Gemini Woman and Aquarius Man Compatibility
Famous Gemini-Aquarius Couples:
Heidi Klum and Seal, Dixie Carter and Hal Holbrook, Ida and William McKinley
These two may be a curiosity to everyone else but really pretty happy together. Gemini is able to light Aquarius up and draw him more into life. Both the Aquarius man and the Gemini woman have a basically detached view of reality, a love of people, and an innate gregariousness. In fact, there may be so many people involved in their lives, that they hardly ever find themselves alone with one another, which can be fun.
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How to Attract a Gemini Woman as an Aquarius Man:
The problem is not attracting her so much as in keeping her. Unless you do something to make her know that she is special to you, she will think that she is just one of your many friends (you have many friends of both genders). It will help if there is some diversity involved, for example, if you two are different ages, cultures, or if there’s a difference in economic circumstances. You will enjoy her quick mind and broad variety of interests, and will rely on that during courtship. Find out what the Gemini woman is interested in and cultivate the same territory if possible.
How to Attract an Aquarius Man as a Gemini Woman:
No one can control an Aquarius, and no one can predict their behavior. All you can do is hope. On the contrary, don’t be afraid to try anything. It might help, and at any rate he won’t hold it against you.
Degree of Romance:
Some of the sexiest men on the silver screen are Aquarians — Clark Gable, Paul Newman, John Travolta, and Burt Reynolds just for starters. If he wants you, he will absolutely knock you off your feet. There is such an electrifying quality to an Aquarius man, the chemistry is bound to be illegal in all 52 states and one you haven’t thought of. An element of romance is freshness and ingenuity. He will court you in a way that makes you sure he isn’t doing the same thing to five other ladies. He will identify something unique about you and him, and it will ring true. What’s not romantic about that? And Gemini, you little flirt … you are such a creature for every man, but that’s our little secret.
Degree of Passion:
This can be a surprisingly passionate relationship. The shadow side of Aquarius is passionate to the hilt. If he really wants her, he will win her over by utterly sweeping her off your feet. The fact that she always has one little foot out the door just makes the game more exciting.
Degree of Friendship:
Aquarius has the reputation of being friendly, but if you look around, you will find that they usually don’t have many friends at all. Gemini — on the other hand — is everybody’s running buddy. So this relationship may be especially meaningful to the Aquarian because it provides the Aquarius man with a friend.
Degree of Marriage:
This makes a good marriage, although it may seem unconventional to the outsider. Both parties need a lot of space and may need different rooms, separate friends, work in different towns, separate vacations — but they will understand that about one another. The Aquarius man will be endlessly fascinated by the Gemini woman (never a dull moment) and Gemini will respect Aquarius’ intelligence. Aquarius men are very loyal in their own fashion and make good husbands.
Progression of Relationship:
There is no telling what’s going to happen, which is part of the fun when an Aquarian man and a Gemini woman pair up. Much of the courtship may take place in room crowded with friends and shared activities. These are two of the busiest people in the zodiac, both famous for multi-tasking — don’t be insulted if she’s constantly on her cell phone. Because of their need of space, they may rely more than other couples on texting and IM. Aquarius will keep the relationship on track.
Sex:
The relationship may include phone sex, videotaping and other, shall we say, electronic tools for enhancement. Aquarius males can be pretty quirky, and Gemini females are willing to go along with just about anything. The Gemini woman’s basic attitude toward sex is “I can’t believe I’m really doing this.” Look for a lot of innovation. There certainly will be nothing routine about it. It also inclines towards an on-off switch. A lot of days can go by with the off switch, but that just makes on time that much more exciting. 😉
When It’s Over:
When it’s over, he will find out that she never really committed in the first place, but went along for the ride. This means there will be no hard feelings on her part and the decision is up to him. Gemini women are quite likely to have extra-curricular activities, which takes the pressure off monogamous relationships, but Aquarians are monogamous by nature, and this may not be immediately obvious when they start out.
Hey ,
Just to tell you this is a brilliant summary of the relationship… I never read something so well researched and well written… Good job!
I just have one question for you and that is it says in some of the articles I have read about this relationship.. that it is often the Aquarius male that is smitten with the Gemini woman.. and plus that the Gemini woman is really the only woman of the zodiac that can tame the Aquarius.. ? Is it true?
Plus I just wanted to ask what is your zodiac sign?
Thanks again for a great read !
I think both those statements have a lot of truth to them, Thaank you for the compliment about my writing and research. I did my “field work” out in the trenches, reading for real people from all walks of life, learning from the ground up. Everything I say is the result of 25 years’ experience with the psychic arts. I’m a Leo
Never been with a Gemini,but been great friends with plenty of them..they just dnt seem like the type you can really settle for..I want to grow from a relationship if/when its over..Geminis just seem like you summer fling..I HOPE,im wrong…
Okay everyone. Help! I have been searching high and low for a particular Aquarius man. We met as teenagers at a shopping center and all of the sudden (I was 15 and he was 14) and all of the sudden we began kissing near the fish tank in this store. We were inseparable until shortly after our affair he left my life forever to California. Every single relationship that I have had with a guy or man has tanked. Every time in the in between I have searched for hm high and low. We did write letters to each other, but we had gone our own separate ways and my hands were tied as a result.
This was in 1983-84
FF to 2010. The Millinieum of FB and My Space. Everytime I tried searching for him on line I could not find his name anywhere. Now, I am married and my husband has cheated on me and ruined our lives,,but I have forgiven him, but now this is reunion month for me and suddenly I find myself looking for my Aquarius man yet agai, for a friendly hello at this point as this young man is hot and was hot in the 1980s. Suddenly by chance I find him. He was going by his given birth name, not the name I knew him by which is his middle name. Anyway, I wrote him a letter and boy has he become successful in these years. He wrote me back after being astounded that I had been looking for him for over 20 years non-stop in the 20th Century. And now, he is (to my own surprise) melting me over in every way. Last night he called me at home and told me that if he would have remained we would have been married. I just lost it because I know that some how, despite our absence from one another all of these years, that this is so true. I felt this from the deepest recesses of my true heart. He would never have hurt me as all the others have in my entire life. I would have cherished being his wife and it felt so natural for him to say that, but it made my heart beat wildly. This is not a crush. I am a Gemini female and every thing that the article says above about us is frighteningly true. I will love him and my way ward husband. but for the Aquarius man, I will share him with whoever he may fall in love with as long as I will be his girl forever. I know that things happen for a reason, I know that if we were meant to be married we would because I was single until 2001 (when my first husband left me for another country. But we are very best friends and he will help me and my current husband as we are not well physically) but my Aquarius man has just told me that I was his first everything and I did not know this and he was wowed at the fact that in all of these years I searched him and he is single and hot as ever and we love the same music . movies , books, food. We love things with a passion and he is the only one who can make me sexually aroused by the things that he says to me. For some reason, I may feel jealous if he did love another, but I would respect my Aquarius man because I would rather have his love than to lose it and he can be as free as he wants as long as I know that I will belong to his heart forever. I am not a harlot or a hooker, I am just a romantic who loves her men deeply. I will pray to the Lord about this and I have confessed my feelings and I feel the Lord’s love and understanding about this. My Aquarius man was my second kiss of my life (I wish he were my first) but this other Aquarius guy in my school would chase me around the convent and hijack my book bag and one afternoon on a friday in 1981, (I was 13 and he was 14). He just threw me down and stole his kiss from me and would snatch me all over the school and I was floored at this Italian guy doing this to me. But THAT guy was nothing like my 2nd Aquarius man. I do agree that we should have been married and we would have been very happily married to this day and I would have been his woman and he would have been my man. But I will take him as he is because no other woman will melt in his arms as I will. Forgive me Lord because I did not plan to even feel this amourous now. I am in so much physical pain that I thought that this was all over. I never thought that my feelings would be this strong or this intense. At best, I thought we would just talk about the old days and respect our past…but…as he has admitted, he has been looking for me too. I did not know that any one would look for me. I want to fly to where he is and cuddle with him and pick up where we left off. Never would I have thought about ANYONE in this way while married. I thought that those feelings were gone. but I have been tricked.
Aquarius (A-Man). No that is not true at all. Aquarius men (with out words) will put a Gemini girl in her place and she is afraid to provoke him to say something heart breaking because she would just not recover. A man, please understand that we Gemini girls do love you so much but some of do not know what to do when we are around you. Yes, YOU ARE THAT sexy and it doesn’t matter WHAT you look like. It is the things that you say. You have to take that Gemini girl and take the lead because you DO have this strange power over us that we will never, ever forget. I haven’t. My Aquarius man is a business man through and through amd he is ambitious and once he has his mind on something he is truky fixed about it.
I would have remained his woman if he had taken a “take charge” campaign over me and that IS the secret to us. If we do not sense that , we will WAIT but in the mean while, us Gemini girls need some love(which is different that Co-dependacy and that’s just it—we are independent to a fault, but when it comes to love you Aquarius men have us stumped.
You have got to take us to where we will obey your every move and make love to you until the moon leaves the atmosphere. We know that you can have anyone you want, but we have to wait for you and this breaks our hearts and we have to just wait until you practically stalk us and even then, we will find this sexy as hell.
Oh, my goodness, you just need to understand the power that you have over us. We are afraid to be junked away because we will seriously become dysfunctional if you were to do that to us.
A-Man, find a Gemini female who has a Pisces rising or has some fixed sign rising and also make sure that she is older than you are because she will still be very pretty as an older woman.
She will appreciate you very much as long as you make the effort and please try not be so disconnected as you A men tend to be. Sometimes, you can sound kind of cold and detatched and it makes us feel like crawling under a thousand blankets until some jerk comes along and lies to us and we will date that SOB until YOU come back for us. We date SOBs to forget about you because it hurts SOOOOOOO much to think about you.
I KNOW from die-hard experience. It isn’t that we have just given you this power, it is merely that this is the energy that these signs have with one another. All that you need to do is to communicate what kind of space that you want and we will give it to you , but please treat us right because we feel everything and it is the same passion that you enjoy when we are all alone with you that will keep us in bed for days at a time.
You need to ask questions and find out where we are and what we want. Sometimes, we are literally convexed in another situation that is hard to extricate ourselves from. but some of us are not whorish as we may appear.
Just love us right and marry us when we are older (in our 40s) because we are true and we will stay with you as long as you want us there.
Some of us are even comfortable to stay at home and be busy with our projects just as long as we can even go to school from home, or write or interact with our causes and creativity. If my A man would have kept me with him (even in another state and told me what I meant to him, I’d belong to him right now, waiting for him to come home with a delicious meal and stories to tell.
I’d do whatever he wants. But I have had some pretty awful relationships and I have tried to be good to all of them (there were two men in my life that I could have done better, but I was younger and they weren’t my type really–not like my 2nd A-man.
My A-man is so beautiful to me and as long as he will keep me in his life, as long as I will be the special one above all, I will respect his other lovers (I will not love it b/c I do love him .
We do have hx and I was his first–but he kissed me as if he knew his business). I love that I was his first. I love it when he is agressive and I am his little wee thing. I mean, I can make my own money and do my own thing. But come on Aquarius men, pay close attention to your Gemini girls, because she loves you more than you really know.
Little Ana–darling, do not worry about THAT relationship b/c he is just going through a thing w/ this one. Aquarius men ARE sexy like that and that Aries will end up being too forceful with him and this WILL make him leave her. I do not care how hot those sheets can get. Any Aries has the power to do that. What an Aquarius man wants is that Gemini girl who came first. Be his friend, but don’t be shy about telling him how he feels, but also wait for his cues first because he will give them to you as soon as the fire peters out with the Aries one. believe it or not, you need to ask him what makes him hot for the Aries gal. Did they have a past together? Where did they meet? Do you know her? How wel? Also, does she give him his space (A-men, need this to function, You are almost better off falling in love with some one else because THIS is when they decide that you are exciting. Sadly, they may feel safe if you are taken too. Who knows, I hope that I am wrong.Me, I don’t want to hurt anyone at all. I just want to love and that everyone loves each other and not leave me out. These are personal feelings that I can share with you as a stranger b/c I could never share these feelings with others because they just would not understand.
Gemini women tend to get burnt and burnt badly with men because they use us an they do not understand how to love us and get the milage that they can get with us by marrying us. We are always hurting and most of these men really.
Oh, and don’t give up on him under these circumstances only:
1. He must be a truly sweet and caring man.
2. He must be sensitive and loves you for who you are as you are.
3. YOU must find things to DO, because these things (make sure these are true interests and gifts that YOU develop because this WILL play an important role in your possible future with him.
4. Have your back-up male friends for certain if he does break your heart. Remember, A-men are unpredicable–very unpredicable and they will like this about you.
5. Let him sow his oats if he is really worth it, but by all means, sow yours or just be patient. Try to rein your power back because he should never mistreat you and do not show him all your card, the A-men needs to earn this because they want to earn it because they will if they have the character.
6. Find out what his rising sign is and what your rising sign is because your Sun-sign is just that, it does not tell your story. You have to find out exactly when YOU were born to the minute and if A-Man knows, ask him (they are usually sweet enough to tel you.
7. Be as sexy as you can, A-men enjoy the beauty of women (but they like this consevative part about us. Remain a girl who KNOWS what she wants. be that little lamb, but also KNOW what you want. When he asks you where you’d like to go, don’t ask a question with a question. KNOW what you want. They love this. Feel for his cues. This is tricky. Be honest with him, but don’t give him the cow just yet. Let him sip on the milk.
8. The hardest part for me will be not to answer his every call, because they seem to like the chase. Don’t ever play games, though. Never. they are straight-up men and the good ones do not deserve it.
9. By all means, do not love them for what they can get for you. Love them because there is this animal attraction between the two of you.
10. Ana, please write back and tell me more. I am excited FOR you and you have to tell me what your A-Man is like. Even pray for him while you are making yourself the woman he will salivate over. Be sexy. don’t act sexy, don’t where skimpy clothing (no fun) where powerful clothing like a dark man’s blazer with men’s fragranec (Polo Sport) with a small white cotton t-shirt and baggy jeans that accentuate your butt. do not wear high heels. Where cute pumps or loafers with thin sculptured socks. No underwear, except for someting Victoria’s secrets. Something terribly sexy. Dress solid, but underneath, dress feminine. shave everywhere. be smooth.
Wear your hair in lushious lose curls flowing past your shoulders. be sure to douche(I am sorry but this is true—this is never out of disrespect, this is to save face—- and smell as if you just got out of the shower.
He will LOVE these things. Also, do not pack on gobs of eye make up or any make up. If you do, go for the no make up look. Achieveable. This is to avoid leaving it behind in the bed or on his clothing.
Go as natural as you can, You can use mascara and a light dark powder at the crease of the eyes but never all the way across. Smell delicious, but not too fruity. Smell like nature–not musk. Be clean and clean cut.
This is sexy because they want to corrupt this clean cut look and YOU will love how he treats you. I KNow that this is sexy for them. They are easy to talk to. Read lots of books while you are waiting for him. They love an intelligent woman.
Aries seem intelligent and that is because they are bossy and managerial. So to an Aquarius male, this appears intelligent.
But you, Ms. Gemini, remain who you are, but upgraded. You can do this. Keep that breath fresh and your teeth movie star white. Make him feel special because he usually is and he is worth it.
What do you say? Hey help me too, I do not know everything. Read my bizarre little true story. I love to help others to save face for them because, it is humiliating to go through something that can be avoided. I care about people as long as they do not mind my caring for the,. I am not judgemental because i have my own issues to judge first, but i have to be discerning and none of us have licked that, Everyday poses strange new challenges for the Gemini lady.
I wished that I had more female friends, but they tend to want to compete and they can be very chilling and cruel. Men do not have the time for that. But, if there is a female who does love me as their friend. I am here. Just no competition or below the belt games, there is plenty to go around.
Ana, write back and lets walk through this together. At best, you’ll have a shoulder for the good times and the not so good times. There is too much heart break in this world and it brings me to tear inwardly as well to see people hurting and not being able to have the confidence to truly enjoy another’s company. We have to begin by treating people right and respecting their turf and their position in life. If he was not your friend first, then become his friend, for real. That is how this will turn out. Don’t be so curious about him for a fling; these Aquarius men are special and they may be detached because they are the real thing and some may have been hurt. Love them as a friend and as your lover.
Please forgive me my typos, Ana (and for the rest who are reading this )I am, too excited about this topic.
Exchange “where” for “wear” and the other childish errors I have made–i am embarrassed, but my heart is in the right place.
I really do know how to spell and I can see my mistakes through out my diatribe. But I enjoy discussing about meaningful things like this. Love is an excellent thing and LOVE can last, as long as you and your lover are real, it is better than money and it can get you both through these rough days. Love outweighs this money issue. When you love, then you can respect things, include yourself, your partner and money. If you truly love, it truly lasts.
It is important b/c life is way too short to hurt others for a quick round in the sack. Sleeping around messes up the spirit and when others play with your heart, it soils up the soul for THE one who truly deserves your best and vice-versa.
Look past my errors and fish for the intent rather than my errors b/c I mean well by my intent. Thank You.
Leos are sexy and dynamic people and when they work, they really work. Kudos to the research. A Gemini female can tame an Aquarius to an extent, but the thing to remember is that THEY have to give you the unspoken word (which means to LISTEN to what they say which will allow you to allow them to be tamed).
And really, they do not need to be so much as tamed when they are with you Gemini lady, because this will come naturally by the energy between the two of you. These creatures are very sensual and when you catch that combination, let it out, but don’t play games as they are very intelligent people. Just wow them and tell them so.
Well,its indeed true that the mystic relationship between a gemini and an aquarius is rather unnoticed by the crowd… Their bonding has a mute existence,unheard and unseen to the rest in the world….
@Antrina
Would you care to elaborate?
Very interesting! I have a story to share very soon..as the end is drawing near to my Gemini (me-) Aquarius (him) relationship…and it was the fact that he couldnt get over his ex…even though she treated him like shyt. Ill elaborate soon. 🙂
I have dated 3 aquarius men and they ALL have the same birthday !
weird much ?
I loved them though .
& the est just fell aroun the same date .
i happen to be dealing with an aquarius guy… i think he might be starthing to fall for me… but i know he has feelings for one of my best friends as well! it’s been my entertainment for the past few days =) i think it’s going to get really interesting!
So, tell us Antrina…..what sign is the most compatible for Gemini? I see nothing posted that says 10/10.
When alive, my grandmother was very much into astrology, and as I have grown up, I too have been getting really into it.
As a gemini woman, I have only been intimate with aquarius’, something that I had not realized until reading this article! Also, my best friends birthday is february 20th, not an aquarius but close enough!
Very cool…
@Emma Grandmothers know best 🙂
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wow, i have no idea where to start, im an aquarius male, mid 20’s and i have an awesome story to tell…its still brewing but alot of earth moving life changing things are possibly going to happen in the next 6-8 months. i actually stumbled upon this because too many ducks are in a row about this…if u’ll all be patient with me i may be able to help by answering some of ur questions from an A-man that fits this description to the T! again tho excellent posts and article!
Ooooookay im not sure what the rules are on what all i can put here and i will try to condense this down as much as possible.. as i posted earlier, i am an A man to the T. I am a very social person when comfortable, but have very very few ppl i actually consider friends. I dont feel too many ppl are like me and have the same understanding on anything as i do. I’ve never had a problem atrracting the opposite sex which has resulted in two failed long term relationships. one 3 years (ex wife libra) and the other 4 years (ex gf aquarius) the problem, i loved them, but they never understood the give me space part. i never felt i had met my match, a woman on my level, i was never content mentally(and u know how rationally we think)which turned me off and i would go out, use charm, bravdo, and a smile to mingle with other women..now back at home in socal, i didnt always have a ‘legal’ job so i met a lot of ppl thru other ppl if u get my drift…and one particular night im at a ‘clients’ apt smoking a cig on his balcony and i looked down and his neighbor was outside on her patio(lets call her X)..anyway i end up doing business with her. we end up hanging out when i would come thru and i eventually met her best friend..the moment i saw the best friend i instantly had a crush(lets call her Y)..a regular old junior high crush. but seeing as they were both 8 years my senior i never said anything. didnt think i stood a chance (gemini’s have a drop dead gorgeous aura) SOOO one night we were hanging out and they were both going to bed and X gave me a hint that she wanted me to come to her room, but on the way to the room Y asked me to come in..we had the most amazing sex ive ever had in my life, and thats a high plateau for me. the next night i ended up sleeping with X when Y wasnt there…which was fine with all parties(turns out she did that cuz she was jealous, i think she heard us)..I end up losing contact with both a year or so later and that brings us to present day..3 1/2 years later..im in another state now, Y is engaged and we just got back into contact with each other…now everything is all out of control! we grew up alot in the time passed. i actually dont cheat anymore, havent for quite some while, really just looking to spend my life w/ somebody that i adore and wont get tired of .im legit now and shes engaged! which sounds good right? come to find out, the crush was mutual between us! and soooo many planets seem to be in line between the two of us its scary! shes in a safe engagement with a really good guy and now is willing to risk it all…after all the convo and msg’s and other things.(It’s like bert and ernie found each other again) she doesnt want safe and boring..i feel this gemini woman and i are magnetic! we understand each other on a level ive never EVER experienced with any woman in my life, then again shes the first and only gemini ive ever been friends/lovers with, it almost seems to perfect. from major to little things such as pets, to jobs, life views, relationship views, i mean our convos can go on for hours @ a time, and the depth of them….wow gemini women you, and us A men are truly here for one another! i guess my whole reason for posting this story is i want to ask u a few questions and i would appreciate all of your opinions and i will answer any from you!
1.if we do go through with this, how can i keep my gemini woman happy? not just content but loving more every day?
2. are we both too silly to think with the timing of everything this happened for a reason?
3. if u ended up being engaged and ur lost Aman came back into the picture and the situation was similar to this what would you do?
@ zeus
answer to # 3 i would drop everything for my Aquarius man, well not everything but the other guy…
boy, do i miss my aquarius… we’re still friends, but i miss how attached he used to be to me. we’re still young, so i have a a feeling in the future we can try again because we really have this great connection/friendship/bond. he’s my best friend.
hey,
I like a Aquarius guy bt he is oblivious to my feelings.We are very very clse Friends (probably his best) but I want this relationship to take a new turn.It was me who behaved like “no nonsense like love” between friendship and now it seems that I am being taken in by his simplicity.He had a break up with his ex-who was an Aries and now he seems to be happy to be single .we are very close bt it is to that only .I feel he knows me more than any guy ever can and most importantly accept my many defects (like my wild nature and short temper) without any effort.It seems I can only sense his true self ,his weaknesses,vulnerability….his eyes seem to plead for love.the only thing i dont like about him is his unambitiousness.I often have an urge to go hug him and protect him (dont laugh plz.)I have an image of a tough girl…a tomboy…i am a kickboxer too..so it is natural that i have an image of “give a damn to guys”.Naturally he (and probably no-one) cannnot imagine that i CAN care! What do I do?
This is so true.
I’m a Gemini Woman and my Aquarius boyfriend just keeps me on my toes.
We met early in the morning. I just went up to him and hugged him.. hahah.. It was just random.
We ended up talking for more than three hours. We talked about everything. I had never felt that way about anyone… It was a new feeling and I liked it. He then told me he was born under the sign of Aquarius, and I had recently read that Gemini and Aquarius couples usually meet each other when they least expect it.. Well, there you go!
The next day I came back to that same place we met. He had a friend with him, an Aries woman. He was trying to calm her down because her most recent boyfriend cheated on her and broke up with her. I felt so jealous… I wanted him to comfort me for the same exact reason.
Well I had given him my number.. and we did actually have phone sex. It was interesting and I’ve never done anything like that with anyone before. It was a new experience and I liked it.
Then two days after I saw him with the Aries lady, it turned out that she asked him out and he said yes. My heart fell apart at that moment. I was so heartbroken I just couldn’t control myself. We still talked after that.. but then we had phone sex, again. He had cheated on his girlfriend with me, which I thought was weird because he said he loved her. This kept happening.. to the point where it was just full of passion.
Then, one day I suggested that we stopped. He said he didn’t want to because he loved me. I didn’t understand this. I asked him why he went out with the Aries chick instead of going out with me. He said he loved her, too… but I told him he just cared for her, not loved her.
We had an arguement for about two hours. I cried, he yelled, I screamed. Then we realized that we actually did love each other. It was a strange moment because we ended up making out. He was irrisitable to me… I couldn’t stop loving him.
Two weeks after the arguement, the Aries chick broke up with him. We were secretly going out, but we wanted to make it public slowly. I did occasionally kiss him and hug him. She actually got mad at me for that, that’s when I told her that I asked him out and he said yes.
It’s been a couple months since we have been going out now. No arguements at all… we comprimise on everything. I just love him too much. I felt bad for the Aries lady, but it was her fault.. she was blocking the wave of love between us.
HI Nancy and other fellow readers…
Hello everyone….
I am so grateful to have found this site….
I am a gemini female…. and am dating an aqarius male who is 43 yrs of age… I am 42.
Met him back in end of June and started dating him by July 8th. He was my boss at first… then I had to quit to continue dating him.
When he started flirting with me and asking me to go out to lunch with him… his sister & neice from Israel had just arrived for a month long vacation…. he made a point to introduce me to both of them at work… at the time we weren’t going out yet and I was still working there.
Then on our first date… he came right out and said he couldn’t continue dating me if I was to continue working there… and so, I decided to quit my job there by the 2nd week of July since I also was getting signs I needed to purse my true passion. By our second date he had invited me to a BBQ he was throwing in his apt where his sister, neice and closest of friends were attending. Not long after that, we were seeing each other evey weekend and once during the week. He called me every day and evening.
Long story short… we broke up for 3 weeks… got back together and now… he doesn’t offer a monogamous relatiohship to me anymore… says it doesn’t sit well with him any longer and he is extremely distant and hardly ever calls me. But we do still see each other every week.
His mother also arrived from Israel about a month ago and just left for the airport today to go back to Israel…. so for the last 4 weeks, I have hardly seen him or heard from him… but he still managed to make time for us onece a week.
I finally was introduced to his mom 4 days ago over a nice dinner and then stayed over with them in his apt. ANd I got to spend another 5 hours with them yesterday before jer flight home today.
So… with that said…. I am so confused as to how he thinks of me… cause he is so distant when we are apart… only when I see him in person is he affectionate, loving, kind and warm. He does hold my hand in public, kisses and hugs me and is pretty demonstrative in public. However… I have cought him staring at other women and openly flirting with other girls in my presence. I have not pointed it out.. as I know th outcome of that. We promised to be 100% honest & truthful towards each other… so I am trying to see our relationship that way. I truly don’t think he will cheat or take advantage of his new found freedom in our renewed relationship. But… I am not 100% sure he will be faithful. In the beginning he did tell me he is not the type to sleep around. When he is intimate with someone… it is only with that one person and that’s it.
So… I am trusting in those words he gave me when we first met…. even tho he won’t give me monogamy or exclusivity right now. I am trying to focus on all the positive things we have and the fact that he has just recently introduced me to his mom and of course his other family & friends.
But… his flirting just totally threw me for a loop…. is this harmless and typical behavior of an aquarian? SHould I just ignore that and see the postive things? Please… if anyone can offer any insight or advice… I would so appreciate this.
A lost gemini in love with an aqua man,
Lisa
I cant stop folling in love with aqua man all my life it been equa they are handsome intilligent, powerful creative, money makers problem solvers, educated they turn me on and on again and again.
I REALY LOVE EQUA MAN IF THERE IS ANY PLS EMAIL ME BE OVER 30 YEARS AND SINGLE AND HANDSOME GO EQUA U RULES MY LOVE PLANET
How fascinating! I really don’t believe in astrology but this was sent to me and it rings so true!! Of course I am a Gemini and my boyfriend is an Aquarius and we have been in an on/off relationship for 7 years. I have had the tendency to “spread my wings” but the only reason why we have broken up in the past is because of our distance from each other. Yet no guy could ever match up to him and I end up coming back to him and I feel like there is nothing I can’t do when I’m with him. He literally brings out the best in me, and everyone around us says that we are going to get married, although we are only 18… Yes I’ve been with him since the age of 11 but i’ve loved him since I was about 15. We’ll see how it goes:)
I am a Gemini female, I met a Aquarius guy when I was 10 and I liked him then. I ran into him 11 years later and I feel like theres no one else as compatiiable for me. I would drop anything or any guys in a heartbeat for my A guy.
Pretty much everything is true…no one can compare or give me the feeling he does…and aries are always in the way =]
Hi Nancy,
I was married to an Aqua (me being Gem). What you wrote about how it gets over couldn’t be truer.
I am on casual terms with another Aqua now. I have never cheated anyone but I got to know that he is married and has been merrily cheating his very young Pisces wife right from the start. After having seen many such cases I don’t agree that they are monogamous. They do cheat a lot. But your research is so thorough that I am keen to ask why you said they are monogamous and how this might not be evident at the beginning of the relationship. They seem to like multiple partners and great variety. Would love to know your thoughts.
i am a 25yr old (gemini woman),, in love with an( A-man), and yes everything is so true, we have an undeniable chemistry. He’s a homie,a lover, and a friend..but he’s afraid to commit, and can be inconsistent..but there is something that he does that no other man could ever do, and i’ll love him no matter what.
Hello there…
As I said I am a gemini woman of 42yrs… I look like I am in my 20’s tho… and this is one reason why my aquarian man of 43 likes me so much. I take excellent care of myself spiritually, mentally, emotionally and physically and these are the traits that attract me to him. I also have a lot of cancer traits… I am extremely loyal, sensitive, very grounded and love affection and am highly sensual with high sex drive. I am extremely passionate, compassionate, kind, sweet, positive, open, trustworthy and all about truth and honesty. The stability, family, home and security within a relationship are crucial and non-negotiable for me. I am not flighty nor am I wishy washy and I do not like lies and dishonesty. I dislike manipulation of any sort. I am extremely emotional and sensitive but yet I am highly evolved emotionally and mentally and know when to pick my battles…. truthfully, I do not like confrontations but will be truthful about my feelings, even if it will rock the boat.
The man I am dating or rather, no longer dating… we are now “friends”… he is so afraid and constantly pushing me away, but not too far. He is always sending me confusing signals… very hot and then distant and cold. Yet, now that we are friends… he is alot more flirtatious and friendly and even affectionate like he used to be, which I missed so dearly. When we do get together once a month… he is flirting with me constantly and the passion and chemistry between us… is not to be denied. Even others on the outside looking in, have commented that they can tell he has the major hots for me. It’s uncontrollable… we just cant seem to help ourselves. Even when he says he is trying so hard to respect me as a friend and not hurt me in any way, he can’t help the chemistry and we end up being intimate and spending the night. He does not want any confinement or to feel obligated to anyone in anyway… he wants total freedom and does not want a relationship right now. Even the friends with benefits thing he is uncomfortable with. He does not want to answer to anyone or feel like he has to call anyone of see anyone in particular… which I totally get and am ok with now that I understand how aquarians are.
When we first met, he did offer me exclusivity and introduced me to his friends and family members within the first 2-3 days of our dating…. for the next 4 weeks, we were spending every weekend together hanging out with his closest of friends and then things started to wane. He no longer called and texted me 3-4 times a day and that’s when I started to ask what was going on.
Then soon after… we broke up, became friends, got back together again for another 2 weeks, broke up again and were friends again. And now… he doesn’t even want to engage in any kind of sexual activity cause he feels obligated to call me, text me and go out with me even when I am ok with his need for independence. Mind you…. I have not asked for any commitment, I have not asked for him to call or reach out more to me… I know better now… as he did make it clear months ago that he can not provide any of this. In my mind, we were just friends who can’t help the chemistry and passion btwn us… and I was ok with that. I didn’t expect anything beyond this nor did I misunderstand the intimate situation recently… and he made sure I understood this before engaging in sex this last time. I was well aware of what we were doing and that it was not going anywhere or changing anything.
I don’t understand why he is now asking we be only friends… platonic, non-sexual friends, when I have not asked him for anything in return. Why is he feeling obligation and confined when I have not asked for anything. He says, it’s weird that a guy is asking for no-sex instead of the girl in the relationship. I know the sex was amazing… it was so obvious, it felt like old times. I know when I am with him, he loves it… has no complaints… it’s when we are apart and gets a chance to analyze things that he then breaks up with me.
I am so confused…. I can clearly see he is so attracted to me, he says he cares so deeply for me and doesn’t want me to get hurt and is trying so hard to be proper and respectful of the boundaries… he says he has too many things on his plate and doesn’t want to get involved with anyone right now. I have not asked for anything at all… we are just friends…. still he pushes me away simply because we spoke 2 days in a row after our last sexual encounter. Can anyone interpret this for me? Am I crazy or is he really afraid of his feelings for me?
Can any aquarian male shed any light on this situation? Can a female gemini who’s been in these situations shed any light? I feel like he doesn’t appreciate my friendship or who I am. I have so many other men chasing after me… and of all the ones I like… it is the one who doesn’t like or want me back? Why am I getting so many confusing messages from him… that’s what I don’t understand.
Please help me understand this man if you have any insights to share.
TY…
Gemini confused….
I think you are just desperate and don’t have have much self respect. It seems you also want love, and I am not sure he is giving it to you. Look – I like an aqua man myself but if we can’t give me commitment and love that I need, what’s the point to torture self.
aquarius men are definitely not monogamous
OMG!I can’t believe this,I’m a 24yr old gemini and I’ve had a crush or at this rate I’ve been in love with an aquarian guy since I was 13.now he is 26.I have NO idea if he feels the same way cus we are friends. EVERYTHING written above is like its talking about us. Lol, I’m hoping to find the courage this year to tell him how I feel cus I can’t keep ‘Hoping and guessing’. I reached the point where I actually don’t care what the outcome is,all I know is I have to get it out so I can finally move on. Its been to LONG…..wish me luck *wink*
Hi,
Thank you all for giving me such a good insight into the Aquarius male. I am a Gemini woman and was dating an Aquarius male for 3 months, all was going so well, he was so thoughtful and caring the whole time, i felt like we had an amazing connection and then suddenly he ended it, telling me he’d realised he didnt want to be in a relationship, and he was already pressured enough with his family situation, i have been so sad, i miss him and feel i may not find that kind of bond again. Can anyone tell me if he will be likely to come back to me, does he just need some space and what should i do for the best to win him round? 🙁
SOMEONE PLEASE help me… I need an urgent answer indeed… theres this guy in my school . he is extremely smart and he will graduate this year. we know each other and i like him but he is very complicated. he seems confusing! he doesnt tell his feelings… he dated this girl for the first time and they were best friends… i just want to open up but im afraid. we dont even have time to talk in this stupid school… he has his own group of friends which are all extremely smart and cold. on the other hand he seems SO RIGHT for me…. i can feel it…
please help me how i can attract him.
when i read it here i was upset cause it says just hope lol
@ Madison – i’m not a gemini but i’m in luv w/an aquarius & i just had to reach out to you…just keep trying to have those small conversations, and build your friendship…don’t try to push anything b/c it tends to backfire w/aqua’s. don’t give up your faith in what you feel, but don’t try to force it either. it’s only March, go slowly. Just be sincere, intelligent, well-informed…and if it’s really meant to be, it will happen
@Madison relax…. as an aqua man let me tell you he’s intelligent but don’t let that bother you. hes human and you wanting to talk to him is flattering any way you look at it. just approach him naturally be yourself… gem women can be very charming. ive dated a couple of gems myself when i was in college. chat about some topic that’s interesting on campus and everyone knows about. chat about some hot topic on the news. Give your opinion. he’ll listen to you and soon enough you’ll both be having a roaring time…chatting and having a lively conversation! you can be as silly as you want. hes a broad minded sort and while politeness is always a good thing you just have to come across as authentic in what you say and feel. thats all thats needed no real drama hyper passionate stuff required. good luck!
why can’t this couple get 10/10? to be honest they are perfect for each other. I mean i shud know. Yeh they sumtimes have fights but still and 9 or 10 would have been good for these two.
So I like this Aquarius but he’s going out with an Aries but idk maybe im crazy but I always got/get the feeling that he likes me….before they started dating – i mean we both never got the courage to actually confess our feelings- he always stared at me when no one else was looking for like a looooong ass time lol I was wondering was this something Aquarius guys do when they like you or are shy? He still does it now and his gf does notice it and i think she feels a bit jealous but of course I act like i have no idea what’s going on….we hang out in the same circle of friends
i hope i didnt sound like a crazy person
this aquarius guy i like goes out with a sag and it kills me because they seem to love each other but i know deep down they don’t. she seems the person who controls him. I would never do that. I’m a gemini btw :/
I feel sorry for him because I saw them together and she was very controlling and he seemed upset. Yeh I think Gemini Women should belong to an Aquarius man (no offence to the rest) they seem perfect.
This is all so very true! I knew about my A-man for quite some time(him being my God Brothers best friend) but we never actually met. The moment we did it was love at first sight. Being a Gem girl this was very strange and intense for me cause as you know we are very logical thinkers and this just didn’t make much sense to me. However, I could not deny the crazy chemistry and mind-blowing attraction. As far as the monogamy thing Ive known many A-men and I believe it depends on the way they feel about you. I’ve known some to be faithful cause they were head over heels, however, ive known some who were head over heels but still couldnt manage to keep it in their pants so who knows. All I can say is this is the happiest I’ve ever been and yall are so right the power they have over us is insane. I wish U all well 🙂 and good luck with your A-men they can be a oiece of work at times but their worth it.
oh gosh why can’t gemini and aquarius get 10/10? seriously i love my aquaruis man with all my heart. whats wrong with a gemini woman never getting her perfect match?
Seriously I am a gemini woman dated a aquarius man for 5 years. I don’t know what attracted me to him in the first place. He is controling and possessive. Does not sound like a aquarius to me!!!!! not sweet or thoughtful, not romantic.
What is the deal with all the Aries hatred on this site? Plotting ways to break up Aries-Aqua relationships, Gemini? Really?
If you ladies are too selfish to step back and let an Aquarius man & Aries woman pursue a relationship naturally, without trying to interfere, then you don’t deserve the Aqua man anyway! These men are extremely intelligent and intuitive, and will see right through what you are doing.
You may end up “getting” them for awhile, and even succeed in breaking up their relationships, but you will not earn their respect. And without their respect, a lasting relationship with an Aqua Man will never be a reality.
well said, Aries Girl! (said the Capricorn with Aries rising, Aries moon, currently in love with an Aquarius)
I think Aries female & Aquarius man can make it if the Aries femme can maintain a mild temper and show patience…very dynamic combo!
My aquarius man and went out with a sag and then now has a on-off relationship with a cancer woman. He said he feels so sad about his love life. But I don’t wanna step in to help in case he might hate me. I dunno what to do.
the thing that i love about aquarius men is that they seem to understand me. I dated an aquarius man and he almost proposed but our parents found out about it and never let it happen 🙁 for years i spent looking for him (we were only about 17-18 years old) but when I was 20 almost 21 years old I found him still the same person he was back then. We were talking for ages when he told me he was engaged to be married to a cancerian woman and I told him that I was engaged to a man who was a pisces and never loved. Our parents thought they’d get us married before we find each other again. Sad as it was on the day before his wedding he phoned me and said he was outside my house waiting for me. We took off and he stopped near a river near the countryside and proposed. I told him that I was already married but he didnt care-because he knew I didnt love him at all. I phoned my fiance and called off the engagement. I put the phone down and said yes to him. We married and made our own lives seperate from our families. We’ve been married for 5 years now and we have a lovely Leo daughter. The strange thing to me is that the Cancerian Woman and Pisces Man got married shortly after we did…. life huh?
Type your comment here the part that i said i was was already married-i meant already engaged sorry! silly typo
This was dead on. I’m datin an Aquarius and I’m a Geminin woman. He courts me in such an original way and we do text alot because we are both so busy. It really rang true for me.
There is already a movie on this. Ha ha in Bollywood I’m sure 🙂
This is definitely.I’m a Gemini woman,but I have an Aquarius male friend that is really special to me.When we hang out,It’s never a dull moment.He’s very sweet,he makes me laugh and what’s funny is that we’re both alike.I’m not afraid to try anything with him at all and he’s pretty passionate.Too bad that he’s with a Scorpio 🙁
I am a Gemini woman and have just started seeing an Aquarius man. I can’t believe how much we text, all day everyday! It’s so much fun he is keeping me very entertained. Also sending lots of naughty videos and photos back and forth. Something I would never have thought I would do but really enjoying it. I feel like we click on a different level that I have with other guys. He gets my warped sense of humor too a massive plus!
Mature Gemini woman here, I have been reading these stories from you younger gemini woman and I am truly worried about you, it’s alright to love someone, but you need to put yourselves first, not dealing with a man already in a relationship with someone else, I thought geminis were intelligent and independent, not needy and obsessed. I loved and aquarius man when I was younger, but he didn’t give me the attention I needed, so without anger I moved on. 10 years later he found me, but he was married to someone else, saying he wasn’t happy with her, as tempting as it was (because I truly did love him at one time, I respected myself more than to cheapen myself by sleeping with him, and regretting it later. I am so glad I didn’t let him entice me with that aquqrian sex appeal he had, as I would have felt like a piece of dirt sleeping with someone elses husband. LOVE yourself first my gemini ladies, and you will find that TRUE love that you so desire!
This is another Water boy.
I read almost all the comment. It depents upon the zodiac sign with the mixture of personal life experience. We go very well with gemini girls but sometimes gemini girls don’t give us space with we need sometimes. I know I feel like I am an unsolved mystery. I have a deep intrest in reading. Astrology, psycholgy, cosmology, philosophy, literature, poetry. Management. I deeply feel that I have an intuition which informs me many thingsthat happen in a common person’ life.
I truely want to dedicate my to someone who need just love. I am still looking for someone.
this couple can and definitaly works. I think the only reason why it doesn’t is because these two are amazing friends as well as lovers and can sometimes give up the love that could be strong for the friendship. for example a friend of mine who is a gemini dated an aquarius man and from the start you could see the sparks and flames of passion and love that was there. But they seemed to be too friendly and it came to a time that they broke up because the aquarius man wanted space and thought it would be better if they were just friends. Now even though they’re not together my friend always says that she regrets not loving him as much as she could have done. My advice is-once you find someone never let them go. It could be worth it.
I am a gemini woman in a relationship with an aquarius man and I must say it felt like love at first sight. From our conversations to the first kiss to the first time we were intimate. I have dated other aqarius men, but none as passionate and intuned with their emotion and able to know what they want. This post has never seem so truee! Even though I don’t believe that I’m always ready to give up – but that is definetely a general statement this was nice just to read
He is fun-loving, good humored, bright and breezy, up-beat and full of life, kind and caring BUT he is still aching a bit, some amount of pain still lingering from the soreness and he conceals it well with his bubbly outgoing persona, but not to her he hasn’t, because she sees right through them, right through the smoke-screen, she sees deep down into his soul when she looks into eyes, she felt it in his touch, she sensed it in his breathing, she experienced it through his emotions, because when she is with someone she is in tuned with their every little reaction from every single stimulant and she never miss a thing…NEVER, we could go on and on but lets leave it at that for now.
He is still not 100% ready to be straight forward and open about a lot of things and that’s fine, because if its one thing with her, she absolutely never ever try to pressurize someone into saying or doing something they are not yet ready to disclose even when she has picked up on the little hints here and there, so she will wait until he is completely ready, he has made progress though since the last few months, tremendous progress and she is so very proud of him so she will give him a little more time to get his head straight and unto the path he’s sure about travelling and then they will sit together face to face and talk about everything, even her little things, cause he has met her bad fate too.
She loves unconditionally, she never judges, she never belittles, she is thoughtful and tolerant to a certain degree BUT she will always respects the man who will respect her just as much. She is not a nag but will express her emotions if they are becoming overbearing for her, she likes to feel safe and secured, she likes to know, she hates uncertainty, she prefers a peaceful, loving and harmonious atmosphere, not one filled with disrespectful, fierce battle ax that has the potential of reducing the life span of the relationship, she believes that a combative person only knows how to get through issues in an aggressive way instead of talking things over and reaching a mutual compromise. She believes we all have that gentle soul deep within that no matter the flight level of disagreement, figuring out a calm way to resolve issues will seal the bond much firmer.
Together they will be blessed abundantly with each others warmth enriched with each others love and have a life together filled with a wealth of meaningful and absolute contentment…. equally yoked.
Mastering ones thoughts means we will then be able to master the game of life by finding multiple ways of stretching and growing ourselves so that our minds be stimulated, our emotions & spiritually challenged which in turn increases our self worth..
Galesburg in the near future sold little leaguer has got plagued often the Indians with Indiana, but that bond ended practically before it all begins if your pitcher challenged the view outside the window by accident broke a few ribs of the operations company and the initial tennis ball.
I Am A Gemini woman I met My Aquarian man when I was a sophmore in highschool. I mean love at first sight I saw him and I tld my bestfriend he will be mines. 2 days later he was mine. It was love at first sight I mean we talked on the phone to early in the morning everyday. But the onli thing is he was a big flirt, and mi bestfriend said she saw him on the school bus kissing another girl, so I cussed him out and broke up with him. The same day he told mi I shuldnt listen to mi friends.. Blahh.. blahh.. So I took him back a week later they seen him huggin on the girl. SO this time I really just ended it with him.. I was depressed also, but than one night I was sittin watchin t.v and he calls and says come outside I need to talk to yu. I went outside and he was lik I miss yu and I love yu. Me bein a Gemini I was like yea watever. So he tried to get me to take a ride with him it did not wrk. I went bac in the house. PLayin hard to get is mi true speciality. I gues it work ed because we stayed bestfriends, I always believed if its meant to be dan let it go and if it comes back hold on to it, and never let go. So we dated other people but he was lik mi bestfriend + great sex. I mean amazing. These guys really do hit the spot, I mean we did everything together. There was never a dull moment I would always be wifey..One day I gt fed up wit waitin and told him im goin to leave, he begged me not to go, he said im da onli person in da wrld he has, he said that he would always love me,Just please don’t leave him. I believed him. Than it happened he met someone new and she became wifey he basically threw me to the curve I vowed I would never fall in love again nomatter what.He got locked up for a year and I moved on I had a baby by someone else, I had met way before him.(which today I truly love and could never imagine life without him) When mi Aquarian was locked up he told me I was always da onli one for him, and I was trifiln because what he had with that girl was puppy love, and I knew he would always come bac to me. And that I hurt him. So I took him back we dated off and on for almost a whole year more on than off. We was so perfect. Than one day it came crashing down we was having the perfect summer, we did everything together because he lived in the next complex over from mi bestfriend. One night we had came bac from the pool from drinkin, and he was really gettin on mi nerves so I told him I jus wnt to go to sleep, becuz he had threaten to leave so many times that night I was fed up.( I mean I truly loved this man, I would even bring my son around him. We could make love all night long and stare in each other eyes. sorry im off topic…) so HE WAS talkin to me to I turned mi back on him to go to sleep he started a big argument which ended up in him slapping me. He had never dne it before so I was in shock. Than he called me spoiled, and im a brat. SO I told him just to stay away from me. I mean yes I seen him now and than but after that it was never the same. I cant even imagine a future with him. It broke mi heart into pieces I mean da one man I loved more than anything hurt me so bad. So now he calls me and says he loves me and wants me to have his child. So I told him that will never happen becuz I don’t love him anymre nor do I want to be with him. and he asks why I said I don’t know what kind of females you have been with before but yu promised me you would never put you’re hands on me. you’re wrd is everythng to me. I feel bad about it but I will never love him again, I don’t even careabout him nomre and that was mi soul mate. Now I am happy wit mi sons father he is a Sagittarius He is difficult at times to get along wit because were so strong minded but I could argue wit him into ole age. I love this man to death.