanticism, rudimentary as they are. Each will appreciate the attempt to include romanticism on the menu of an otherwise pretty strict diet.
Degree of Passion:
The Aquarius man seems to feel the need to present passion at times but really it is not necessary and it isn’t well-conveyed by an air sign. Air signs like Aquarius are meant to be detached, cool, logical and even distant in their relations with people and feelings. It’s better to stick with what you know. Aquarius is a very loyal sign, although only around half the time. Loyalty will have to pass for passion with the Aquarius. It won’t make any difference to the Capricorn woman who does not give a feelings-value to passion.
Degree of Friendship:
The Capricorn woman and Aquarius man can be splendid friends. They collaborate well together. They have an equal degree of commitment, intelligence, and scope of understanding. They both think The Big Picture. They like working with large-scale models. They have leadership styles unique to them, and they enjoy being productive. They will be more challenged if they try to build a friendship on leisure, as neither is particularly leisure-oriented. They may very well make the perfect team.
Degree of Marriage:
The Aquarius man and Capricorn woman is a great combination for marriage. If they are attracted to one another, it is on a serious wavelength of productivity and commitment. They respect one another for their intelligence and integrity. They learn to rely on one another for results. They tend to focus on the overall result rather than the details, which is something they have in common as well. For something with as big a scope and longevity as the idealized, committed, marriage partnership, these two have what it takes to bring it home. Aquarius keeps drafting new plans as times change. Capricorn keeps bringing them back to the drawing board when they don’t fit reality any more. Capricorn woman and Aquarius man is a real winner.
Progression of Relationship:
The relationship will move along at a steady pace. Both signs are likely busy with other things and only able to meet once or twice a week. They will tend to pass that meeting with quality time. The level of conversation will be quite high. They will focus immediately on future goals, and begin to dovetail their characteristics together as a team. Each meeting will seem to be the natural outgrowth of the one before. Capricorn is cautious, but Aquarius can be cautious too. They are likely to move slowly but surely toward a shared teamwork effort. This is one relationship where the woman is absolutely equal to the man in input and responsibility.
Sex:
Sex will have a more prosaic dimension with this combination than with any other involving Aquarius. For some reason he is much more grounded with a Capricorn woman. She brings out his more conservative nature. He is likely to supply a steady supply of sex at particular intervals. This is responding to her needs as well as his. There will be little variety in the love-making. It is best looked at as a means of communication and the way to stay in touch with each other’s vibes.
When It’s Over:
It’s over when Aquarius has enough. He does not lose his temper easily but if something happens that cools him off, he may disintegrate into cold very rapidly and it will be very difficult to warm him up again, and you will see the famous closed mind of the Aquarius. She will feel locked out and confused because he has never failed to listen to her before, but his mind will be made up, and there is no changing it.
part of me hates astrology and doesnt believe a word of it, and yet when i read this, and i see my capricorn girlfriend i have to say to myself, what if? how could this be so accurate? i have nothing else to say besides this article is really strange and coincidental
Thanks for stopping by the site and giving me some feedback. Many Aquarian men are natural astrologers.
I am a Capricorn woman involved with an Aquarian man for over 4 years. I am stunned by the accuracy of the description. Just stunned. I have actually talked about how I can bring his vision to fruition and he has referred to us as a “team”. I am familiar with astrology and this is the first compatibility text which nailed what I am experiencing as part of a couple and as a Cappy gal. Well done and THANKS!
Thanks for the detailed and enthusiastic feedback and good luck with your Aquarian honey.
WOW I haven’t even physically met my Aquarian yet, and I have experienced most of those traits through conversation. and we will be meeting very soon, and already the chemistry is almost unbearable. As a Capricorn I find myself to be more similar to his traits in personality, but the grounded, and serious side is strong.
Thanks for the great feeedback. Thanks for visiiting the site. Tell all your friends.
Thanks for this great analysis! But why is the celebrity couples section blank? For Capricorn femme-Aquarius man couples, there are: Carla Bruni-Nicholas Sarkozy, Helena Christensen-Michael Hutchence, Loretta Young-Clark Gable. I’m sure there are others, but these are the only ones that come to mind at present. Thanks!
I’m back. Just thought of a couple more Cappy girls with Aquarius blokes: Christy Turlington-Edward Burns, Ali Wentworth (actress) – George Stephanopolous. OK, I’ll stop now. You’ll have me on the payroll next! Have a good evening, Vero
Thanks! I’ll add them.
Seems like the aquarian man benefits more in the relationship than the capricorn woman but since she seems to be in ‘control’ of him and steers him on path I guess her needs are fulfilled…
@Biased
Ya’ think????????
As a Capricorn woman, I have never been in a Romantic relationship with an Aquarius but I have been somewhat courted by three of them and the similarities are uncanny. Even though I never dated one, I experienced that rapid coldness, it’s pretty devastating.
well,as a capricorn woman i have known a guy for years but has never spoken to him about relationship till we saw this and read together…he is aquarius.and we seem to get along so well….this i read has made me realise that even if we come together one days we will be just so good for each other.he is all i read and i am all i read too…how amazing….babe i am waiting for that day….
I am going to meet an Aquarius male this weekend that a friend is setting me up with. This is the first and ONLY site where what I read does not make the Aquarius male sound like a total DICK. I only hope you are right.
I am a capricorn woman and am starting to like this Aquarian Man… And after spending whole evening trying to read about the compatibility between the 2 signs, I finally have one article and so many comments which make me feel better. I think my going over all these articles and trying to find about ‘us’ says everything about me as a carpicorn 🙂 … thanks for such a wonderful analysis. I haven’t met him yet but I really wish to… and there is so much in him that I really have liked him a lot.. and keeping my fingers crossed.. I wish this works out
In school and have had a shit load of great evenings with an Aquarius man. although we know we can never be together due to our circumstances it seems like we connect on some deeper level than most people do. this is the first article I’ve read where my feelings and the feelings I get from him are acurate. I hope one day we can grow up and maybe have a meaningful relationship. regardless I love the way I feel when I’m with him even if we are just playing video games.
i am a cappy gal in head over heels in love with my aquarius man! He doesn’t scare me off, he keeps me on my toes and the sex omg, is awesome! The chemistry is sooooo indescribable. I lose my cool when he is around. He is just sooo awesome and yeah there is like a big age difference! I’m the cougar and he is still rockin my world! We were NOT friends first, neither. I thought it was gona b a one nite stand and now it’s like 5 months now…
I had a sort of meaningful friendship based thing going on between an Aquarius male…it was very, very strange, unlike anything I’ve ever experienced before. The electric between us was off the hook!…And then I blew it. Now he wants nothing to do with me. I honestly don’t know specifically what I did except at out of my character because I was going through some upheavals in my life. He had high expectations for me and I guess I let him down…i guess there is no hope for us to ever be friends again. It was great while it lasted though, and I sure did learn my lesson.
I’m a capri woman, and I liked this article a lot. I have an aquarian friend for just over a year and though we clicked instantly, we have had our shares of disagreements and fights all along. Lately, we had this one night of passion and it was so incredibly awesome. I’m not sure if it is ever going to turn into a serious relationship or whether it might ruin our friendship…. Frankly, I am quite apprehensive about the future as I would never want to lose him as a friend. Any advice?
@Vero Thanks for the tips of celebs.
@Mia Not to worry. Aquarians can mix sex and friendship, no problem.
Interesting read. I am an aquarius male dating a cappy female. much of this is so true. We are a great team when we are doing anything together and we couldnt be happier. I am the younger one and we have been seeing each other for about a year. One thing I do get frustrated with, is her tendancy to “show me that she is going to do something regardless of me and my decision, advice, and feelings.” One thing I have to know is, do I stand my ground and show her I will not tolerate the behavior and that there are consequences for her actions, or do I stand down and do or say nothing. She is the love of my life for the first time in a long long time and I would give her the world, Im just not going to feel like I said nothing at all when its hard enough as it is for me to open up. “What was she thinking” 🙂
Well actually i hav one capri woman as my frend and generally we argue fr nothin .. we hav verbal fights almost evryday. i am aqua. and i m not getting why we both are behaving so ?
Is that the stars are nt allowing us to become frenz ?
acording to the givin discription it shud be something different but its not evn goin in that direction! I want an explaination to it Please !
Thank YOu !
Nancy, any direction or advice? I sense its the stubborness in both but general rule says we should be compatible if we understand each others quirks. I also sense the true comment of cappys age backwards so to speak. The older it seems the more she seems to display teenage like behavior. “Play along or ignore” who knows?
More likely Aquarius to display the teen behavior!
Nancy thanks so much for putting up those Cap-Aqua couples… I think I was feeling a tad over-zealous that night. great site, I hope you keep adding to it (p.s. I loved the Scorpio-Aqua analysis; tots made me jealous LOL)
@Clark I am a Cappy girl in love with younger Aqua boy. One thing I notice is we’re both really proud.
I’d def tell her how you feel…no good to bottle things up…maybe try to tell her in a humorous way, i.e. ‘we’re both pretty strong-willed, we should try & take turns with our stubbornness ‘ hahaha, give her a kiss and laugh it off…
be patient if you can 🙂
good luck, space creature!
Like my friend before me CJ I have Been seeing an Aquarius man as a Capricorn woman. we met a few times before he asked me to be his “friend with benefits”. I happily agreed! I am young and though I am
not one to sleep around I have alway felt comfortable with him so I knew I could detach myself from every catching deep feelings. Well I guess I was wrong. next thing I knew we were spending more and more time together. the conversations were long and the sex was amazing but the next morning he would treat me like a stranger.I started notice we would become jealous of eachothers other romantic partners. one night he opened up to me more than usual and told me he was jealous of the other guy I was seeing and it made him sick to know he wasn’t the only one, yet he never wanted anything serious because I was talking to other people. but why would I give up other men for a playboy like him. now that we live thousands of miles apart there is little communication. He will text me once every bluemoon and tell me he misses me but nothing ever more, not even a reply back to my “miss you too!” Deep down inside I feel as if something could work between us if he wouldn’t be so distant and I could put my pride to the side. I am returning to where we met in a few weeks should I try to contact him or leave things as they are? Please help!!!
I am a capricorn woman and inlove w/ an aquarius man. one thing that I’ve noticed is that.mostly woman are more older than men.when it comes to this relationship.based on my own.I’m a year older than him. I’m so into him,though we haven’t met yet.we just talk through fb or twitter.we don’t talk that very often but when we do.he makes me smile a lot! he’s very sweet,a truly gentle man,always cheers me up,telling me not to be down(as a capricorn.we’re very pessimist!) but all of a sudden there were days where he’ll became cold, not talking to me for days.ignoring me.sometimes I even make the first move.he confuses me a lot! I don’t know if he really likes me or just want to play around or be friends?? but there’s something about our conversation that sometimes make me feel that I’m special than any other girls that he’s been talking with..any advice nancy?? and oh, btw can you read a couples compatibility through their date of births??
Nancy, you are a genius, I recently met my Capricorn girlfriend and you bet, nothing has ever clicked like that for me in a relationship. I’m sure going to give this relationship my all, having read all you wrote about the two signs. Bundle of thanks for your genuity.
This article is one of the few that gives me hope! I have been in a difficult but rewarding relationship with an aquarian man for two years. Being a cap woman that he is just now learning to understand can be sooooo frustrating. But recently he has changed his cool behavior toward me and showed me what he threatened when we first met, that he’d never hurt me and never leave me. Odd for an aquarian man to admit so early, and i didnt believe him for over a year. Naturally pessimistic capricorn trait, but also worried his supreme coolness at first would last forever (IT DOESNT :DDDD), but to anyone in a Cap-Aqua relationship, KEEP AT IT. work together and it will be something to be reckoned with.
I have the pleasure of being married to an Aquarius man for sixteen years(I am a Capricorn girl, of course!) For the first few years, we argued alot, but that’s only because we are both strong-willed and independant individuals. As time went on, we learned when to let the other take the “lead”. This advice is for the ladies, when your Aquarius man is angry with you, back off and give him space, he’ll come to you when he’s ready to talk. And this advice is for the gentlemen, when your Capricorn lady has a problem, don’t stress about it! It’s not that she doesn’t value your input, she just wants to try and solve it without worrying you about it. Eventually, if she can’t solve the problem on her own, you will be the first to know. And just as a reminder, remember to always be honest with each other because both signs hate to be lied too.
I’m a Capricorn women married to a Aquarian man for 12 yrs we have 6 children. When we first me it was instant connection On every level even sex was awesome. After being together for a few more years he started to change a little being more withdrawn and etc and wanting more independence having second thoughts about having a family. Even thou I was doing everything in my power to work with him (I know about his traits and how I can work around them) nope didn’t work, We went thru tough times. but we are working on things now so far seems okay. Still continuing working with his traits But I can’t help but sometimes feel like it’s not fair that the Aquarian man has to be so stubborn and not work around mine as well and even sex is zero now. It just fusterates me that they are just so STUBBORN and refuse to. It seems to be all about him and his traits.
I’m a capricorn and i was talking to my aquarious man for 5 months before we actually met in person. You could already feel the strong chemistry between us! it was unbearably stong! after we met we dated for about three months and we got physical and everything was great. but i started to see a different side of him.. he started not caring as much about the relationship it seemed. and would get upset very easily. we broke up becuase things were too stressful. what happened? and how can i help fix this issue?
Aquarius men are very attractive (Capricorn woman here), but can be very narrow-minded. They are a fixed air sign. They don’t listen to anyone but themselves and once they form an opinion, that’s it: to them it’s fact. After that, they will just think you’re wrong…They can be very one-sided. Sure, they come up with futuristic ideas and they’re abstract thinkers, but don’t listen to ALL of it. They have a tendency to lean towards bigotry.
Mixed signals: he’s just not that into you. lol
Capricorn realist here.
hmm.. grain of salt. doesn’t compute with me. unfortunately. i wish i could read ourselves in this. earth and air… touching each other, yet never really mingling like other elements with each other. total opposites. two extremes with two strong goals and drive that just seem incompatible. 2 leaders. blind. both of them blind with that one eye with which the other one sees. it just seems difficult to work out. i’ll have to tone down myself, and cease to be a real aquarian, and she will have try hard to rise higher than the touchable in order for this work out. i would eventually cease to be my real self, and so will she. or, we just stay next to each other, and learn to accept, and live and let live. but never wanting to part, in some strange ways. only point you are right about here -and don’t get me wrong, i like your perspectives and analysis on the signs and their correlation-, is that we can’t let go of each other, we are in some mysterious way magneting at each other, yet, never fully able to understand and accept each other. now, is it the air sign’s duty to rise even higher by lowering down in order to fully understand and accept her? is that truly a team play then? is that truly an equal, mutual exchange, or just a grand-pa vs grand child relationship? not to mention that, she is the one wanting to control, every single, existing thing, and i’m the one who actually can mold and adapt… tough one Nancy, i’m sorry, but on this one, although I really wished it to be true to somehow boost me up a bit more, I just can’t relate. oh yeah, another true thing. sex is great. not the best. tamed down a bit, more down to earth. and lack of romanticism from me? hmm, actually, full on full of romantic representations of myself. but not truly deeply involved from the inside. coldness, distance, true. she, not a partner, never will be. not supportive, doesn’t mingle with my life. says she doesn’t want to be a puppy and follow me around, and make perfect sense to me, although in the past i did like having my girl by my side. says she is crazily sexually attracted to me, and appreciates my brain, my soul, and my heart. but at the same time, those are the traits she hates in me, or more like, dreads and freaks about. so what now? should i slowly shift towards my rising sign? guess what, that’s aquarius too. my venus is also aquarius, so i’m doomed to be a tripple aquarius no matter what. can’t change, can adapt, but adapting means, developing newer and newer dimensions within yourself to the point of not seeming to be really sincere anymore, when dealing with this one dimension here or that totally different one over there. so what now then Nancy? could you please peer into this situation and give me some sort of guidance? or anyone? would be well appreciated. because i rarely search for guidance anywhere. i usually always arranged things for myself, and i usually was in better love situations than my peers. the only reason i dare writing here, is like AA, except it’s more like Broken Hearted Anonymous. she is stunning and unique. so am i, they say… she is famous. i’m kindof. she is not succesful anymore. i’m diligently getting there. she is very jealous and possessive. i am, and i’am not at the same time! we are hedonist people, love food, traveling and being lazy. but eventually she is the one ending to be really lazy whenever she wants, and i end up doing much more. she has unique, simple, ossified ideas about life, people and things. very cute and attractive to me. but never really high level. and i like it, because it always reminds me how simple and great can those things be that everyone seem to know how to handle but not me. but nonetheless, i still feel alone in my stratosphere. so i seek the company of my friends, male or females, who give me more satisfaction to hang out with talking for hours sipping time, drinking wine. she reads a hell lot of books, but doesn’t seem to be truly influenced by them. i only read a few ones, upon which i give myself more time to reflect on. i write more than i read. she has a diary. i don’t. she always goes back in the past. i always go back to the future, whenever i can. none of us can be in the present, fact. we are really bad at that. the present just makes us paranoid and scares us. she dreams every single night, and 99% of the time, no joke here, they are heavy and intense nightmares. i very rarely dream, or i don’t remember them, but when I do, they are intense and make me wonder. she can’t analyse and act by instincts. i analyse that too much. but that never really hindered my career, on the contrary. when i act by instinct, i’m dangerous she says. too free, too in the wild open. we both love jazz. her style is the one you can kind of follow through corridors, blindfolded, with your hands touching at the walls, not seeing anything, but kindod anticipating where you’re going. my style is the one walking through a corridor, not blindfolded, with wide open eyes, but in total darkness, with no walls to touch, not being able to anticipate where i’m going, which thrills me even more. she likes dogs and utterly hates cats. i like both, in different ways. i have a lot of friends of different walks of life. she has very few friends, but i wouldn’t call them intense bonding friends neither. she likes to be alone away from people. i like to be alone among people. she likes kurt vonnegut only. i like the guys from the beat generation. she likes me. i like her. she says she is deeply in love with me, but can’t properly show it. i say I am in love with her and show it too much, sometimes i wonder whether i’mnot overdoing. she likes me being wildly manly with others, but resents me for being even 5% of that with her. she isn’t patient. i try to be. i like mingling with people, she doesn’t. she loves shoes. i only have one pair. she cares about dressing style and fashion. i have my own. she like to be barefoot. i like to be barehead. so teamwork, yes, i could see it happening, like complementing each other. but what if the very source of those differences, our minds, our souls, our hearts and our pride just can’t cope?
we would like so much to work it out, it’s been 2 years of either amazing togetherness. or just horrible loneliness and grief.
happy for all of you people here, who could absolutely relate to the article. it’s all chinese to me at this point. and when i get the chinese astrology involved, it actually gets worse!
yet, we love each other and want to make it work so badly, knowing, that the other one is the most unique person we’ve ever encountered, and knowing that we absolutely do not want to lose each other. compromises became more like sacrifices rather than happy adaptation.
so what’s the word? help me please.
yours.
frustrated: true. thats what makes him a visionary right? on the other hand, can learn from mistakes, and can carefully listen to advices and preachers. true. they hold on to their ideas, and you will most of the time wrong. favorite phrase: “i know”.
cheesyhorse: date another man. truly, as intensely as you can. you will eventually end that one anyway, because deep inside you seem to be very still attracted to the aquarian, otherwise you wouldn’t have ask for advice, after your broke up…, and he, in the meantime will be more attracted to you, even though it will hurt him a bit.. but will see you from a different perspective. chances are though, that if you do get back together, he might fall back to his original self… your question is mine, i have no answer.
Will keep reading what everyone has to say … Capricorn women and Aquarius men … “WE” will be meeting soon … and it would be wonderful to see … what truly this article is all about .. till then I follow … As far as Capricorn women are concerned …. We are women who will do 500times more only and only if any man that comes across them just swears by commitment and integrity from a man !!!!! So if someone can just follow these two basic principles …. he has had her even before letting her know in words !!! All Aquarius men, may be just these two simple things can get you to her …. Romance, Love, Passion, Friendship and much more will automatically follow .. and you;;d get so much that it would be difficult to gather !!!!! Think about it and be positive …… when we are positive even the negative things about a person could be changed or rather be transformed to their positive things. Love to all … even those all other 10 signs too :)) !!
Will keep reading what everyone has to say … Capricorn women and Aquarius men … “WE” will be meeting soon … and it would be wonderful to see … what truly this article is all about .. till then I follow … As far as Capricorn women are concerned …. We Capricorn women will do 500 times more, only and only if any man that comes across them and just swears by commitment and integrity, the battle’s alredy won by 100% by you Aquarius men !!!!!
So if someone can just follow these two basic principles …. he has had her even before letting her know in words !!!
All Aquarius men, May be just these two simple things can get you to her, forever….
Romance, Love, Passion, Friendship and much more will automatically follow .. and you’d get so surprised that it would be difficult to gather !!!!!
Think about it and be positive …… when we are positive even the negative things about a person could be changed or rather be transformed to their positive things.
Love turns us around, question is are we truly loving the other ?????
Your assessment is so accurate- it’s exactly as you say. My aqua man and I hit it off from the start. My mysterious nature is what attracted him to me initially. That combined with my raw magnetism and the right dash of practicality drove him crazy about me. His creative abilities are quite formidable and he’s handsome and got a big big heart. I really don’t care for whatever troubles he’s got coz I know we’ll be able to resolve them – I totally, totally love him :-* This is a v stable pairing.
@Him32_vs_Her27
Maybe you need to figure out what you WANT from a relationship, yeah? No offense, but Aquarian men are known to collect acolytes for the sake of his ego. I have many Aquarian friends and I notice that they’re only truly comfortable with people who agree with them. Apparently they like me because I’m different from them, but there have been numerous occasions when my opinions were either unwelcomed, belittled, dismissed as naive, or downright silly/stupid. So, they like me because I’m different from them, but they’re also uncomfortable with the fact that I am. I guess you could say the challenge isn’t something they like.
As for holding on to ideas and whatnot…yes, I can see the potential for Aquarians being visionaries, but what kind of visionary do you have if you’re going to be detached from those around you? You might think you’re a good listener, but to your Cap, you’re not. The Aquarians I know aren’t very receptive and, much like others I know, they only hear and see what they WANT to hear and see. Everyone has a tendency to do that; I do too…but since I’m aware of those tendencies, I keep an eye out for it. See the thing is, Caps are all about perspective and the reason why you guys have a tendency to alienate us is because sometimes you think your opinions are facts… To us, opinions are opinions and we all have our own versions of the truth. From my observation, I see that Aquarians take it personally when their ideas aren’t agreed upon by others, which is why you’re probably uncomfortable with the fact that she is the way she is. We’re autonomous and, if we learn properly, we need very little from you (one of the reasons why you probably like her too is because she’s really low maintenance). What you may need to understand is that if she disagrees with your opinions, don’t take it personally. If anything, we think we’re doing you a favour by giving you perspective because that’s what we like to get ourselves. To us, it’s just a matter of putting things in perspective. You have your ideas that don’t make sense to me because oftentimes, the Aquarians I know, don’t have the analytical logic/reasoning to back it up(“I know”)…and when I ask for more explanation it only means that you don’t make sense to my way of thinking…but I find that when I ask for more explanation, Aquarians, again, dismiss me as not being as smart as they are –> and THAT is not cool. Everyone has a different mode of thinking no matter how much you generalize things. Another thing I noticed about Aquarians is that you guys can be TOO assumptive…just because you react a certain way due to an emotion or an idea, it doesn’t mean that someone else shares the same emotion or idea as you do just because they act similarly to you. Everyone is different and, to us, that is one of the most beautiful things in the world. You guys seem to know it too, but somehow, the Aquarians I know fail to reasonably APPLY their ideas to everyday life and just life in general…which is why we’re always wondering about you. I guess you could say Aquarians are more like theoretical Universities and Capricorns are more like practical application/learning College. Both are different, but similar and have an equal degree of value and existence. Just because you went to university and did theory and are highly intellectual, it doesn’t mean you’re smarter than the College graduate. The College graduate simply just has a different way of doing and understanding things. They sit at the opposite ends of the spectrum, and IMO, if you can find a way to compromise and learn how to value each other’s input equally, then it could be a tremendous potential for self-growth and, dare I say, enlightenment.
If there is anything us Cap girls need the most, it’s to be treated and held in the same regard in the same level as yourself. Isn’t this what people need anyway, regardless of zodiac sign? To be heard, respected, and considered without feeling like you’re being personally attacked? But that’s just me.
I’d also like to add: My Aquarian friends don’t feel comfortable with new social situations with people they don’t know. If they were to be put in a party with strangers that are connected to their partner or friends, they get uncomfortable. My theory is that you guys have an underlying deep-seated insecurity: my Aquarian friends are smart (and we all to some degree), but they don’t recognize how they’re smart because they see themselves objectively. Cap women, see themselves subjectively with consideration for objectivity. Unlike you, we care very little about what people have to say about us (we still get hurt, but we have an inner fire…mottos: “I use” and “I will get there in my own time. Stay out of my way.”) When we get hurt over what people say about us, we simply ADJUST our ways externally, but internally, we are often strong and sturdy.
So this is still a puzzle to me: you KNOW everyone is different, you KNOW a lot of things…what I don’t understand is that despite knowing these things you still strive for people to agree with you and get offended when they don’t… If you know that we are all different, then why do you have such a need for approval? You guys need to go to Capricorn College and us Caps need more insight to theories in Aquarian University, because all you’re giving us (at least from my observation) are conclusions to essays that don’t have the body, and sometimes the thesis is missing too. Again, we’re very autonomous and independent… if you can’t argue your point of view and you dismiss our input and/or inquiries, then your opinions/ideas, in return, will be dismissed as lacking in substance. Don’t ever impose your way of thinking: this, for us (me), is an indication of a possible co-dependent relationship. We want a partnership of equality, not neediness.
ya tru, partnership should have equality………but for a gud n healthy relationship equality might differ but perfect balance should persist….:)
Well after giving birth to an Acqua male and surving the teenage years as a capri woman I promised self to never ever get involved with one. I am very proud of my son and love our relationship but the challenge of getting him to understand the principles of his action and not me trying to control him is more frustrating then finding a needle in a haystack!! But I love our bond and I love the way we communicate, he makes me so proud when he accomplish things…however the stubbornness and the attitude that I don’t know what I am talking about followed by me showing or always explaining to get him to understand was enough to get me to the point of saying BOY I can’t wait until you get out of my house and live on your on however in my heart i have a feeling he will continue to need me to keep him grounded.
Well after 17 years of raising this aqua male and me counting down the days until he is grown (1 foot out the door and the other one right behind it) I came across an aqua male who has my interest and seems very cool. A part of me is like oh NO get out while you can, cause I do not have the patient to put up with his ways, but another part of me is like ok maybe he is the one, maybe he has outgrown some of his ways. I understand certain parts of the relationship will be great but it is the other part that has me in doubt!!
I agree they make great friendships with a capri woman, but not just sure if crossing the line is something i can handle. (won’t know unless i try it) Maybe I will or maybe I won’t.
Don’t have a problem with giving an Acqua male his space nor do I have an issue with him having his freedom to do whatever his heart desire…it is the principle of the way things are done…such as communication!! and as long as an Acqua male can understand and is open to comprising he can use his freedom to rescue a million people of a boat and I will be more than happy to hear all about it, giving him praises for a job well done…and he will be my hero as long as he don’t neglect any duties at home while rescuing the million people off the boat!!
I totally agree with everything but one thing aquarius man are not loyal..and are big liars and Are Very Secretive what they themselves wont stand for they expect you to. cause were usually always composed but their is only so much a cap can take. im not sayin this to bash any aqua man cuz when they love they love hard even if your love is for the moment. their egotistic they benefit more cuz they dont like settle. Their words can be make u feel beautiful then tare u down. If ur the type of cap that dont mind part time love than a aqua man is great cuz they have alot of highs & lows with them(repeats). As for me when & only when I know their finish playin the field & open up more I will welcome one into my heart. Cuz life is to short to wait for someone to figure it out. Lady caps theydo go back&fourth but I must say I do love the way they make love…if u think u can control a aqua man think again they get bored too quick.
I am a capricorn woman falling for a cap/aquarius cusp guy!! damn he is so fun and flirty and sexy as hell… I felt close to him right away, almost like I was home… Boy when we get to talking we could talk for hours about anything and everything! Well both of us are very independent… My heart tells me he is the one and it scares the crap out of me
@ Carla–sounds like the situation I’m having w/my aquarius. they’re crazy hot! can I ask what birthdates y’all are?
i’m a Capricorn woman and i am in love with a Aquarius man and we use to talk on serious tips like we were dating but we weren’t. we still had strong feelings for each other and then i messed up and its gonna be 2 years and he still refuses to talk to me . but its like my heart is telling me that hes the one. i don’t know weather i should consider trying to talk to him again or just leave him and move on.
leave him and move on……..as a capricorn woman with a current aquarius man…. when they r gone they r gone…….
Hello, I am a 21year old college student and there is a guy at my school who is about a year younger than me. I am a capricorn woman and he is an aquarius man. He seems like a very sweet guy and I really do like him. Today we actually had our first real conversation and it seemed like he WANTED to talk to me. Could this mean that he feels the same about me as I feel about him or is he just trying to be nice, because he has never acted in that way before. He just usually smiles and says hello but he doesn’t stop to converse… Could there be something there? And his birthday is coming up, I wanted to buy him a simple card… Do you think that will make him like me more? Please help me!!!!…lol
@ Triece – congrats on your step forward with that Aquarian man! As a fellow Cap who’s had some experiences w/Aquarians, I recommend holding off on the birthday card…just say a friendly happy birthday, but don’t be too clingy.
In my experience, Aquarian men show interest to everyone, get bored REALLY easily…your best bet is to play hard to get/be enigmatic, and have a very active life of your own. Definitely don’t put all your eggs in his basket, or else you will be very UNpleasantly surprised. if you can deal with that, you should be fine. Don’t ever let him think he’s got you completely.
@ Triece – P.S. And never give up! You can do it! 🙂 good luck…
k.thanx!!! you were very helpful… 🙂
get it, girl! 🙂
BUT… Since he innitiated that conversation could that mean anything? Or is that just “him”?
hi Triece…yes – of course, seems like he likes you! Def trust your gut on that. I’m just saying to show your interest, but still stay a bit mysterious, b/c Aquarian men are very charming and they are always flirting with different women. I don’t know him (obv) 🙂 but I’d say be flirty, keep going, but just remember that Aqua men love the chase, they love a mystery. So their women always have to give them one in one way or another (even if the mystery of the day is just ‘what color are me knickers’ LOL).
I don’t think they love quite like we do. Not sure if that’s a MAN thing or an Aquarius thing. It’s like they always like to keep their options open, in case something “better” comes along. So with that in mind, I’d enjoy the ride, while also avoiding doing anything that might give him the impression that you’re tying him down or acting all wife-y or something. If that makes sense.
but that’s just my two cents. let me know how it goes. My Aquarian and I are on a break at the moment; mine is young, has a lot of women after him & is very good-looking. So I’m putting him on the backburner for now and leaving it in God’s hands. Seems like the only way.
talk soon babe!
Tropic of…
@ Tropic of cap – friendship is always a great basis for a relationship with the aqua man. That and the compatibilities whch lead to a grt friendship is what keeps 2 ppl together. incompatibilities bet 2 is v difficult in the short term and long run. it will rip you apart in no time. trust me. so it doesn’t make sense to let the aqua man drift away just because he has a lot of admirers. hey, aquas love to flirt, it’s pretty harmless and you knew he was goodlooking from the start! honey, you got yourself a trophy now hang on to it! 🙂 oh…and God helps those who help themselves. I confirmed that with Him 5 mins ago LOL!
@ Keisha – Hi!
Haha, you’re so sweet!
Yes, I do see your point…I’ll see what I can do with my lil Aqua nutjob.
keep in touch-
im in love with this aquarius man and he has a girlfriend…… =(
I have been seeing my aquarian man for two months now. He has a scorpio ex, who I am concerned about because they work together. He claims he is over her, and done and form what I read aquarians make up there mind and are able to just turn their emotions off. She did him dirty, so I don’t think he would go back to her. He’s very affectionate, and is constantly telling me how much he misses me, but he’s a little boring. I say boring, but I realized that he is reserved in certain settings. Now he’s more outgoing, and it feels like progress. I admire him, I hope it works out.
Thats sad. What’s his girlfriend’s sign?
Wow, I’m really typing this on my phone *covers eyes* – thank God for spell check. Anyway, on to the good stuff: I’m an Aquarius, just turned 19. I was in love with a Gemini girl in high school but she left (literally LEFT, no explanation) and I was bitter for a good 2.5 years. My sun, moon, and Mercury are in Aquarius, my Jupiter is in Virgo, and my Pluto is in Scorpio. But everything else (Venus, Mars, Neptune, Uranus and Saturn) are in Capricorn (if any of that makes a difference at all). Anywho, I went to a legit psychic last summer who said “you would meet my soulmate this year”. She told me a lot of personal things and did not ask any leading questions, and some of the other things that she predicted have already happened I assume she was correct. My whole thing is, did she mean “this year” as in 2010 (which has passed), or my school year (I am a freshman in university). Considering I was so blown away by her accuracy, I didn’t ask her for an age, sun sign, or physical description of my soulmate (or when we would meet). So… here I am on this astrology website LOL. Eh, I know you have to compare natal charts instead of just sun signs for accurate results, but what do you guys think?
*meet your soulmate. Smh.
I feel like a real dork. Hopefully I made sense just now :/ I mean do you think I might have met them already? I highly doubt that, because I have not felt any sparks or warm feelings with anyone I have met since I’ve seen that psychic, and I figured that meeting your soulmate will be an epic, “omg time stopped when I saw them”, moment. Or maybe I’m over thinking it? Input input input? What do you speculate their sign would be?
@ AquaMan…I don’t think meeting your soulmate will be an ‘epic omg time stopped’ moment…I mean, that happens with plenty of people who later turn out to be all wrong, relationship-wise, doesn’t it? That’s just physical/sexual attraction.
A soulmate relationship requires work, patience, love. You might not even be that attracted to them at first. Maybe just get to know different people, and over time, the right ‘One’ will emerge. They have to prove they’re worthy. (And vice versa of course :-))
Out of curiosity, why did you come to Capricorn Woman-Aqua Man section? Are you in ‘like’ with a Capricorn girl? I think it can be a really nice combination.
And forgive my ignorance, but what is ‘smh’??
@TropicOfCap: thank you! Well you make a very good point 😛 I guess I should just let it happen naturally instead of looking at everything with a magnifying glass. Well I have so many planets in Capricorn (I think my rising sign is as well). And since I’ve been around a lot of Gemini’s (too scatterbrained), Aries and Libras without any luck – I figured maybe a Capricorn would be the one for me. Lol I’m quite out there, but people also tell me that I’m very grounded. And no, please forgive me! SMH = shaking my head. That’s just my inner teen speaking (x
grounded, under-grounded or in core of earth 😉
@AquaMan: no problem! well, I’m in love with an Aqua, so if I tell you a Capricorn girl is good for you, you’re getting a biased opinion :-)))
I guess just let the holy spirit guide you…god’s time is not our time, no matter what the psychics say…
and keep that inner teen! I think that’s what makes aqua’s so youthful — the baby inside 😉
@TropicOfCap: You know what, you are ABSOLUTELY right! Thanks for the great insight (: sheesh, it seems like I can get better advice from one person on a blog than all of the people on my FB friend list. Best wishes!
@AquaMan: sure, no problem!
keep in touch – if you ever need Cap-related advice, I’m usually around-
ciao 4 now 🙂
@Rose: You know what, you’re right. I honestly have not felt that feeling yet, but I’m alright with that fact. It will happen when it happens – in it’s own time. Hopefully my GPS isn’t of the cheap, WalMart / bootleg variety and does its job correctly! LOL! I’ll keep everyone posted 😀
I’m seeing an aquarius man…but he is not very romantic. What sign brings out the romantic in Capricorn, and is there any sign that feels Capricorn is romantic besides produictive???
Hi there. i am a Capricorn woman having an affair with a Aquarius Man. i have a partner too but both are falling for eachother all the time. he is a very nice Man with alot of Love. and is Cautious about who sees us.
but sadly he loves his wife and has Love for me all the time is some what different all together. hes really romantic and has a placid nature. and i really think hes very attractive. he says that i remind him of his current Wife in the way i look. do you think that in future our relationship will grow into something more serious?? i hope so.
Zodiac signs aside. Anybody who cheats will not have a decent relationship until they decide to change their ways. If he cheats on his current wife who he “loves” do you think he wouldn’t do the same to you? Best of luck to you, but its a really sticky situation.
I am an aquarius man who has dated in many different astrological signs. I recently met a Capricorn woman, (my first one I might add) and it took me a while, but I have fallen completely head over heals for her. I asked her how she felt and she said, “if I didn’t like you, you wouldn’t be here”. As a romantic, I feel that a relationship is like tennis. One serve’s and the other volleys back. If you keep serving and nothing gets returned, then you find a new sport to play…lol. Anyways, when I say things like, I miss you or I love you, she says, awww. It really is annoying and after dating for 3 months, I expected a little more. Any advice on how to get this Cap admitting her feelings, or is it a waiting game?
@passionplay – hi there I’m a Capricorn female in love with an Aquarius man…here’s my take, although I’m just going off what you’ve written…: She’s waiting to see if she can trust you.
Remember Cap’s and Aqua’s both have Saturn ruling them, which makes us both reserved, but in different ways. if she’s anything like me (with my Aqua), she probably is crazy about you, but she doesn’t want to show it too much, for fear of scaring you off or seeming too vulnerable. (sad but true :-)) I guess what I”m saying is: don’t worry – she wants you 🙂
Yes, love is like tennis (give & take), but it’s also a marathon (endurance). And (to drop the sports metaphor :-)) haha I think if you want more encouragement, you must communicate with her–tell her you need her to communicate her feelings with you more, and tell her how you feel. 3 Months isn’t long – and I think Cap-Aqua relationships get better with time…because they need to ‘learn’ each other and mature w/one another …takes effort from both sides i think
don’t lose patience!
but also a question 4 u: isn’t that part of the mystique? never quite knowing if she’s into you? b/c if she was all over you, wouldn’t that bug you?
very tru tropic of cap, one more thing if she sounds lik she is ignoring u, beware maybe u r in her vicinity n she is just acting 😉
Im a capricon women madly loves aqua men…Once he’s also loves me. but now we had a problem wiht him Ex-girlfriend… he said i ll not marry her… That girl still talking to him…
Tel me some solution for that. i want to live my life with him.
@girl above did u tell him you don’t mind if he married her? then step aside. mebe he wants to but just telling what u want to hear. ur guy know what he wants? keep ur dignity girl don’t chase nobody who don’t respect u to splain why they needs to talk to x. did she lose her sheep bo beep? he also IS not loving u girl.
i seen the guy i am in love with, and he said if i didn’t make a big mistake we would be together right now.. and the looks he was giving me looking right into my eyes were basically saying Waite for me i love you just right now i cant be with you.. i am going to go with my heart head and mind/gut feeling and waite around and see what happens. not all Aquarius men make up there mind and keep it that way. some change it..
Im soo into astrology in believe everything about whats been said. Im an Cap that was in love with an Aquarius male. At the time i was very young 13 he was too. We met thru friends & start talking on the phone everyday all day..we made it offical after a month. We were each other everything! Making me feel special,comfortable, confide in & loyalty. As years went on it got better& better. We use to talk about marriage & making a family.. he adored me vice versa. I love the fact he was a lil jealous at times.. make me really feel wanted. I havent been with him since i turnt 17.. he got into trouble& been in& out for five years.. i was young at the time& didnt stick by him so he found someone that would.. he had a child two years ago & it really hurted but heyy it be like that! Sometimes i regret leaving him hanging like how i did.. i was told to live my life. Thru out the five years i will talk to him thru a friend & he was still upset how i left him. Hes home for good now its been four months& i havent been in his present.. the sad part about it is we know the same group of ppl. Im now 23 & more wiser about situations. I see pics of him& cant seem to shake this.. i know how he is i know i really hurt him& hes like a get back person.. im too old to play tic for tac with anyone. I want it like how it was years ago but he had baby& i left him soo i dont think it will work. He remind me of Fantasia song Bitter Sweet. What do i dooo??
What if the aquarius guy doesn’t know you much … how do you get him to notice you? What if he is too popular and knows alot of people, he does know me but not much, what do i doo??
@ Confused about Aquarius men: Try alternating between being very aloof / detached, and then sometimes asking him questions about his work, interests, etc. It’s good if you have an air of mystery/ confidence.
you could try that.
it doesn’t matter how many friends they have, they’re always looking to crack open a new mystery. good luck & cheers 2 u!
Awww thank you your great help hopefully your sites always here to help otheres and me!
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@Paul – probably not (screwed it up) but I wouldn’t do that too often- Capricorn women HATE it when people don’t honor their commitments. it’s a big thing for us. try & make it up to her and let her know that you do that all the time (by mistake) i.e. it wasn’t that you don’t respect her or value her company. that’s another thing; we cappies tend to fear that someone won’t respect us. good luck!
@ Ash- I’m no expert, but I vote for ‘give it time.’
aqua men are known for the ‘friendship with exes’ thing. he also might be testing to see if you are cool with him having his freedom and friends. don’t blow your cool, and give off a little mysteriousness of your own, girl! that’ll get him!
good luck fellow Cap
Ok so I met this aquarius guy in the library at my college. He came and sat next to me and we engaged in conversation. He asked if we could be friends on facebook, I accepted and then later on that day we converesed through facebook messages. I gave him my number and he texted everyday after that. Finally, I hungout with him at his apartment and everything went smooth. He was a gentleman and was extremely nice to me. Two weeks after that, I was over at his apartment every other day. Feelings were growing strong, but I just knew I could not like him. We had talks about relationships and he stated that he wasn’t interested in one, we both agreed on it. I did indeed fall for him, and so one day I took it upon myself to look through his phone, I came across text messages he was having with another girl. Basically, I was busy chasing him and he’s head over heels for some one else. My heart broke when I read those text messages. Was I wrong for being curious? Do I have the right to be upset? I have been ignoring his text messages and avoding him in school.. I still like him though.. some one help… Will he come back around or are we done for?
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Recently got out of a relationship with an aqua man (i’m a cap) i broke up with him because he was lying to me. He is young and wants to enjoy being single, i can tell he still cares for me. WIll he ever come back? is that likely with aquas, we were each others first loves?
Oh my God….what a forum….wow….really wanna share my experience about aqua male. i am capricorn/dragon and he was aqua/dragon…..it was about 10 years ago when we met. … there was chemestry straight away and by the looks of it we really fell for each other…………but being young and cautious i made few mistakes…….at the end of the day he went away and i was left totally devastated….wrote to him, begged him to come back..etc……….but no reply………anyway now its been many years ago and i feel ok ( but took soooo long to get over ) and when i think back about him at this stage is all the revenge he poured at me like back stabbing all over the place ( my work place too ) ringing hanging up for a few years…but never wanting to talk to me. if i ever hurted him…i really never meanted, but he was hurting me intentionally ….like adrenalin rush that he needed…so sad, glad it’s over now….noone ever really emotionally ‘raped me’ like aqua
I am a capricorn woman 27 back in a relationship with a 27 aquarius male. I first off must say that you can get him back after a break up but it takes a long time. If you truly love him you can because I got mine back. We were together for a year i broke up with him and he wouldn’t take me back. They need there space and they are very outgong. They are pretty much everything that us capricorns are not. I find this extremly attractive and have learned a lot from him. They are flirts but if they are in a relationship they are loyal. I can also say you cant tell them what to do and if you do they will do the opposite. They don’t like to be figured out so even if you do don’t let him know. We communicate well but sometimes they like peace and quite. They hate to argue and don’t accuse them of things. My man makes me feel like i am the hotist woman on the planet. Don’t talk a lot about the future they take there days as they come. This man is the only guy i would consider having a kid with and marring. He will let you know when the time is right for him. I just got back with him after a year of seeing him off and on with no commitment. I thought he would never take me back and he is my soul mate. I met another guy but just talked over the phone to him. I told the aquarious i was talking to another guy so for two months i didn’t see or talk tohim. I got tired of the long distance talks with the new guy and missed my baby. I text him and said i wanted to see him. He asked if i was with that guy i said no he never even visited me. He said well come on over. I was so happy. I went stayed the night and he asked why it didn’t work out. All i could say was baby i still love you. He said i am ready to give us another shot. Once a aquarious thinks they have lost the wounderful cap they will finally decide to take you back.keep in mind if you do them wrong they will be cold to you and you will have to prove your love for them to getback together. Trust me and what they think you did wrong could be minor. Once you lose there trust its hard to get it back. He made the right decision i will never lie cheat or hurt this man. Without him i am incomplete. They hide there feelings but us caps see right through this front. I can just look at him and see love in his eyes. Here oppostes do attract and you will learn many lessons with these aquarians. I feel so comfortable around mine. They are not passionate but will try to be for us caps. They are not really romantic either. We caps don’t mind this because we have enough passion for the both of us. They love to be dominated in the bed room. Very handsome aquarians are. I love mine and will post later to update. Hopefully we will be married by then.
i so love wat you wrote im a cap and by me reading that thats my whole relationship..with me and my x..now
i need advice on my situation with a cap, me being an aquarius. who is willing to listen and give advice? 🙂
@ taylor: yes, I’m def willing to listen & give advice….
I am a Capricorn woman, in love with an Aquarius man (going thru a rough patch at the moment though).
what’s going on with you & your Cap?
So what kind of advice you need taylor? Tell me more” Jayme” lol!
@ leigh I just love your post it is all so very true everything im going throw with my aquarius. but that im not talking to a different guy. we dated before, my summer out of high school. but i was going throw so much at the time, so we ended up ending it. I have knew from the first time i met him in freshman year that he was the one i wanted. but now after reading this page and your post i understand why. right now i am trying everything to win him back but it is soooo hard….. we where seeing each other for a little bet this summer up i did just get out of one very ugly relationship and he he been single for some time…. he isn’t looking for a relationship right now, and i really shouldn’t be trying to get into one again so soon. i waited for him throw high school. i will wait for him again. i know that he is the one. but i feel that if i tell him he’ll just try and push me away…. how do i make sure he stays in my life this time and get him to come after me this time?
I don’t understand how astrology works, but, apparently, it does. I am in love with a Capricorn woman, who dumped me because of the impracticality of the relationship.
Here’s the funny part: I find her practicality profoundly attractive, and her dumping me on that account only makes me love her more.
I really never have loved nor likely ever will love anyone else, and here I am happy about having been dumped because I finally found someone worthy of dumping me. That’s life, I guess.
Aquaman II, I am the reverse of your situation (I’m Aqua female) and I totally agree with what you said lol! It’s like they’re us in a really weird way. I think it’s the Saturn being the ruling planet, honestly. He even dumped me like I would dump a guy… it’s funny how that kind of stuff work sometimes.
this aquarius guy has my head spinning..i dont knw how to deal with this..he told me he loved me but i dont know if i should believe him..any advice for this confused capricorn ?
hi Gina – give him a lot of space…understanding, patience & space…that’s what they love!
good luck, a fellow Cappy
…and please let us know how it goes!
Help I’m an older Capricorn woman in love with a younger Aquarius man. I’m 17 years older than him. He recently went thru a terrible incident and I realized that I don’t want to live without him
I told him that I loved him the other day and he told me I didn’t love him. bc he didn’t love me. I feel like I did something to hurt him but he wont tell me. I have apologized many times but I don’t know what for and now I feel like he might be gone forever. I hurt so bad I don’t know what to do. How do I fix it, how do I get him to talk to me he’s so cold.
Hey id just like some advic, im a capricorn male with an aquarian woman. Every horoscope i read says its not gonna work and we are not meant to be l, care about her a lot l, idk if sould mates are real but to me she feels right, anyone know what i should expect out of this relationship? How to make it hold, we are having a child together, accidental but it really has brought us close in a special way…idk i just dont know what to expect, she has the power to destroy my world…. help tips…idk
ok , so im an aquarian male and ive been dating this capricorn woman for 3 years but on and off . the thing is with her the more i push her away the more she try’s to find me , but if i start showing love ecc …. she just goes off again what’s the deal ??
Luke – could you provide more detail on under what circumstances she pushes you away? It could be that she is scared and/or trying to test how serious you are about her… we Capricorns are very protective of our feelings & afraid to trust others.
hang in there-
I am a 20 year old Capricorn woman in college. I am falling for a 22 year old Aqua man more and more each day. I met him at my job in July and right from the start we had tons of chemistry. We went on a lot of dates throughout the summer and I could tell from the way he looks at me that he has deep feelings for me. Now im back at school and we’ve had some rough patches since we’re far apart. We still talk but not as often and are not exclusive. I dont know whats going to happen and neither does he but I have hope that we are meant to be in the future once we mature and accomplish some more of our goals. He has told me that he sees us being together in the future. I hope this gives any Capricorn or Aquarius match hope that our signs can have a beautiful lasting love with patience dedication and honesty. Signed, a hopeless romantic Cap
I am a Capricorn woman “involved” with an Aquarius man. We actually didn’t speak for about 9 mths because we had a falling-out over some fotos I found of him on Facebook with someone else — but I never told him I saw them. I just stopped being as friendly (OK, I admit – I was downright cold- but he has been cold also). He definitely knows that I know about the other girl b/c I was at a party at which they were there together (I nevertheless had a great time with my friends & stayed away).
OK…so a bit over the summer & recently we started talking a bit. About 2 weeks ago, he did something really really sweet for me, and it was like an apology…I think we both felt like progress was made & wounds were healed. He then went away on business for 2 weeks.
Yesterday I saw him for the first time since that ‘nice’ day, I was a little shy, but when I tried to talk to him, he was EXTREMELY cold — i.e….completely ignored me and acted, very blatantly, as if he hated me. Literally made it very obvious that he was ignoring me. It was AWFUL!
Would someone take a stab at what this means? I feel so hurt & confused and I wonder where my sweet friend has gone…I thought we were back in good shape…how do I react to this?
Am a cap gal and I dated an aqua guy long back…it ended really bad and i had to end it to save myself from throwing my life at him. there were so many things wrong with the whole thing..it was long distance, he would never really make me a part of his life and yet say things like we are soul mates and he loves me to death. it was very hurtful for me as words without actions don’t mean anything to me. still i kept my faith until in the end i found some very personal and disturbing things about him from someone else that just shattered me…
after 2 yrs of showing such passion n all…it ended with an sms….. i was so hurt then that i couldn’t ask to meet him..but he didn’t even have the courtesy to meet me in person and explain his side to me even if it meant we were over…
i never had a closure and i still get heartbroken thinking about it… we had a connection that i hvnt had with anyone else…i gave with all my heart and for him it was just some arbitrary fling…atleast thats what he made me feel.. getting over him has been the hardest thing for me ..
i am married to a taurean now and its all fine…but i have developed some very serious trust issues bcos of the earlier experience..and the hurt refuses to go… i really dont kno why…
my request to all aqua men is…cap gals might not show it but they are intensely emotional.. not many people know this. when she loves you – pl keep her faith… if you dont feel the same ..make it very clear. we dont like to play games in this dept. and we will appreciate your honesty. even if the relationship ends there will be respect. Aqua guys usually move on very quickly i think… so please please dont lead the cap gal on to a dead end…
I am a Capricorn girl and am really into this Aquarius man… We recently started talking after not seeing each other for 10-15 years, which is a really long time especially since 15 years ago we were in the same 5th grade class together. But anyways… We’ve been talking since August and have been meeting to see each other about once a week… We try to more, but we both have little kids so it can be a little difficult. I have totally fallen for him since the first time I met him… there’s just something about this boy that drives me absolutely crazy!! I can’t explain it… I was soo scared and nervous to meet him the first time but when I did it was like we were old friends. I’m usually shy and reserved at first until I get to know someone but its not like that with him. And when were together its like nothing else matters in the world. I only wish I knew how he felt about me… Every since we had great sex I can’t help but think I’m nothing but a booty call… But then again this could just be me over-analyzing every aspect of my life like usual. My sister and mom and close friends know that I have been seeing him… but he hasn’t told any of his family about me and the only reason any of his friends know is because my brother has a lot of the same friends. I don’t know if hes just unsure of where this relationship is going or what?
Another thing that bothers me is he has only had one serious girlfriend ever and she cheated on him, so he has issues with trust. He doesn’t understand that I’m not that kind of girl and I would never sleep with anyone else even though we aren’t in a committed relationship. I want commitment but from what I’ve been reading that’s nearly impossible to get from an aquarian man… Gee willikers!! I know he likes his space and so do I… we can go days without talking but when we do its like we never stopped and I love that…
I just dont know what he wants out of this relationship… how do I get him to tell me what he thinks… I mean the mystery is hot, but if its not going anywhere than I really don’t want to get my heart ripped to pieces either… I know hes a sweetheart and wouldn’t intentionally rip my heart to shreds, but I do have feelings even though I refuse to let anyone see them!! Please helP!
Hello! I am a capricorn woman in love with an aquarious man. I have been drawn to him since the moment I first saw him. It was as though the universe sent me the person i’ve been searching for. It took us awhile to converse but as soon as we did it was instant fireworks. He confessed that his heart dropped as soon as I walked in the room and that he feels he was supposed to have met me. It all seemed so perfect, until I found out he was in a relationship. It killed me hopes but we decided to get to know each other just to see where it would go. The more time we spent together, the stronger our bond grew and the more convinced I was that he was perfect for me. He was absolutely intrigued by me and I was of him. After a few months of this puppy love, I asked him to make a decision to end his relationship or let me go. He simply couldnt, so I walked away. I know it hurt him but I lost hope that it would ever be something. I ended communication and tried to move on, and I simply couldnt. He is constantly on my mind, I feel so heart broken. So the other day I told him in a poem how much I missed him. He responded by saying that he still thinks of me everyday. It was a shock, I figured he had written me off. He wants to casually meet up for coffee. It scares me though because hes still with her. But I feel that after it all, our love and connection is still strong. I dont want to miss a chance with me again. What do you think I should do about mending things with his aquarious man?
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Hi everyone. Im an aquarian male married to a Gemini but in love with a capricorn woman also married.we simply have a connection unlike anything I’ve ever felt before. We just enjoy each others company and flirt often. She is 8 years older than I but boy is she cute and warm and sensitive. My wife can be but its very hard to feel this. I have not let on directly to the cap woman friend..that Im woopped by her and nor has she but at every instance we try to text or meet up. We act like kids when we see each other its weird but fun…I need some help here on what I should do.
I’m a capricorn woman currently courting an Aquarius man. I admit, this relationship does take some work in terms of communication but I couldn’t have ask for a better partner than him. Our differences always bring out the best in me. I used to date a Leo man (which was 10/10 compatibility level) but it didn’t work out. Horoscopes might be true to a certain extent but at the end of the day, it is still up to the couple whether they are wiling to give the time, effort, commitment, trust, love each other and set aside their differences for their partners.
iam a capricorn and i love a aquarius and people told him a lot of lies and i want him back i miss him so much
Aquarius man should chill! He’s not the one cooling off rapidly not since a looong time. I am a cap woman and he has space a lot of it.
As a Capricorn woman, I want to tell you Aquarian males. We may slough something off in conversation with you, but don’t think we don’t address it in our mind later. We analyze why you said it, what you really meant… And let it be known that we will fight and make up JUST SO MANY times, but once we’re done, we’re done. Don’t even try to make it work anymore. We just know it won’t.
Aquarius male 28 years old in dire need of guidance. I have been seeing this Capricorn women 22years old for over 2 years. She recently broke things off with me. I’ve never been one to pursue after a women left me but she is special; makes me laugh, pushes me to achieve professional success, etc. However, she’s is contouring in what I me we should sleep things we should eat the amount of time we should spend together(always). Anyhow she recently broke things off with me on Easter Friday after we had sex in he morning,brunch, dropped her off at the gym to later on that day she called me saying on MONDAY we should talk and have diner together which immediately detected has more and forced her to tell me that she wanted to break up with me on basis she needed to be her best friend and be on her own. I agreed even thou it didn’t make any sense. I avoided talking to her for three days until on the 3rd day she texted me saying how she never been so insulted in her life by the fact that she found out from my friend that I didn’t tell him or to anyone meaning I didn’t care at all about the break up. She then proceed to text me about two shirts of mine that she wanted to give me back which I want to get at her home prior to us having sex. Then again she said she didn’t want to be with me that it didn’t mean anything. Couples days past I text one of those long long text msg about how I feel about her no response (Sunday). Then what insues is the hell week where I don’t talk to till the next Sunday. However in that week she proceeds to go out on Tuesday give her number out to a guy she just met even when she told him her relationship status was complicated. Then on Friday she took off from work to go to a playoff hockey game with the same guy she just met 3 days ago and kissed him !!!! Mind you I’m 2 years of dating she never took a day off even for my family events. Anyhow, I found out all of his the following Sunday after work (where the guy dropped her off & picked her up at 1am)where she told me about her week saying she spent the whole on my Facebook to see if I was connected that she couldn’t stay at home waiting for my phone call. That she gave her number to a guy on Tuesday not mentioning the date yet… I went over there that night where we argued kissed had sex I slept there still refusing to get together however the next morning we had sex again cuddle fell asleep woke up to me questioning her because I knew something was wrong… that’s when she proceed to tell me about the date and the kiss highlighting that we weren’t together so it was okay!!! I immediately left !!! Kissing her on the cheek telling I was discussed by her and her actions and left it to that. Before I could even reach my car she called me saying you’re not gonna say anything you got nothing to say !!?? A couple of days later while at the gym we crossed path without me saying hi or even looking at her. I left right away. Again she proceed to text me that she found it really sad that we couldn’t look each other in the eye or say hi. I didn’t reply. I got met with the same I don’t give a shit she’s not sure about her decision but she knows it best for her. Again I fell into the trap slept with her and slept over. The next day she had a date with her best friends (male 31years old) who I been telling from since she introduce us that he was in love with her anyhow she always refuted it. Anyhow that I picked her up at the bar automatically notice that something was wrong with her she was more than drunk. Mind you were not dating and I still pick her up. While in the car she admits to that they put the date rape drug in her drink and she’s ashamed to tell me because I was right all a long. I didn’t say anything didn’t rub it in just told her I wants was best for her dropped her off at her house and went home. Texting me I wish you slept over tonight. All this all along saying she couldn’t never say that she doesn’t love me but she thinks it would be best for her to be all alone.
After that I snapped because I found about him dropping her off at home before I came over to sleep with her. I told her I am not her Ricardo and I’m not gonna deal with this anymore that she wouldn’t have it both ways. Anyhow I couldn’t stay away from her I went yesterday to her house around 3 am where she opened the door inviting me in where she wouldn’t let me hug her because of the things I said to her. The hell insued where she started saying I was harassing her telling me to leave her house (I didn’t it) cause I just couldn’t understand that hot and cold attitude. Started screaming saying I was a nightmare a fucking asshole crazy etc!!!!! I didn’t leave just pleading my case pouring my heart out to her. She never answered any of my questions blank stare. After a while it got to me I started calling her names (bitch,lack of integrity,dishonest,liar,two faces) after a while she started punching me slapping me got the left sides of my face swollen !!! Never once hitter her back just came my hands down palms open just in shock (I’m black guy 6’3 245lbs) she’s (white girl 5’10 155lbs) but I could leave she treated to call the cops never did. Puched me so hard I lost my earrings all this for 4 hours. I finally decided to leave around 7am. The only thing she said was that she never slept with the guy he only kissed him. That he is not looking to have sec with her he knows that’s not he’s gonna win her over. She then blocked me on facebook. Saying she never wanna see me again I’m her life that I am the worst men ever.
I want women perspective. I don’t know what to do…
Than you
well for one,not all caps act like a bitch.shes just not on that respect level.she needs to grow up! shes not the one for you.find someone on your level and things will go like a real relationship should. good luck <3
Damn…that was 1 wild ride @ Max!!! well I’m a Capricorn woman and we don’t like to play games but will Test you to see if u really love us. we don’t love easily but we love hard. sometimes we would even do foolish things just to prove it. we are definitely complicated and simple at the same time. If we love someone we will probably love them forever. It’s so hard to let them go.I sometimes don’t understand myself. We Can go do things to try to hurt the person who has hurt us. revenge is most of our middle names. Caps usually are kind patient and understanding. As Heartbroken Caps we could be very vindictive. Definitely personal when we have let you in our busy lives, hearts and you just destroy it with what seems like not a care in the world. now it’s time for you to hurt in some way shape or form 2. we may not act out physically or emotionally but we will get you back for causing us heartache and pain and stress. Definitely with a display of calculated aha moments. such as being successful ,beautiful and moving on with a new sexy new boyfriend in your front of u and your friends face. silently wanting to be happy with or without u, but on the inside still kind of feeling a lil bad about it. we pretend to have a nonchalant demeanor but we are soft as mush on the inside. that’s part of our nature.with that being said I can go on and on and on about us but I’ll just stop here. lol
Yeah @ Max. She’s definitely a lil Looney. Have to say so myself. Lol. She dont need a bf, she’s needs a Psychologist 1st. I (cappy) really dont know how to help u . I’ll just be here 2 listen, I guess. Sorry. ..o_0
I’m a Capricorn woman very happily married to an Aquarius man.
To Alice, who replied here last Dec 7, how did your relationship work to your aqua man?
I am a zodiac of a Capricorn and I am trying to hook up with a Aquarius and I needed a few rips of how to atrack him
Myself is fine but I would love to see myself with a Capricorn with a Aquarius I need help.
Ive noticed every Cap woman ive been talks, kisses and is passionate in literally almost identical fashion. Down to a T; even the little behaviours.
Im not deeply bothered by it, but I find this trend that ive picked up on to be rather interesting.
I am an the Aquarius guy and for the most part here I have seen equal parts of truth when I look over what every woman’s opinion of whom we TRULY are….with the exception on one, the 50 yr old Capricorn cheating on the Aquarius guy. sweetie, you are paranoid and as soon as you found someone you like/love/enjoy (US) you can settle your train wrecked ass down….you want to sabotage It before It’s done to you.
I think therapy, medication and a few zaps to your ego with electricity with an accompanying bitch slap from me and the rest of Aquarian Nation should remedy that stupidity! My guess, you always have the last word In everything you do because you don’t want It done to you! Also, you probably have Daddy-Daughter Drama Issues because Daddy treated your Mother just as you are doing to Aquarian Nation! Aaaahhheemmm!
Anyhoo.. moving on…we are moving and looking…
If there Is anything I can say to you ladies….be patient with us Aquarians. Easy In theory – hard In practice. Try being In our shoes! Fitting Into society Is worse than square peg Into round hole at times.. So to us, we are used to being out of the norm society demands we subscribe to.
If we find a relationship that Is too difficult with our typical fringe problems. we become overwhelmed. We will either: 1. cocoon (get quiet and find a realm where the world stops) and regroup or 2. find a path of least resistance…(ie Not You – maybe a broken toilet to fix or TV show that didn’t get watched!)
Here Is the million dollar secret:
while doing #2…we are really doing #1.
Whether It Is an hour, 1/2 day or a few days – your Aquarian will vary..
when your Aquarian fella re-surfaces – his problem has been worked out In his head 15,000 different ways and Is ready to go back to work as If nothing happened! Because of his loyalty to you (HIS TRUE ROOTS) he’s back.
One thing about what I’ve seen here about you Capri Ladies, unless you personally witness an Aquarian cheating on you – your ego Is running so many scenarios so fast that even WE can’t keep up!
Remember the distraction thing earlier?? Its like watching TV without really watching.. yah we are there but our mind Is elsewhere. When we snap out of our altered state and come home… your ego Is off to the races when we get back – as soon as we get Inside the door – your jealous ass Is questioning, yelling, even demanding an answer for whereabouts/details and If Its not answered timely you are reaching for the knife or gun and hell – what’s the use!!! If you are going to accuse us of doing cheating we might as well fan the flames so hot you’ll have no choice BUT to believe your own drama! Hey.. we watch Soaps too 😉
… If It was me, I’d lead you on too….just to see what color the fire Is coming out of your mouth, nose and ass!
Remember.. I’m calm so to me…that’s entertainment! (So It Is a joke – amusing. fill In the blank) Now can you understand why we are emotionally distant…when we resurface and snap out of our funk – come back, we already worked out our emotions, reactions, timing, thoughts. whatever etc, etc, etc, etc. The heavy lifting Is already done!
We WANT to now see YOUR loyalty to how you solve and resolve a problem while we stopped our world, got off and calmed down to find our way through.
So now…with a firm grip on our reality we are ready to make our decision WITH YOU! We want to see our LOYAL PARTNER (YOU) and your solutions ready so WE can compare and contrast so WE CAN FIT the pieces together!!
Think about all what I have told you.. and you gals wonder why we are cold when we decide on something that others would be a basket case about…too bad you didn’t see us Inside our heads pounding out all the possibilities for the Good of All Concerned! Yep..we think of everybody! Just be ready to get an answer that Is sharp and swift because Its been considered from directions you Capricorn Women couldn’t even conceive.
Then Imagine this, we want your side since the grounding (Practical) part completes our solutions from outer space – only you could provide to us…that is why we return willingly. deep down we know …We need Y O U.
So..
Be Patient
Be Present
Be In the Moment – with Love
Don’t Yell, demand, fret, accuse.. stress whatever…grab yourself a Personal Flotation Device…roll over on your back – grab a drink and float down the stream. Take It easy…we got this. Aquarian man lives to care for and do the heavy lifting for our Capricorn Women – Beautiful, Stable, Secure and Grounded. Maintain the stability of Our home and when Your Aquarian returns. Your 3% he covertly looks for and sees (sometime asking but mostly NOT) In you will ground that 97% he did when mentally away….now steer that ship with your Wisdom and Killer Beauty knowing that You and He completed together!
Your ego will sink this If you try to steal credit and rearrange the steps If you aren’t careful….trust, allow and detach woman 😉 only tweak while In process. remember he already accounted for It
Follow this my Capricorn friend, and you will have just pimped your ride for life…the world will be brought to your feet so all you do Is enjoy – choose which color and how many (3%) because Aquarian Man (97%) will make sure you get (100%) of It 😉
Now, THATS how WE roll 🙂