Aries Woman and Taurus Man Compatibility
Aries-Taurus Couples:
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This pair gets our vote for the most self-contained, independent, and self-sufficient pair of the entire zodiac. They focus on their personal lives, needs, desires, and wishes, almost to the exclusion of the outside world. There can be a high degree of stubbornness or stick-to-it-iveness depending on how they use the energy. These two can accomplish a lot together by their ability to focus, but the danger of drifting apart is also very real since neither sign is good at sharing or merging energy with others.
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How to Attract a Taurus Man as an Aries Woman:
This should be a breeze for an Aries gal. Not only do you want to do all the work, you have to do all the work. The Taurus male expects ripe fruit to fall off the branch into his waiting hand. Honestly, we can’t imagine him taking a step outside his daily routine to meet and greet possible love matches. On the other hand, he will be thrilled if you chase him, track him down, get his office number, interrupt him during the day, offer to take his car to the wash, or bake him a pie and bring it by work. Aries is the ultimate active model and Taurus is the ultimate stick in the mud.
How to Attract an Aries Woman as a Taurus Man:
You have an inner strength and calm demeanor that an Aries woman will find appealing once she notices it. Your sensuality will also be a big draw. Let her see you engaged in some sort of physical task, showing off that bull physique and she’ll be eating out of your hands in no time. While you set up the honey trap, be sure to let her think it’s all her idea. She feels more comfortable being in the lead.
Degree of Romance:
This partnership is not noted for a high degree of romance but rather practicality and action. The energy is oriented towards accomplishing personal goals, earning money, achieving success, and maintaining possessions. When combined, neither sign particularly trusts the illusion of romance and prefers the demonstration of interest and emotion.
Degree of Passion:
There can be a very high degree of passion in this partnership because Aries had plenty of flames and Taurus can bank them. Love making should be particularly spectacular with long sustained heights of passion and endurance till exhaustion. Both of these signs are very physical in nature, and the aggression of Aries is beautifully complemented by the sensuality of Taurus. The only problem we foresee is if the sexual urges are mismatched because these two signs are noted for furious tempers when frustrated.
Degree of Friendship:
There can be a pretty good degree of friendship between these two if they are willing to walk side by side together down the road of life, stopping to smell the flowers and choosing some they both like to make a beautiful bouquet.
Degree of Marriage:
We think this is a good bet for marriage if both partners are somewhat extroverted and oriented toward success, material well-being, nice possessions and accomplishments. They may not make the best parents in the zodiac, but they will take good care of their children, as well as their homes, cars, and careers. These two are among the most possessive of the twelve astrological signs. If the marriage is structured as a possession, it must be maintained, so there is a high probability of success.
Progression of Relationship:
This relationship should probably hit the deck running and build at a good, steady pace to a climax. Neither of these signs is willing to waste energy on a risky emotional investment and each tends to make their intentions clear. Communication is fairly forthright, and it should become obvious very quickly whether there is any point in continuing or not.
When It’s Over:
The problem with this combination is that neither one may recognize when the relationship is over, so it’s best to look outside for confirmation. If the fighting becomes continual, ask a friend with good judgment what they think. Aries could get stuck trying to be right, and Taurus can get stuck stubbornly resisting change. That’s a very bad combination in a break up scene. It split can drag on for years and years, while other innocent bystanders suffer. It reminds us of the African proverb “When elephants fight, it’s the grass that suffers.”
yep i agree with this so much. like a taurus man calms the aries woman down. his patience is something an aries woman will admire deep down. i personally think this page 100 percent true
This part tat sticks out the most its so true its actually funny two signs are noted for furious tempers when frustrated.
the only thing that will completely stop this is unfaithfullness too each other exp with an aries. plus a taurus mans mind games too
Hey thanks for writing and enjoy your nice cuddly Taurus man
My Aries partner finished our relationship just like that, Iam a typical Taurus male. I adore her and love her to bits.I would do anything for her, anything even boil my own heart
Will i ever win he back??
If so, how can i win her back
I’m sorry to tell you but when an Aries moves on it’s for real.
In the first place if an aries man or woman has lost her love for you in my opinion its because they either felt unloved, unappreciated or got betrayed which will hurt them in a deep way.
It will take alot too win back an aries trust once u hurt them badly even if they are one too forgive and forget. If an aries is deeply hurt they will become cold so warm them up. Send them music, or flowers Aries are romantic people and who love the attention. Text them, show them how much they mean too u, hit them in the heart by doing something sentimental or romantic. Make them laugh and smile at them be affectionate towards them that will warm them up. Then is the time too work on building back their trust as without them trusting you they will not respect you the way they use too.
Aries also love the chase but won’t chase unless they are fully sure of the relationship in hand, but don’t take that for granted either because if they feel they are not appreciated they will walk away from the chase and the relationship just as quick. Once an aries becomes distant its hard for them to come back to you because we see you as an experience that failed. U were the one that we thought would be their other half(our soulmate)….after that they will just go with the search of another mate and soon time we forget about u….
Go too their places, bump into them if possible and show affection, make them laugh, tell them u miss them, u trust them, be open with them they appreciate it more than you think.
Aries are free spirit people if you have their hearts you have it for a reason, always remember with aries “actions speak lower than words”. A shy aries will act dumb sumtimes so the conversation doesn’t feel ackward or to question if you are sincere and loyal twards them. These are very causious because of the fact when an aries falls in love they really fall hard. Aries wether its the shy type or not will be blunt too a point sometimes it may seem humorous but also tend too be secretive too, which explains why Aries are hard too figure out at times. Be tender, patient with an Aries and gratitude will soon follow.
I gave my Aries partner everything, maybe too much upon reflection. We lived approx 2 hrs away from each other, she said she loved that, because she yearned to be with me when we were apart, and loved it when we were together, she enjoyed the freedom our relationship provided, yet the security i provided her when we were together.
I sent her flowers, not all the time, not on particular dates, just randomly, i treated her to nights at the theartre, we loved our weekends away, we loved aour weekends at home, we spent holidays with the children together, everything seemed fine, i was given no hint that there were issues. I woke up 1 morning, and over coffee, i was told, ‘i dont love you, we have no future, please leave’ it was as cold and as that. I got on great with her Ex Husband, and he said she did exactly the same to him, she fell out of love over night, no reasons given. So, is she a one off ?? Or, is this an Ariean trait. Months down the line i still love her, and she will always occupy a massive part of my heart, i would take her back yesterday. I bought her a special item for Christmas, something that is personal to us both, i have had breif communication with her since, but this will be the test. Should i send the present ???
I wouldn’t open myself up to more rejection if I were you. Unfortunatelu this is somewhat characteristic of Aries and they mean it. I’m so sorry this happened to you. Try to learn from it. Taurus male Aries femamle = not a good match.
Nancy….. I have sent the presents. I guess being a typical Taurus, i am remaining stubborn over this, stubbornly loyal you may say.
Hope this helps u tom. 🙂 🙂 the best of luck with her. Maybe there still is that chance for u both. i’d say bump into her, remind her off what u look like ur smile and eyes. It would work for me big time.
hope u understand better now 🙂
O sorry for all the comments everytime i type in something it just keeps going into another comment.
One more thing tom – Aries hate mind games and with me and my ex Taurus yes he was big into the mind games and i’d put up with a few out of loyalty and understanding his way but then walked away. So if it was mind games, be honest with her as she already knows you and will appreciate ur honesty more than you’ll realise. Give her security, Safety and loyalty and patience, and above all when she is down or angry show her understanding and either hug her or smile at her. She might be at her lowest at that point but u showing her a friend at this time ya’ll never loose her. i can honestly tell u that much 🙂
awww Tom. Im an Aries and hate to tell you but yes once its over its over for an Aries. I really love Taureans and think we are most compatible but once the flames go out Im afraid it gets mighty cold. Aries girls have been known to test the waters though. Perhaps she is looking for a commitment and is playing hard to get. Unless she has fallen in love with another, its a possibility. Good luck. I wish you were mine. I do miss the true love a Taurus offers.
Well I am an Aries who has gone a whole year without seeing my Taurus love. I have been nothing but nice to him in return. He has always kept contact with me and now it is time for him to tell me what he feels for me. Hopefully, the hope I’ve used as strngth is the same hope that will allow me to enjoy the rest of my life with him. Seems the big ego get in the way of what could be and as an Aries I have learned that nothing but patience can sustain a true Taurus and Aries connection
More then likely she wants that committment but insecure on trusting him. i’ve been there so tell her personally how u feel but don’t say i love u to her it will scare her off. Make jokes and maybe remind her of the past, times when u to where good together, then work on trust. to start all tis off text her. Show her how much she means to u without saying the word love. remember we aint no mind readers 🙂
@Tish You are so right and I wish you all the luck in the world and rewards for your formidable patience.
I’m an Aries completely in love with a Taurus man, the problem is that he is with someone else, who -as he says- is not nearly as good as me but he is afraid to let her go -afraid to hurt her feelings- we almost ended up making love last night, but I couldn’t do it like that, I told him I want him in every part of my life and not just once, I hope he understands how much I love him, because I really really do…
P.s. What do you think? Will he break up with her?
He was kissing me so tenderly and passionately as if he is in love with me as well, is he?
Nancy I need Your advice!! thank you all
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I must say, if u stay persistent with an aries woman showing her u love her and have not forgotten about her. When she has no one to call on, she will call on you and probably get together with you because aries women love to be lusted and yerned over, we like to be chased as much as we like to get chased. atleast in my case, i love when a man never forgets me and i often consider going back to them i had an ex who still wanted and called me 4 2 years but he betrated me to no return. hes actually dead now.
Ira,
what i’ve learned from taurus men is that the more ya’re distant with them and the more ya stop persuing them the more they will chase u maybe worrying or wondering why ya’ve stopped in the first place. if he’s afaird to hurt her feelings ask him what is he doing to u ??
the more you let them away with things the more they will take it for granted so put ur foot down for your own sake and remember you can and will get better as u always do cas ur an aries. Don’t ever think this man won’t come back, they always do is all u have to do is become distant and stop all contact. Don’t listen to anyone off the internet trust ur own instincts with this one, remember, Insecurity and rejection, could be one of aries worst fears. But the sooner u face it the quicker u get over it as an aries. goodluck with that.
Am an Aries woman in love with a Taurus man..we have had a long distance relationship and it has had its up and downs..When we are together i feel like i am the best in everything,,i see that he adores me..I came to learn that he goes to have sex with another woman when I am not around! We don’t get to see each other so often!
I felt betrayed and hurt,,i started to hate him,,but he toldme that its nothing serious but only sexwith the other woman..He opend up to me and told me that he felt that its best for him to have the other woman on the side beacusehe is afraid that i will live him one day..all said and done,,he i decided to leave him..
He concinced me to giv him one last chanc eto prove that i am the woman that he wans to be with..he stopped seeing other women an dnow,,as much as we are far away fro each other,,he calls,writes sms and tells me his day to day planss.I have noticed also that he has opend up to me more..We have had big fights due to my rapid anger and desire of attention,,the last one was horrible until he got really mad and he told me that he dose not need anymore negativity from me? he complained of me trying to change him and not even given him enough time for him to prov his love to me..I calmed down and decided to take things easy and just take things easy! Ill be seeing him so and I really want to bring the fire in our relationship! what should i do? I need him to always crave for me and only me.. any tips? How do i get us back to the fire?
vanessa let him run to you. Taurus like the chase and seem to get too relaxed or turned off when someone is constantly chasing them.
Challange him in some way too but let him chase you. That should bring the fire back.
I was with my Taurus for a year we have been broken up for a year and a half now. It was a long distance relationship. He broke it off because the plan was for me to move to his city. I was unable to do so and he would not compromise. He said I deserved someone who could be with me everyday etc.. A month later he was calling and texting. Before the break up he told me he loved me and wanted to marry me. We have seen eachother twice since the breakup and spoken numerous times. I spent the night with him in January. I sent him a text in March asking if he would be in town anytime soon and he replied by saying no and that he is seeing someone else. I confirmed that he is. :0( I want him back so badly. I feel like there is still a connection. I saw him looking at me when he thought I was asleep and he looked at me the same way he did when we were together. This woman is a Gemini who is several years younger than him and well off, she gives him very nice gifts. I can’t compete with that and I don’t know what to do. Any ideas? Thanks p.s we are both in our late 30’s and dated before briefly in our early 20’s
You’d have to move there. Taurus really can’t do long distance.
I was married to a Taurus man for 9 years. He was a wonderful provider and stable companion. I have nothing but good things to say about him, and I feel the description on the site is very accurate. Unfortunately, my Taurus man was too stuck, and I missed some passion or at least growth in our life. Taurus = loyal, trustworthy, and materialistic. That is what I learned in 9 years.
Hey, I really need help.
I’m an aries woman, dating an aries man..and lately its been really difficult for him to juggle his time with his buddies, school as well as I.
He just told me that we need to break up, because we need time to miss each other and that we’re adding too much stress to each other so time alone is what we need. We talk a lot, everyday for hours. The problem is though is that I like more in person time, but we’ve been dating for 8 months now, and for the first 6 it was all about me. He never got out to spend time with his friends, and since he has been now its been kind of difficult for me to adjust, and it’s just been really frustrating.
He told me that he still loves me(which I believe) and that he really thinks that he will come back, we just need time to miss each other so that all the tension and stress will be gone. Does he really mean it, and will he really come back?
by the way, he just broke up with me a couple hours ago
Hello Nancy! This is an Aries woman speaking in love with a Taurus man.
You are amazing in describing zodiac coupling and combatibility! Here is my story, drop me aline if you wish.
I met my Taurus boy 8 years ago at the age of 16. And I loved him in a deep and wonderful way. I feel he also loved me. We were kids that time and we both had very difficult and abusive families. That time I was dealing with a Scorpio boy and he dealing was with a Virgo girl. We left our 10/10 to start our 7/10. Our relationship had loooot of friendship and lot of romance but it was till now a not easy going relationship in coupling section. As years passed I lost a little my sexual desire and he lost a ittle his feeling of commitment. Nothing was however totally lost. I always feel nice when he touches me even after all these years and problems and he always thinks about a life together but with doubts.
The bad scene was settled when after two years from our beginning he started playing a lot of silly insecure mind games with me and I got really hurt. It was horrible. I got mad and at the end I got bored of trying and I replied by cheating on him. I cheated a lot. I was not faithful for a period of two years but I didn’t leave him and something hold us together. Of course he also got extremely hurt because of my cheating as he is very possessive. I didn’t pay attention to his feelings of hurting because I wanted to be the winner. How stupid I was… I wanted to take a revenge, to win the battle, to hurt him. He was patient but I didn’t stop. I think ho got tired… And now he started a relationship with a capricorn girl.
At the beginning of his relationhsip I felt that it is over. I said, we messed everything, we hurt each other and this is the end. We are 24 years old and maybe we could find another love. Though, inside me, I felt that I love him very much and that I am ready for big compromises that I could do for a lifetime with a big smile on my face. Anyway, I let him go.
He came back after two weeks and he said that he stills loves me. He says that he is confused between the other girl and me. After all these years I feel I understand him a little. And the reason I want US to give US a second chance is that I feel that we love each other and in a way or another we helped each other to develop and overpass the past. I feel that all these mistakes until the last one happened not only because of our differences but also because of our extremely young age.
Aries female – Taurus male not good to meet each other before 30
We always have great time, we make nice love and we trust each other in something I cannot explain. It seems that we TRY but I don’t know if it worths. Inside me it worths a lot. I feel more passionate now about him and I want to end the games and live peacefully with him. He also started talking more about commitment and he is approaching with the same seriousness our past and the between us thing even though we are not back together oficially. He has not settled yet with his capricorn girl and I want this to be first so that everything will be clear.
Do you think that all this story is two elephants who fight on the grass? 😀
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After waiting for this Taurus to come to his senses he finally decide to take action. He claims he has found a house for us to start our family. He professes his love often, of course I had to get him conmfortable with all that. I just don’t want any drama from him. He wants to get married and this will be my second marriage. Would he lead me on like this or is he sure of himself. He knows I won’t tolerate any bullshit!! and how do I keep him this way
I’m surprised but not completely shocked to see so many stories that seem similar to mine. I’ve been in love with a Taurus man for over a decade. We have been back and forth and both in other relationships over this time, but the connection we have seems to never die. And I would have to agree and say that for a Aries woman (at least for me) that when it is over it is over. But no matter how hard I try, I cannot get over this man. I just went to visit him after not seeing him for 3 years. We live practically on the opposite sides of the planet and he explained 3 years ago that he was not willing to have a long distance relationship. I tried to argue that I needed to at least give things a real try again before packing up and moving across the world but he would not compromise on this. I explained that I at least needed to know how he felt and if I was crazy for thinking that we were soul mates and all he would say is that I needed to live my life here and he needed to be where he was. So I tried to walk away, but my heart was stuck with him. I cut off all contact with him and got into another relationship (again), but I couldn’t get him out of my system. I finally broke up with my other boyfriend (he was a Pisces) and decided to approach my Taurus man in a different way… to woo him slowly, not pressure and push him, and be more subtle and loving. As I said earlier, I finally saw him again after 3 years and we had an amazing weekend together as if we had never been apart. I am so very much in love with him, and while I feel like he loves me too (he constantly suggests/jokes that I should move to his city), he has never verbally told me he loves me. The last time (3 years ago) when I told him I loved him for the first time after knowing him for almost 8 years, he replied by saying “no you don’t. i think you are in love with the past.” Now I’ve gone to see him and it seems so obvious that he still truly cares about me, but I’m still driving myself crazing wondering if I’m stupid for planning on moving to be with someone who has never confessed their love for me. After all these years, I almost feel like nothing more needs to be said. Nancy, do I move to give things a real try or do I continue to be patient for him to tell me he loves me and really wants me to move?
I am recently divorced after 17 years from an Aries woman. Let me tell you, in the beginning it was the most wonderful feeling in the world. After a few years and we had made some big mistakes, things fell apart rapidly. We continued on for many years constantly battling/bickering. We divorced after 8 years, then got remarried again 6 months after. The problem with a Taurus man is that we have VERY long memories. Couple that with our tendency to ruminate and we can get stuck in the past to the detriment of our future.
We may have fought like cats and dogs, but made love with equal passion. I believe this match is where songs like “Bitch” by Dope, “I Hate Everything About You” by Three Days Grace, “Control” by Puddle of Mudd and “Miserable” by Lit came from!!!
Never again with an impulsive, hardheaded and spiteful Aries woman!!!
@Oxen/Bull Wow! You said it all!!
My ex husband, whom I was dating for a number of years before we married was unfaithfull, unpredicatble and certainly not loyal towards me in any way. He done nothing but lied and despite all my effords to show him how much I loved him he was too self centred. #
Despite the fact, we even lived in different states when dating he only made effords when he wanted too and everything had too be on his terms otherwise it would be constant anguing and disagreements. But every time I left he always found some way of coming back and then would hurt me again and again.
Our relationship would be a cross between “I don’t wana dance” by Eddie Grant http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=epEgiNT9_QE or ” I love the way you lie by Eminem and Rhianna (as i always caught his ass out lying)
I am an Aries and lived with a taurus for two years as flatmates – (he was away from home studying in my home town). He was in a relationship at the time but the attraction was instant. I didnt make a move because he wasnt single – he didnt try and make a move either. But the chemistry was electric & we were such good friends. When he finished college and left to go home for good I got tipsy one night and texted him ‘I love you’. I woke up to a message from his gf saying ‘dont text my bf again’ I never did.
6 years later I got back in touch with him when I came out of a long term relationship. I made out that it was a formal question and he answered it and asked if I was ok. I said I was fine his 2nd text to me was ‘are you married yet?’ – I said ‘no are you asking’ he quickly told me he was single so we started texting regularly. We were texting back and forth constantly he admitted that he wished I had made a move on him when he lived with me.
For months we were txtn (because we lived apart – 2hrs) he said the nicest ‘you will fall in love with me straight away’ and made me feel better about the situation I was in. My heart was bursting out of my chest. I couldnt stop thinking about him & it made me so happy. We were bith desperate to see each other – he admitted he couldnt deal with being apart (approx 2 hrs).
He said that he would come and see me twice & didnt. The first time was because he didnt want to come down alone and none of his friends could come down that weekend. The second time he said he had to work.
Out of sheer frustration I stupidly texted him a couple of angry messages (after a glass of wine). Thats when the power struggle between us began. On the spur of the moment one night I got a friend to take me up to his home town. We spent the night together. It was amazing being with him & in the morning it was perfect.
While he was in the shower I looked in his phone (wrong I know) and found similar text messages he was sending me to another girl. I was crushed. So I said to him me going up to see him was a mistake – I think he was hurt but I was too and didnt want him to know it was because of the other girl. He took me for lunch then we were so tired from the night before we spent the remainder of the day in bed b4 I had to leave to get the train home. He walked me to the station and asked me to let him know that I was home safely. I was so angry with him that I didnt text until the next day. It was literally just a ‘got home ok – thanks’.
I was not sure how I felt about him at all after that and the texts to each other became less and less. It was driving me crazy though that he was no longer blowing my phone up. I realised that I was the one initiating any conversation and it was like trying to get blood from a stone. His texts became less and less. Then we stopped texting for a month. I honestly could barely function & was so upset.
I got back in touch after a month & he barely chatted – he admitted me going up to see him ‘freaked me out a bit’ even though I asked if I should go and he said yes??? I did try everything to get him to speak to me and he wouldnt. Finally things came to a head – he wouldnt take my calls and I textd him a couple of angry messages (which he continued to ignore – infuriatingly). I know its done for him.
I probably should have admitted that to myself weeks ago. I am so completely gutted. I truly think I have fallen for this guy all over again and cant get over that he doesnt want to know now.
I have deleted his number because I am so ashamed at the way I have been behaving (not before texting an apology).
I hope that he will get in touch with me when he is ready and pray that I dont shut out my feelings for him.
Right now I am emotional all the time. I dont understand how I can be wrong about my feelings for him because they are so strong. There is a physical pain in my chest. I know in time the sadness will pass but I just want him to get back in touch. I would love to make a go of it with him.
I am moving a further 2 hours away from him for work. Before things came to a head at the weekend I texted to tell him & nothing. Just dont understand.
Can anyone help please – and be honest. My friends and family say ‘he’s just not that in to me’ but it feels real and they dont know half the things he said to me via text. I believe him – that is why its so hard to take the rejection.
@ #5 aries says… your words are so true and deep.
@ #6 Tom… something bad happened that she hasnt said. If true love is given to an Aries woman, she will return it back 10 fold. Aries respects loyalty.
@ #9 aries woman…. I totally agree with her as well as the last advice given. Bump into her at one of her favorite spots, not her home. Remind her of what you look like, your smile and eyes. To an Aries, the eyes are windows to the soul. Smiles show character. She will look in a glimpse.
@aries #33 i really feel you on that…but i think you should just leave him alone…. because Taurus men play a lot of mind games and as strong as we aries women are doesn’t mean that they don’t have out brains in the palm of their hands… they know that we are very compassionate and naive… so they love us to their advantage and they are naturally very loving signs if u get to know them like that…. but if he is texting another woman the same things that he is telling you… then honey you have to be strong and let him go (i know its painful because he’s such a good guy in that sense) but nobody is worth causing you that much stress… but seriously my advice to you is “let a taurus man kiss your ass.” because we arian woman are attractive and can attract whoever the hell we want… who needs true love if it doesnt exist with the both of you anyways… live your live for you…. and men will be be attracted to you… stop living for a taurus man because they are very complicated to even start to understand… Good luck dearie
for all my arian ladies trying to win a taurean guy…. please note that these men are really punks in trying to talk to a lady… (i’m being real and sincere) we always have to initiate the relationship because they are just sooo slow for no reason… i mean i understand that they take precaution but its just too much that it baffles me… i had to walk up to my current taurean bf…. and i still adk him today that why didnt he approach me if he thought i was attractive and his flimsy excuse was that i was so beautiful and he thought that i would not like him… dont get me wrong please…this guy is the love of my life… but oh boy his tormenting mindgames…. he is one of the few ppl who has ever suceeeded in giving me migraines for days… and they lie through their mindgames and the worst part of it is that thrive on debate which drives us aries crazy and makes me think i’m going mental…he’s cheated on me emotionally and idk if he has ever cheated on me physically…. he told his bestfriend that he loved her… and i found out because i checked his messages on facebook,….. i will call this relationship of the Taurus man and aries woman a perfect princecharming devil…he’s still the love of my life though lol… but i dont believe whatever the hell he says… and i dont trust him which is causing a lot of problems… i believe he abuses me emotionally and mentally… and quite frankly i wish i did not have to deal with him being overly emotional… we’ve been through a whole lot…. Gosh my taurean man….i can’t live without his love… he adores me…. and tells me that i’m beautiful everyday,… however he’s a bad kisser lol…and we used to have amazing sex but now he’s very boring and i think he’s slacking in keeping me sexually satisfied… i don’t like having sex with him honestly because it feels like he’s masturbating and i hate watching that and i always have to fake my orgasms how pathetic… but i never cheated on him and a lot of times i really want to…but i wont…
OMG such a loser he is….. lol 😉
#37 firstlady Aries bebe; thank you so much for your words of wisdom. Since I posted last time we have been texting back and forth A LOT. However it was always me that initiated contact – mr taurus did reply (only didnt a couple of times). I thought I was making progress because I stopped trying to convince him and was just having friendly chats. In a lot of convo’s he started flirting and directing the conversation to ‘sex texts’ which I stupidly responded to accordingly – mainly because it was fun and I was drinking at the time. However I became really frustrated with this & managed to get a message to him (through a mutual friend) that I was seeing someone else. I texted him and he was asking about this guy and I told him that I liked the other guy but he meant more to me. Mr Taurus said ‘I shouldnt mean anything to you’. I said ‘just tell me once and for all that I dont mean anything to you – I can take it and just want to move on’ – he said ‘you mean something but nothing like you want. We could never be together, surely you know this’. We now live about four hours apart. I said I accept that but dont understand. Then we continued to talk in a friendly way. The next texting episode was when we were both out drinking and I was so tired of the whole thing that I started being abusive – very abusive. He gave as good as he got and we are now not in contact again. I was honestly devastated the next day and for a week after. I have never said such horrible things to anyone in my life and thoroughly regret it, but he brings this side out in me. Its ridiculous. I was so upset that the guy I was with texted Mr Taurus saying ‘stop texting my gf’. This enraged Mr Taurus who basically told the guy to ‘f-off’. Not before saying some more nasty things about me. He then went on to say ‘I dont want her anyway’. This completely crushed me. I need to know why I feel so strong for this guy still? Like I said I have deleted his numebr and will not contact him again but it was with a heavy heart. I know I have to leave this to see if he will ever come back to me. I know he feels something but just couldnt/wouldnt tell me for some reason. Anyways I am getting on with things and am happy honestly, just didnt want it to end the way it did – didnt want contact to end at all. Again thank you for your comment really appreciated and I will follow your advice. Hopefully he will be kissing my ass soon. Hope you and your Mr Taurus work it out. Sounds like you need to spice things up a tad. Best of luck.
I was dating a taurus man, he works 7 days a week and every other day is in a different city. Well he chased me for a while and I finally gave in…. life was perfect we dated for 2 months he made me feel like I was everthing and in return I treated him the same way… I was willing to marry him, he he would of asked…I love him…….well then I found out he was married. He asured me that he was going to get a divorce and was already working on it. Well I broke up with him thru a text because I couldn’t get ahold of him even though I didn’t want to but I was mad. Well I finally calmed down and tried calling and texing him but he never answered. Well he finally text back one day and we started talking again I really do love him and want him back. Do you honestly think he will get a divorce? What can I do to make him want me? I’m not dumb and if for a minute I thought he wasn’t sincere I would move on but I do believe him. I know that I sometime okay most of the time am impatient but I don’t want to push him away…..please helpp.
Very true…Im dating my best friend presently and hes a taurus. They are very good at hiding their emotions and feelings.They also have fiece tempers when it comes to the people they care about…ask me…i know.They have a love like no other and they are the most trustworthy people.
@ mariee…based on your story….i believe that taurus man loves you…however i also believe that he still loves his wife…and it will be hard for him to detach himself from her because Taurus tends to stick with things…anything or anybody who has an impact on them….i think you should leave him alone because, it is not fair to him and his wife…you’re putting him in a tight situation and if he does go through with the divorce (which i don’t think he will), that won’t make life any better for you Aries because, he will still love her and he will probably fall in love with someone else when he’s married to you…my best advice to you Mariee…is to dump him…because taurus men are very complicated and you don’t want to be in that complicity…Good luck…..
forget about that man @ Mariee….
i have read all of these, well most of em, comments and i have a taurus who i am head over hills in love with i will go to the end with him because i know he will for me it is true that both signs has their tempers but thats the enjoyment because if you can deal with each others tempers and attitudes then its worth it why give up on love i love my taurus and wont leave for anything we are blessed to have a little one on the way hopefully its not a fairy-tale so i said all this to say this dont give up and all aries women dont just walk away but we halfway dont trust people so just dont mess that up (if you understand) much love my fellow aries and taurus lovers
OExcuse me but I think u r wrong when you said ariesfemale an taurusmale arent a good match I been with my taurus man for 6years now and our love Is stronger than ever an relationship like this can work an I know for a fact. You can never judge a situation over your pass experience. Not even if u havent been in a relationship like this before who are you to tell what is what. All it is you have to recognize your risings an
your placements many aries that are shy would have a better chance at a taurus man than the annoying stalker type aries but you do have taurus men that loves,an respects the chase it depends on the indiviual alsO not always the sign so dont come on this thread
playing badmatch goodmatch cause me an my husband been with,each other threw good times an bad even 4years of long distance relationship. Some of you need to except either the person didnt want a relationship anymore or in the first place or they lost interest in you move on plenty fish in the sea quit thinking its star signs cause most times opposites,attracts.
I want him back in my life – but he wont take my calls and rarely responds to my texts. What can I do please? x
I think I’ve fallen for a Taurus man. Actually he’s on the cusp of Aries/Taurus (birthday is April 20). For the past two years, I have been out of the “love loop.” I haven’t wanted anything other than playing around and making new friends… but then this guy came along.
I met him about 8 months ago at work. I was attracted to him, but he seemed to be into another girl at the time, so I backed off.
For the past month – and especially for the past week – I have been constantly yearning for him. I already have it built up in my mind and heart that I want him… and I don;t know if this is a good thing or not. I haven’t wanted anybody this badly for 2-3 years.
I’ve already tried pursuing, asking him to hang out with me and some fellow coworkers, to which he denied…stating that he doesn’t hangout with coworkers outside of work.
A few days ago at work, he walked up to me and said, “I only put up with BS from people I actually like, which is why I would put up with any BS you gave me.” I pretended not to hear him, and then he was like, “Did you hear what I just said? I said I’d put up with your BS because I like you.”
I’m scared to put myself out there. I like this guy a lot. He is honestly one of the sweetest men I’ve met – a very emotional and sincere guy. But I don’t know how to put myself out there. I already have a buttload of emotions built up for this guy… I just don’t want to chase and be rejected, the first time I got built up emotions after soooo long of being out of the game.
Ok read this and tell me please please please, a bit long:
Had a LDR due to my studies and planned to move to her country soon.
4,5 years together she said I was the love of her life the minute she saw me.
Got engaged but we had minor issues over the distance and she was stressing.
Ended up fighting and I had the bad habit of breaking up with her but always sorted out after an hour or two.I know it was bad to do that.
She finally left me 4 months ago but 3 weeks after the break up we met for valentines and was perfect.She was crying and unsure about everything saying she has depression.
She stayed for 2 days instead of a week because she was hurting me she said.
She went back and told me it was over but told my mother she does not want her to loose me from her life and has feelings for me.
I surprised her a month later on her bd with 30 flowers but i only got:
You are selfish and accused even for dating other women, thing i never did, got accused for even trying to steal money from her 4 years ago!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I was soooo hurt.
After that i did not want to know.
She begged for 2 days to speak to her and fix things.
I finally gave in just for her to turn things around again.
After that I went NC but called me 2 weeks later crying without a reason and thanking me for been there always.
Is not the first time she calls, the max she stayed away was two weeks, she always calls within a few days.
A week later , yesterday , i asked her if she is with anybody and she said angry no.
She said she got angry i am making conclusions.
I told her i miss her and love her but no respond from her so I said good night.
She kept my engagement ring and she said she will send back my clothes but has not.
Last week got a photo from her with a painting.
I ignored her,she called, I ignored again.
Called back, she ignored my bit called two days later.
Told her not to call me unless she has something important to say as I love her but she is messing e up.
She was wondering why and that she tried to help me as i am having a hard time and that she wants to know how i will be doing.
She sais she never got angry when i said i love you, because she knows is hard for me.
She pointed out she needs to know how i am doing.
I said u will not.
U call me if you got anything important, even if u meet a guy i said.
Its been a week with NC.
I love this crazy Aries to death, I even say goodnight to her photos at night…….
Btw i tried to suggest holidays together and I got NO we will have a good time………..
god… i am Taurus woman who have known about 5 Aries girl having a hard time with this Taurus men and 3 guys who struggled with Aries women..
Funnything is that, Aries women did not find this Taurean men sexy like Leo men( so not much Sexual attraction), but they found mentality side very attractive. Same with Taurus side: they did not find the aries woman Sexually attractive, but they saw Aries women as a strong, reliable and trustworthy partners.
The bond is strong, but there’s major differences especially with mindGame thing between this two signs…
For example:
[Experienced Taureans are good at lying.]
i met about 20 taurus people, men and women. Suprisingly, Those Taureans who has been in and out of some numbers of relationship become good at lying to their partners compared to those who was not in relationship much.
This result seemed because all the GOOD MEMORIES of being hurt, trial and error they had in the past led us to ‘Not to Trust’ future lovers. There was a tendency to [Test] their lovers, [Mind games] or even [cheat on others to see the difference] before they commit into relationship. By doing so, they know that they are ‘safe’ and ‘secure’ with their own decision.
[Aries men and women are quite Honest(compare to experienced Taurus)]
OK, admit it that you do also play mindgames. i had so many Aries girls who asked my how they should act in front of their men, try to CONTROL their man into the way they want. This, however, is less deliberate than Taurus. Sometimes, they even tell us why they acted in that way. We can read Aries people’ intentions in the action. I saw that as Pure and Innocent. They can’t hide it (unlike Scorpios who play mindgames so well… ).
So:
[Preventing the Cheating Taurus (LOL)]
If the partners keep telling them how much they love taurus, and act very open and honestly, even council about your problems openly
=> [Taurus people start act in the same way]. The more honest you get, the more Guilt piles on Taurus that they can’t betray you. They don’t want to fail those who Trust them so much. Ask them to sort out some of your problems. do lots of emotional Counselings, ask for their answers so they feel that you are ‘respecting’ and ‘trust’ them.
(Warning: Don’t over do it. They might break up or hide from you cos you are too annoyingly innocent for them. Show your improvements and changes of life by their words)
i have noticed many Taurus-Aries couples starts gr8 in the beginning, then rocky later, because Aries Women often be too imaginative and overly Dramatic. They Over Analyse things and cannot act cooly sometimes when they are frustrated.
but all this led to Taurus’s realisation about how trust worthy the Aries were later. i did the same to Aries Girls. They wanted to keep me as a close friend but i ran away from them as i saw them having lots of close friends(Taurus people get jealous with their friends too..). But then few months later they coming back to you with the same “Missing You’ Next to me, and i noticed that’s all i needed from them. lol
God, Taurus people loves ‘unchanging trust’….
Im inlove with a taurus man… we’ll we both inlove <3 and now we're going to get marry…
one thing for sure…. just believe in your love, believe in your partners and everything will be ok… dont foresee or believe in some thing that can dictate you and build images in your mind for which it will become reality… if you love your man/woman, no matter what kind of zodiac he/she is, it doesnt matter as long as you both work it out… because no one can tell you what to do, who she/he is, whether to stop or continue.. its just you and your partner.. work it out believe in it, trust on it… then everything will be perfect 🙂
and to believe we are hundred miles away, we are in long distance relation, but we finally work it out because we chose to work it out…
I agree that the Aries woman/Taurus man pair is self-contained, independent, and self-sufficient. We do focus on our personal lives, needs, desires, and wishes, and the rest of the world is almost non esistent, except when we want it to be there! We work very well together, and have similar drive and common goals and interests. We feel that we can accomplish anything together!
I have found that my Taurus man was thrilled when I chased him (and still is). He loves that i think about him during the day, interrupt him during the day, offer to take his car (or bike) to get washed, or cook for him and his friends. Acts of kindness are high on his “love language” (The 7 Love Languages). My Taurus gentleman indeed has an inner strength and calm demeanor that this Aries woman finds attractive. He is strong AND sensitive!
I find that my Taurus man is really pretty romantic. We are so much alike. We think alike, anticipate alike, expect alike; even finish each other’s sentences. With the romance also comes the passion, where we also connect very well. Taurus, you are very passionate!
My Taurus man is my best friend! We are both excited to walk side by side together down the road of life. We look forward to every day together. When we have to spend the day or night apart, it is like an eternity! We are like school kids, waiting to see one another again; and my Taurus man is in his 50’s – we’re certainly not school kids! We are still very much alive, however and bring out our innter child. 🙂
We are planning to be married in 2012. We have both been married previously, so we are objective and realistic about the idea/commitment. We are however, very much in love and old fashioned in the sense that we want to share the committment and bond of marriage with one another. I have no doubt, that we will be married for the rest of our lives. I have waited my entire adult years, to find this man. He is not perfect (nor am I), but he is perfect for me!
I think the Aries woman / Taurus man combination is perfect… at least it is for me!
My Aries is wondering now after 9 months if i am single or have a gf .
she even made in her little head a scenario about my imaginary new gf
she said she does not know why she feels this
any ideas
Aries woman here been with my Taurus man for so many years. five years after we met we broke for a period of time and then started over. you shake off the cobwebs that are trailing you all the time. the past will alwys be there as a stage in life. then there is a newstage with a new beginning. my bull understoof that and that was eight years ago and he didn’t lose faith ever. the romance is still there. aries and taurus really can be practical and romantic too. he does have innner strength a lot of it but i don’t agree that there is no romance. thereis romance well into the golden years!
omg I’ve been breaking up with my taurus, who was also my first love, for about 4 years. lol It was so hard for us to admit it was over because for so long we just knew that we would be together in the end. I spent so many years being his love interest I did not know how to just be his friend. He is awesome and worth the effort. The break up took me through a rollercoaster of emotions. But we are in a better place now.
My aries called me to say she is going to get help for her depression.
I am the only one who knows this, not even her parents…..
Any thoughts?
Been apart 9 months
am in love with a Taurus man something happen that we break up..he is going out with someone else now tho I still love him, recently he came back telling me he hurt me and he will make it up to me, we do chart and along the line he will go back to his shell he don’t communicate and he always act as if nothing is happening between us and is a long distance relationship…. he keep secrate a lot …he always tell me to be myself and that all that he cherished me alot but as an arise woman am impatient cos there is lack of communication and I don’t know how to go about it in other not to push him hard…..am confused, I don’t know right now if am still in a relationship but he always show up when me notice that I wanna go out with another person…… pls help me cos I don’t know if he love me or not..what kin of man is that?
I am aries woman in love with taurus man ….
I …ummmm …..just need a man with good sense of humaur ….atleast good looking man if not handsome ….calm and not angry over some small issues …..must be be giving enough space ….when it comes to sexual matters and many other things ….like people with whom i am talking to and what …. I …..i mean to know everything about me ….is so insane ….
The taurus man however is extra romantic ….which i don’t like ….excess showcase of both emotional and physical love .. ….Its irritating ….
I don’t like his stubborness ….specially over critical issues like breakup ….family life etc
my taurus ….has took over my entire life …..which is worst ….right from what i wear …..to where i go ….its his decision ….
These are some of the qualities i really hate ….and want peaceful life ….which i can never get …..
Just need a Good psychatrist ….as i will be with this man ….my whole life ….
I’m an Aries woman I’ve been talking on and off for a year with a Taurus he says he not looking for a relationship and he’s very distance most times I’ve liked him more more he has a great personally and very intelligent I feel like we would be a good match but I can’t for some reason get his full attention I try not to be to pushy and I tend to hide my emotions from him I know men Dont like a aggressive woman I really like him I Dont know how to get his fully attention..or do I just need to move on and quit waisting time?? Answer someone??
Then, let me really get this clear now; this person that’s showing interest isn’t really of interest to you, so then if it is that you want/looking for a partner 10 years older and at the same time you’re wishing I get a partner 10 years younger, could mean that we both may end up together??, am I correct in my analytical usage of context clues here, just so there is a precise understanding of whats really unfolding here.
Taurus men are really boring..I dated one before or my ..I nagged him a lot because of his boring nature and soon I realized he will never change.Such a disappointment.Im cancerian but it took 4 months before I fell off his radar.I feel for Aries women who will get involved with this man.I have Aries friends and I love them a lot for their fun sides.Weekend getaways, clubbing together,eatouts,hangouts all the enchilada.Which makes me think can an Aries woman not get bored with this man?Food for thought.
Here’s my story (sorry, they always come in epic form!), I hope it’ll help other Aries women out there realize there is a plan of attack when it comes to snagging a Taurus (TAKE IT SLOW), and though it’s hard, it’s an amazing journey:
I am an Aries woman completely enamored with a Taurus man. I have to agree with the one user who said the majority of these comments are depressing… But that user followed it up with a key statement that hits the nail on the head, compatibility grows over time. We really are two different signs having one major trait in common, stubbornness. That alone means, it’s NOT easy, you are going to have to try and understand the Taurus for what he is and adapt or you will lose him. Now does it seem fair that YOU have to adapt? Of course not, but its certainly easier that way, just trust me on this one. Another key thing to remember is that they ARE sensible, and while you may be “changing” your ways to meet their needs, it’s really only so they can see things in a different light. Once you figure out how to get your point across without overreacting, you will be listened to, and you WILL be taken care of!
We were friends for three years before we started dating. He’s stunningly attractive and we always had the most AMAZING chemistry, but I was in a long-term relationship at the time, so we just started to build a solid friendship without the pressure of is he/she into me? I always had a thing for him in the back of my mind, but I never gave it too much thought, he was a player, after all. Looking back, I know the reputation he had was due to the overly-charming nature of the Taurus, he was easily a lady-killer and he never committed. Now I realize that once a Taurus decides to commit, the flirting is only for you and they completely expect the same in return, even that harmless conversation you’re having with the bar stranger WILL be misinterpreted. They need to feel secure. As an Aries, that can be hard to deal with, were the centers of attention and we rule our own worlds.
Anyway, having thought about him for years as the unattainable eye-candy, I just never expected to find myself in a relationship with him, even after my man and I had split. Without that pressure there, though, I was able to get to know the amazingly selfless, genuine individual that he is. Even though we didn’t hang out all too often, I knew he was someone I wanted to keep in my life forever… Someone that would always be there when you needed him. After a night of drinking and flirting, we finally hooked up. It was phenomenal. The next morning, he woke up wanting to cuddle and I ran out of there as fast as I could trying to not let him know the way I really felt about him, keeping a tough outer shell to protect myself from what I thought was his player nature. I knew I would fall and fall hard, so I just kept telling myself that it meant nothing, just a pure night of passion. Well, a few months went by and we’d see each other here and there, pulling each other under stai rwells and into coat closets to share a quick, passionate kiss (with our dates for the night in the other room). I routinely supported him at one of his local dj gigs and wed always be the two closing down the bar talking and laughing over cocktails. I still continued to tell myself (even though it was really hard to listen) that it meant nothing. We stopped running into each other as frequently and I didn’t hear from him for a while I eventually got word that he was in love and knowing he’s not the man to settle down right away, my heart broke a little, I knew it was something serious. Obviously I told myself the whole time we were just friends, so I respected his new relationship and decided I wasn’t going to make any moves when we occasionally did run into each other. As nice as it was to see him, it killed me on the inside to not be able to act how I always had with him, and I later found out that he avoided me because he didn’t trust himself around me and wanted to give his girl his all (sweet, I know, but for an Aries that’s not getting what she wants, it was bitter, bittersweet).
For that reason, I was incredibly surprised to see him show up at my doorstep at my Halloween party. A smile instantly took over both of our faces. He said he just wanted to say hi because he missed hanging out. I had been drinking so I wanted to jump all over him the second I laid eyes on him, but instead, I just playfully teased him about how he had dropped off the face of the earth thanks to his new girl. He told me things weren’t going too well, and she left to work out of state leaving him unsure of whether or not they were together yet just a few weeks before that, she was telling him she wanted to marry him and have his children. At that point, I lost all respect for her; shed lied to him about being pregnant among other terrible things. My party wasn’t exactly the best place to be catching up on lost time, so I got us off the topic by jokingly saying ?well, that’s settled, were eloping to Vegas! He didn’t stay for very long, but during the time he was there we were inseparable. I walked him out to his truck and made a move. He accepted and then quickly changed his mind I don’t know what’s going on right now and I don’t want to regret this later on. Please don’t get me wrong, I WANT to, you’re gorgeous, he said. Even thinking about it now that moment sent shivers down my spine. The chemistry was THERE yet I found him all that much more attractive when he was able to control himself and be respectful to her, even though we both knew it was over
The next few weeks were particularly hard. We hung out all the time and did nothing but support each other through the tough times. It was a bit strange, he was pining over his ex and I was finally dealing with the loss of mine (after pretending for a year that I wasn’t bothered by it), yet here we were just holding each other in silence, watching movies and falling asleep on the couch together. It eventually got to the point where we were spending every day with each other. Finally, one night everything just changed and we found ourselves in another passionate exchange. I joked about it taking so long and he just kept saying he was sorry, he wanted to wait because he didn’t want to lead me on while he was still thinking about someone else We agreed neither one of us wanted anything serious and we were just having fun. But then the holidays rolled around and he came home to my parents house on Christmas morning and I went to his family party that evening. The next week I wa s invited to his nephews christening, me and a whopping 15 other people (including family), so I started to think a little more about what was going on, obviously there was something more there.
This is where I started making one terrible mistake after the next. To the point where Im actually surprised were still together (especially after reading more about the nature of the Taurus). I overanalyzed everything. I knew I was head over heels for him when I first laid eyes on him years ago; it was silly to all parties involved for me to pretend that I wasn’t For me (even though I had yet to admit it), it was simple; I wanted him, all to myself. I had serious trust issues thanks to past relationships. I knew he was a flirt, and I still hadn’t completely shaken that player idea in my head. I wanted commitment. I wanted to know he was mine (even though I knew damn well he wasn’t anyone else’s). I pushed and pressured him so hard, that again, I cannot believe were together today. I played silly hard to get games and did things just to get a rise out of him because, I mean, why did it matter? I wasn’t his girlfriend, right? I even kissed another guy on New Years Ev e just to prove to him that if he didn’t want to claim me, there were a ton of other guys that would. I made rude comments about the fact that he didn’t want me to be his girlfriend so his options could always be left open. I made sure I had control over the situation when we were out in public all things Taurus DESPISE!
I thought I was playing smart, I thought I had mastered the game Little did I know every single time I did something I was pushing him farther and farther away. He doubted I was even still the same girl he started to fall for and I must admit I was going so INSANE over my insecurities; I no longer WAS the same girl. I had created the insecurities for him that I was trying so desperately to alleviate for myself! After I told him about the NYE incident (I couldn’t take the guilt for more than a day), we got into a HUGE fight, I broke down crying, exposing every insecurity I had, where my heart really was, and why I thought the stupid games would work. I told him I loved him, much to my surprise he immediately said he loved me too, that I actually didn’t hold a candle to his ex and that terrified him considering how head finally let someone in and she shattered his heart so quickly, now he was looking at how I was acting with other guys and couldn’t help but think he was making another bad decision. I just don’t know how I can commit to someone who’s all over other men like you are. I spent all day with you and you kiss someone else when I turn my back to prove a point? My flirtatious, hard-to-get ways turned around and bit me directly in the ass. I tried to see the situation for what it was, I was really hard on myself for doing all those things to try and make him jealous I felt like a complete ass.
Not too long after that, he asked me to be his girlfriend. I was thrilled, but again, made a lot of bad decisions. He wanted to take things slow and I was constantly fishing for security. I took offense when he didn’t want to plan too far into the future (not the marriage and kids talk or anything, but even summer vacation talks were too much pressure for him). I still flirted because I had considered it harmless and thought he would want to be the same way. I though it was good for both of us to know we had SEXY significant others that still had it. We both were flirts by nature before we met, so that shouldn’t change, right? I still continued to play games, not answering his calls, making him wonder where I was (when really I was just sitting home overanalyzing everything). This was my dream man – I had to figure out how to keep him! I still didn’t fully get everything that had happened between us and I was used to men showering me with affection and compliments, he d dint do that and I couldn’t understand why.
I realize now, 8 months after he asked me to be with him, that if I had just taken a chill pill from the get-go things would probably have progressed faster and in a more serious manner. I pushed him into committing when he really wasn’t ready and I hadn’t really proven my loyalty to him. Now we finally understand each other, but its taken a LOT of fights and exhausting discussions to get where we are. At first, I always had an answer for everything, I immediately took defense to any constructive criticism head give (and they give a LOT of it, but its only because they care and want what’s best for you). I would bring the horns of the ram to every fight and end up in a deadlock with the horns of the bull. Bulls are the stronger beings, in many ways more than just the stubbornness, though. He usually was right, because he, as a Taurus, was thinking sensibly; I, as an Aries, typically lived by the moment and on pure emotion? We hated each other at times. But we needed each other. One day, I finally decided to start backing down. He wasn’t used to it and even though I wasn’t resisting him anymore, he was so ready for a fight that head already brought that Taurus temper to the table, so I had to deal with a lot of harsh behavior from him while he settled into the calmer me and realized I no longer needed to be the enemy (they won’t ever let their harshness go for long without an apology and sincere regret). I listened to every word he said and took it for what it was. I changed my flirtatious behavior because even though I didn’t get why it was wrong if I wasn’t crossing any lines, I knew he wasn’t going to see my reasoning and I needed to make him feel secure, or I was going to lose him. He spelled it all out plain and simply for me, I was just so busy being defensive that I never listened. It took a lot for me to finally concede. I guess I just realized that, I, from the start, I hadn’t had the right approach; it was time to change. Time to give control back to the Taurus man that so desperately needs it rather than fighting so relentlessly for it. I know, an Aries letting go of their control over their worlds is a hard thing to do, but you have to realize that once you do (and once he realizes you have), he will become more understanding (and therefore less bull-headed!) because there’s no longer a need for their defense mechanism. He will be nothing but supportive and kind to you. Once this occurs, you realize you didn’t lose your control, you just are finally sharing it with a Taurus that is finally willing to listen.
Again, its taken a lot to get to this point of mutual understanding and I cant wait to watch all the glorious characteristics of the SECURE Taurus continue to unfold. All the fairy tail things you read about them ARE true. They love to shower you with gifts, they’re amazing shopping side-kicks, they can fix anything and everything and they do it for you without even asking because they’re constantly looking out for your best interest, they always have your back. Once they realize you’re not out to get them, that is.
I just want to share my story.
January 2016 I met my taurus man. We dont have much in common when we get to know each other. Like, Im an outgoing person and he is not (he prefer to stay in the house) i love beach but he hate it. We dont have much in common like how other relation does. But one thing i like about him is when he jokes, he is so funny and he always happy and positive. He is so understanding, calm. And he always lift me up when I’m down. We are in a long distance relationship and i remember before that its funny how we have strong connection between us even we haven’t met that time. Like we misses each other even we are texting already and we both feels like we already met before but we didnt. Cause of that after 2 months of chatting he decided to visit me here in my country where he have to travel more than 15 hr to see me. He spent alot of his money to see me and to do things with me which its okay for him cause he knows that Im worth it to spend for and he doesnt care about how much money he have to use even though as i know him he dont spend much money in his country. I care about him but at the same time was happy in what he does for me.
So when i met him personally it was amazing. He is shy but talkative but i can feel his nerves is shaking haha im even the one who grab his hands cause he can’t even hold me or hug me more as what i expect. I can see that he respect me like im a boss something.
He talk to other people like he is a talkative person but he really isn’t talkative like i am haha. In our relationship im the one that has a voice than him. But i respect him too like i ask him what he want or what he want to do but he turns it back to me and he even want what i want and he want to do what i want cause he want me happy. But unfortunately im an outgoing person and i can see to him that he just want to spend and relax and enjoy the moment in our cozy bed. Haha its boring i know but i found him cute ?. When its too hot in the beach he will ask me to go back in our villa cause he left something in our room but the truth is he will quickly remove his slipper and jump in the bed and i was like o.O???? “Hello?? You said you just left something?? ” and he is laughing at me like he win in a game. And i can see in his face how happy he was in our bed. Weird guy i know but i love him.
So there, he went to see me two times here in my country but we broke up in the second time :(. Im an aries and im too jealous and always nagging at him which he dont like cause im out of control already. We broke up.before then get back again then broke up again now and idk if we will be together again. Also its not all about it. Its also because of how far we are and he still goes to school. Our situation is complicated. Im aggressive person and i always push him to go somewhere when he dont feel he want or do something. I’m too impulsive. I regret it. But i do love him and idk if we will be together back again. Any suggestion
-I want my taurus man back to me. Help me please
We are in a long distance relationship. He is from California and I’m here in Philippines. He visited me twice and the last visit is this january 2017 but we broke up. Falling in love with him is the best feeling i ever had to any guy i met not even in my ex before. Its just way too different. Despite of our differences in life we had a strong connection with each other and he even said that to me. But our situation is complicated. He still goes to school and he want to save to buy a house and at the same time he decided to travel other country while he is still young which i support him on that. But he won’t be able to see me for couple of years since he need to save up and he said he is not sure in how will he goin to feel for the next couple of years without seeing me. Plus we are different races im a filipina and he is american. And he sometimes talk so fast which my face is (o.O) like this always. I understand him but sometimes not. I dont have a problem to him but he has a problem to me but deapite of that he still loves me. I cried so much when we broke up and told i will let you go. He cries too and i habent seen a man cried before. And he told me how he appreciate me and how he likes me and how i change him to things he is not before. We both cried together. Letting go of him was a hard decision since i cant imagine that i wont be his girl to be with. I love him so much. We broke up but we were good that night.
But one time he went home late and find out he went to the bar and met some girls who grab him and want him since he is tall, handsome and foreigner too. At that night he never know that i know he is with some girls since i found in his fb friends that she has a filipina friend cause i know he dont have in his friendlist except me. I was crying in that night while he is not yet home. I slept in the couch outside in the hotel waiting for him. Then he arrive by his car, thats 3 am where bar closes here. I pretend i was sleeping in the couch. Then he pass me and i was very mad at him but i still pretended i was sleeping. I heared his step again and feel his breath then he carried me and it was good haha but im still mad at him. I even smelled that he really drink alcohol. I wanna slap him that moment but i still keep my body sleeping. He lay me down in our bed and he kiss my lips. The he goes to shower and i wonder about it why. Then after that he lay down with me and open the tv. He then hug me and kiss me in my back which makes me turn on to him but i still pretend sleep. He keeps hugging me, he is too close to me where i can feel all of him and wanting him too. So i turned around to him and kiss him back and we almost making love at that point where he is so attach to my body and hot. he really want me that moment but he ask if im still on my period and i say yes haha and he was sad cause he want me so bad. I was sad too. I was mad at him but i pretended that everything is okay. Then i start to ask him nicely and friendly what he do. And he tells me stories and he didnt told me about that girl who become his friend in fb on that night aswell. I didnt ask but was extremely mad at him. In the morning i told him i will go to my friends for a swimming. He dont want to come since its not his type of fun. He gave me a big money but i didnt take it when he knows i dont have any. I took his coins instead and he ask for a kiss before i leave. I kissed him. Then i go.
Night comes and i ask him to pick me up cause i was so drunk and my friend told him too. He arrive and i was so happy but when i saw him i got mad at him and i started to cry and blame him and hate him in front of my friends. My friends were crying cause of how i cried. I told him all of my pain and hurt while i was crying even told him some bad things. I was out of myself and i cant control it no more since i was so drunk. Then i found myself inside the car. Then he carried me out of the car in his shoulder. He ask the receptionist to watch me for him and i scared the receptionist that i saw a ghost. I was soo silly and crazy that time. Then he ordered me some food and wanting me to eat so i eat. And then i sleep and woke up at 2 am and i cried. Then he woke up and ask me why im crying. I remember what i told to him while i was drunk. And i say sorry to him and he said its fine and he understand how hurt i was that everything i said is true and he believe all of it. It hurts him but he accept it.
I ask him about thats girl and he told me that he met it in the bar and not only the girl but they are group of friends who asking him to be with their table. They keep asking him who he was, where he came from and they ask for his fb and he gave it so they become friends in fb that night. And he said nothing had happened or bad happened. Which i believe since he kiss me that night and how he want me that night too. He is also has very big respect to me. He cant even touch me without my permission if i want to. But he lied cause he dont want to hurt me which i was really mad about. I told him thag he didnt think how ill be hurt how he doesnt care about my feelings. But on that morning we all good. Then in next couple of days he went home in US. He was still sweet to me like we still couple. He calls me and says sweet words to me giving me time and attention. But i got crazy again and nag him over and over cause i was jealous about the girl he met. He told me he dont like the girl though he found her attractive but doesnt mean he like her . Thats what he told me. He explained everything again then i told him to stop his lie and no more lies. He said okay but i was too crazy still and i always nag at him but he just keep ignoring me so i made to the point i told him hurt words and thati told him i hate him so much. Then he ignore me again and didnt txt me . So i nag again and complain. He told me he is done that he dont want anymore cause i always hating him. Then we didnt txt for 2 days i guess or 1 day which im not use to it. So i text him saying sorry that i didnt mean to hurt him by what i say that i was just too mad and full of anger and insecurities. Then he told me like we are over. That he dont love me no more that the sweetness of him faded.
I pleased him, beg him, i did everything and now we are still chatting but friends only. Last valentines he didnt told me he loves me so i cried. It hurt me and it breaks my world apart. Then i text him sweet messages that i realize what i did, i told him how important he was for me and says sorry for what i did. Then i send him our happy funny videos and he laugh and start talking to me. Then days after he easily got hotheaded and blame me that he lock his key in inside his car and it was my faulth cause he called me and i talk to him and even told me that he dont have time talking and socializing and he is so mad.
I got scared of him. Still i said sorry. Then after the moment he told me sorry too that he blame me on his own fault. He told me sweet amazing text after that. Then i accept him and told im i will still try to undertstand but thats to let him know too there is a limit. So we are back again but as partner. I told him ilove him but he dont responds no more like how he always does. And im not use to it and i really feel again that he dont likes me no more. But he still keeo texting me too but not as how we was before. Now im confuse what to do. Im he dont appreciate me no more then i have to go and keave and wont be txting him no more cause it only hurts me to know he dot like me that i feellike im just forcing him to like me. But i love him so much, i dont hate him, i need him, i want him , he is my type of a guy, i even though that he is my prince. Like i feel like he really is my soul mate that im longing since before. He is everything i want to be with in my life. And now i dont know if i can get him back or should i leave him forever since i feel like he is not too sweet to me now. Help me please. I need someone to suggest to me something. Help me please
-I want my taurus man back to me. Help me please
We are in a long distance relationship. He is from California and I’m here in Philippines. He visited me twice and the last visit is this january 2017 but we broke up. Falling in love with him is the best feeling i ever had to any guy i met not even in my ex before. Its just way too different. Despite of our differences in life we had a strong connection with each other and he even said that to me. But our situation is complicated. He still goes to school and he want to save to buy a house and at the same time he decided to travel other country while he is still young which i support him on that. But he won’t be able to see me for couple of years since he need to save up and he said he is not sure in how will he goin to feel for the next couple of years without seeing me. Plus we are different races im a filipina and he is american. And he sometimes talk so fast which my face is (o.O) like this always. I understand him but sometimes not. I dont have a problem to him but he has a problem to me but deapite of that he still loves me. I cried so much when we broke up and told i will let you go. He cries too and i habent seen a man cried before. And he told me how he appreciate me and how he likes me and how i change him to things he is not before. We both cried together. Letting go of him was a hard decision since i cant imagine that i wont be his girl to be with. I love him so much. We broke up but we were good that night.
But one time he went home late and find out he went to the bar and met some girls who grab him and want him since he is tall, handsome and foreigner too. At that night he never know that i know he is with some girls since i found in his fb friends that she has a filipina friend cause i know he dont have in his friendlist except me. I was crying in that night while he is not yet home. I slept in the couch outside in the hotel waiting for him. Then he arrive by his car, thats 3 am where bar closes here. I pretend i was sleeping in the couch. Then he pass me and i was very mad at him but i still pretended i was sleeping. I heared his step again and feel his breath then he carried me and it was good haha but im still mad at him. I even smelled that he really drink alcohol. I wanna slap him that moment but i still keep my body sleeping. He lay me down in our bed and he kiss my lips. The he goes to shower and i wonder about it why. Then after that he lay down with me and open the tv. He then hug me and kiss me in my back which makes me turn on to him but i still pretend sleep. He keeps hugging me, he is too close to me where i can feel all of him and wanting him too. So i turned around to him and kiss him back and we almost making love at that point where he is so attach to my body and hot. he really want me that moment but he ask if im still on my period and i say yes haha and he was sad cause he want me so bad. I was sad too. I was mad at him but i pretended that everything is okay. Then i start to ask him nicely and friendly what he do. And he tells me stories and he didnt told me about that girl who become his friend in fb on that night aswell. I didnt ask but was extremely mad at him. In the morning i told him i will go to my friends for a swimming. He dont want to come since its not his type of fun. He gave me a big money but i didnt take it when he knows i dont have any. I took his coins instead and he ask for a kiss before i leave. I kissed him. Then i go.
Night comes and i ask him to pick me up cause i was so drunk and my friend told him too. He arrive and i was so happy but when i saw him i got mad at him and i started to cry and blame him and hate him in front of my friends. My friends were crying cause of how i cried. I told him all of my pain and hurt while i was crying even told him some bad things. I was out of myself and i cant control it no more since i was so drunk. Then i found myself inside the car. Then he carried me out of the car in his shoulder. He ask the receptionist to watch me for him and i scared the receptionist that i saw a ghost. I was soo silly and crazy that time. Then he ordered me some food and wanting me to eat so i eat. And then i sleep and woke up at 2 am and i cried. Then he woke up and ask me why im crying. I remember what i told to him while i was drunk. And i say sorry to him and he said its fine and he understand how hurt i was that everything i said is true and he believe all of it. It hurts him but he accept it.
I ask him about thats girl and he told me that he met it in the bar and not only the girl but they are group of friends who asking him to be with their table. They keep asking him who he was, where he came from and they ask for his fb and he gave it so they become friends in fb that night. And he said nothing had happened or bad happened. Which i believe since he kiss me that night and how he want me that night too. He is also has very big respect to me. He cant even touch me without my permission if i want to. But he lied cause he dont want to hurt me which i was really mad about. I told him thag he didnt think how ill be hurt how he doesnt care about my feelings. But on that morning we all good. Then in next couple of days he went home in US. He was still sweet to me like we still couple. He calls me and says sweet words to me giving me time and attention. But i got crazy again and nag him over and over cause i was jealous about the girl he met. He told me he dont like the girl though he found her attractive but doesnt mean he like her . Thats what he told me. He explained everything again then i told him to stop his lie and no more lies. He said okay but i was too crazy still and i always nag at him but he just keep ignoring me so i made to the point i told him hurt words and thati told him i hate him so much. Then he ignore me again and didnt txt me . So i nag again and complain. He told me he is done that he dont want anymore cause i always hating him. Then we didnt txt for 2 days i guess or 1 day which im not use to it. So i text him saying sorry that i didnt mean to hurt him by what i say that i was just too mad and full of anger and insecurities. Then he told me like we are over. That he dont love me no more that the sweetness of him faded.
I pleased him, beg him, i did everything and now we are still chatting but friends only. Last valentines he didnt told me he loves me so i cried. It hurt me and it breaks my world apart. Then i text him sweet messages that i realize what i did, i told him how important he was for me and says sorry for what i did. Then i send him our happy funny videos and he laugh and start talking to me. Then days after he easily got hotheaded and blame me that he lock his key in inside his car and it was my faulth cause he called me and i talk to him and even told me that he dont have time talking and socializing and he is so mad.
I got scared of him. Still i said sorry. Then after the moment he told me sorry too that he blame me on his own fault. He told me sweet amazing text after that. Then i accept him and told im i will still try to undertstand but thats to let him know too there is a limit. So we are back again but as partner. I told him ilove him but he dont responds no more like how he always does. And im not use to it and i really feel again that he dont likes me no more. But he still keeo texting me too but not as how we was before. Now im confuse what to do. Im he dont appreciate me no more then i have to go and keave and wont be txting him no more cause it only hurts me to know he dot like me that i feellike im just forcing him to like me. But i love him so much, i dont hate him, i need him, i want him , he is my type of a guy, i even though that he is my prince. Like i feel like he really is my soul mate that im longing since before. He is everything i want to be with in my life. And now i dont know if i can get him back or should i leave him forever since i feel like he is not too sweet to me now. Help me please. I need someone to suggest to me something. Help me please