Libra Woman and Sagittarius Man Compatibility
Famous Libra-Sagittarius Couples: Soon-Yi Previn and Woody Allen, Gwyneth Paltrow and Brad Pitt, Sharon and Ozzy Osbourne
What we have here, essentially, is two philosophers, perhaps Old Souls, getting together to compare notes with endless fascination and great insight for each other on the human condition. Somewhat detached idealists, they both tend to live vicariously, amused by the follies and foibles of others which they intend to avoid by keeping their distance from tricky emotions and wayward desires. They are both looking for a particular kind of completion/perfection in a partner and may very well be Soul Mates. If they get too idealistic about their relationship they can wind up drifting apart because they keep avoiding the “real” partner. Both abhor confrontation and are likely to compromise well as a way of creating a positive environment. Many things just get swept under the rug which works for them. They like to focus on what’s going well without being perfectionist.
How to Attract a Sagittarius Man as a Libra Woman:
Sagittarians are such free spirits, how do you catch a will-o-the-wisp? There’s magic involved. You are both mind readers so you can use that to advantage. Think inviting thoughts about him and keep positive. He loves a positive person. Test my theory. Think about where you’d like to go on your first date and see if he doesn’t pop up with it as though it were his own idea. Avoid any kind of control or manipulation. He has a whiff of it and he’s out the door. No triangulating, such as bringing a third party into the picture. You might do it to make him jealous which would be a really stupid idea because Sagittarians don’t “believe in” jealousy. They just walk away to greener pastures. But you also might be tempted to get to know his friends with an ulterior motive of confiding in them to further your own cause. Don’t go there. Keep it simple. That’s what appeals to him. He will appreciate your ideals and ethics. It’s ok to talk about high standards and soul connections and things like that. He’ll be right there with you.
How to Attract a Libra Woman as a Sagittarius Man:
Please be your best social self and, as always with Libra, brush up on your manners. There’s so much more to Libra than good manners but they are first drawn to people on the civility wave length. Later, you’ll help her lots by getting her to be more casual in this area. Meantime, she’s looking for a Prince Charming to take with her to Important Places. (She has a calendar marked many months in advance with special occasions and events.)
Degree of Romance:
Sagittarius isn’t the best in the romantic department but Libra will be uncharacteristically forgiving because he offers so much genuineness instead. Chances are she’ s attracted to him because she just broke up with an uber-romantic “player” and is learning to be a better judge of character
Degree of Passion:
Libra brings out a lot passion in Sagittarius. Not so much the other way around. She gets to act like that long, cool drink on a hot summer’s day.
Degree of Friendship:
These two can be best friends … very best friends. They can share many happy moments together with so much in common as to the way they see the world. Somehow together the rose colored glasses get even rosier. Let the good times roll.
Degree of Marriage:
Never overly emotional or darkly bonded, this pairing makes a good marriage because of the shared outlook on the world. A very significant feature is how important they both feel it is to maintain a positive outlook on life. They do a great job of problem solving together thanks to Sag’s relaxed flow and Libra’s good strategizing, Sag’s intuition and Libra’s logic, Sag’s luck and Libra’s charm. The attraction may be especially strong after a failed first relationship in which each learned how much they need a POSITIVE partner. Together they live a very ethical life which makes it tend to be a very good and even “blessed” life. Where Sag might tend to cut corners, Libra keeps them organized and on the right track.
Progression of Relationship:
Libra will tend to take charge even in the dating process. She is naturally well organized and has excellent social skills. She probably already has some future events she’d like him to accompany her to. One of her top reasons for dating and marrying is to get the right escort. It helps if Sag doesn’t mind dressing up a bit from time to time. Both parties are sure to have full calendars, including Sag’s sports activities, so they will gradually have to create more time for each other. Both signs need space and can agree amicably on territorial and time issues. Most of the dating is casual except for Libra’s social calendar.
Sex:
Sex is a beautiful gift they generously give one another. This is one of the most game-free, obligation-free placements. As a result, their sex life is a continuing source of enhancement to the rest of the relationship. It is likely to be sportish, esthetically pleasing and courtly in a very special, fun way. Unique in the zodiac’s compatibility, it is their best means of communication.
When It’s Over:
If it ends, they’ll probably be better friends than ever and help each other find new partners unless Libra has fallen off the wagon and triangulated. If that’s the case, Sag will maintain a benevolent sense of humor while wrapping things up post haste. (No hard feelings. No looking back.)
i’ve been dealing wit a sag man for the past 3 yrs and everything on this site is true…except lack of commitment on his part…mostly becuase a third party involved a LEO woman at that..he seems confused..which is the better for him?
The leo.
What advice do you have for a female virgo (third decan, henceforth co-ruled by Venus and also considered virgo /cusp Libra )who loves ever so much a Sagittarius male who once said he was so smitten by her that it was “like a sickness” (in a good way) but then after 8 months he decided to” run the other way” and always ignore and avoid her. When she questioned him about it his answer was always the same: “Stop asking me, stop pushing and let it be!”
Needless to say, the Virgo/Libra woman is very heartbroken and equally as confused by his about-face behavior :(. Please advise.
I love my Sag man but there are things about him that I cant stand. For one, he is very VERY selfish, stubborn, sometimes very immature, sometimes cold. He dont complete alot of things he starts. But there are times, that I cannot see myself with anyone else and that he compliments me perfectly. I just wish he wasnt so selfish… (I am a virgo/libra cusp). I think I would be able to trust him more if he was a little more thoughtful of me.
well,, this is sag man,, hmmm well hazel,, u r absolutely rong abt ur man n am sure abt it……..:):):) trust me over that………
@anya,, sag men need space…….. most important thing never ask such things to him directly,, bein a sag maybe even i would react same to ur questions…. :):) there r ways to put up questions to a sag man,, trust me if put in a proper way,, witout u askin him anyth,, he’ll b tellin u everyth……..:):)
i completely aqree with hazel, i went out with a saqq for about 4 months. He was really funny & we hadd qreat timeS, but he was very stubborn. & hard headed. He sometimes was down riqht rude & mean. I am a libra so i felt he was a little to much. But i liked it keeps me on my feet. But i don’t think saqq men are the best for me. =/
i have been dealing with a sag man for over a year. when i met him i had recently broken up with my significant other and was looking for a non committed relationship. He provided me with just that, he wasn’t pushy but he was inviting enough to keep me wanting more. We don’t argue but he does sometimes annoy me with his immaturity. I am a libra woman and can sometimes be very refined but he brings out a natural fun, uninhibited happiness in me. Recently i discovered he had a girlfriend. A sag woman at that.I thought he was the most brutally honest out of all the signs but i was surprised he kept this lie up for so long.The connection we have is strong so it’s hard for me to let him go.
i am a libra and ive been with my sag for almost a year now and i love him alot we get along good but when we argue its not pretty and he has a bad temper thats sometimes hard to control. and he says things that he “dosent mean” but after the fight is over he tells me how sorry he is and he never ment to hurt me, it really confuses me
Everything is true… I am a libra woman and have a sag male and he is all that this website suggests. He is loving, caring, passionate, immature, but he provides me the opportunity to be myself(free hearted, truth seeker librian)
this is all true im a sagi
I have fallen for a Sagi man in a BIG way. He is still with a cancerian tho. He says I brighten up his life, well he certainly does that to mine… what are the chances of a future there?
I’m a libra and been with my Sag for about 10 years now. And yes, a good deal of patience is in order. Ok…ALOT of patience. I’ve come up with a guide on how to keep one…
1. Accept from the beginning that he’s just not good marriage material. He can be embarrassing in public, crude, blunt, mindlessly selfish, has a nasty temper, can say things that would make sailors cover their ears, and could frankly put more thought into what he’s wearing. On that of that…he WILL cheat on you. Now, let me make this clear. If cheating is your red flag (as opposed to getting beat, called names, etc) then do yourself a favor and move on. But he will…at least once…cheat on you.
2. Many Sags will say they can resist anything except temptation. They’re not lying. Respect them for being so honest and take the proper moves necessary to remove temptations from their paths.
3. Liquor can be your friend or your enemy. Sags don’t exactly lie but they don’t tell the whole truth either….especially if it’s something that might get them in trouble. So if you find something out and your just dying to interrogate him…do this instead. Wait till the weekend. Stay in for the night and have a few drinks. KEEP THE ATMOSPHERE POSITIVE…even if it kills you. Joke with him. Keep the drinks pouring. Then in a casual way, ask him about what you wish. Act like the answer (whatever it is) doesn’t bother you. Joke about it even.
4. Now here is where it gets tricky. Let’s say he confirmed what you thought. What do you do? If you lose it and stay with him, he’ll remember and be even less honest next time. Is this something you can tolerate (because he will explain why he did whatever he did…if you ask) or is this a deal breaker. You decide.
5. Liquor is usually your enemy. If a hottie catches his eye, he’ll probably drool then move on. However….if he’s drinking he might take action. This is one of the signs that liquor has a profound effect on. Beware. And if your insecure, remember, this has nothing to do with you. The bottom half of him is animal. And an animal that will not be tamed.
6. Trust him but realize that he isn’t always truthful with himself. Balance the two. He may shy away from commitment but if he does commit in any way (“I wont drink at the party”) then be pretty sure he means it. But if you slip and forget to ask him not to drink at the party…
7. HAVE FUN WITH HIM! I cannot stress this enough. If he checks out a girl, check out some guy. And let know your doing it. Be playful. This is one of the few signs you can explore sexuality of any kind with and he will not judge you. You’ll be suprised how open minded he is. It’s called true friendship…and that is the best thing Sags have to offer.
8. Realize that Friendship is more important to Sags than romantic love. Sorry, but that’s just the way they are. So if your going to be jealous of anyone, don’t get jealous about the person they got drunk and had sex with. Get jealous of the friend that will not go away. This person may mean more to them than you do… Work on changing that.
9. Sags don’t really mature until well in their late 20’s early to mid 30’s. Remember that…
10, Everyone says that bitching at Sags make them run for the hills. Very true. However….most people don’t know that NOT bitching at Sags will make them walk all over you. Balance it out. Chose your battles. He flirts. So what? He can be rude and thoughtless. So what? I drew the line at namecalling (he’s NEVER called me a name) and disrespect.
And the few times he cheated on me pissed me off severely but you have to understand, Sag needs to feel like they’re doing something naughty once in awhile. For all their virtues, let him have one once in awhile.
11. Someone mentioned Sags that will blame you for their problems. Oh yes. Your jaw will drop at some of the things they bitch about. Everyday things that everyone else deals with, Sag will get fussy about. When my Sag has one of those days,he acts like my cleaning sucks,acts like my cooking sucks, acts like my “attitude” sucks, etc.. you get the idea. Look through the garbage and get to the core of whats bothering them.
12. Sags can make some HUGE mistakes. And to top it off, they can be mule stubborn. Sags need to make mistakes. That’s how they learn. Your good advise and wise counsel don’t really mean much to them. However… Let them know you have limits. I worked with one Sag who broke up with his gf, got another girl pregnant, and the gf took him back knowing what happened. That’s a hell of a price to pay for one mistake. My own Sag cheated on me with someone and didn’t use protection. This person has HIV now. Close call. Like I said… if anything, they’re not boring. But not knowing better, I didn’t see signs, notice certain details, ask the right questions etc.
13. Most men/women will think your Sag is goofy, friendly, etc and think you make a cute couple. And I’m sure they will be right. But after awhile (and for your sake, I hope you have a few years under belt before this happens) someone will come along that has *home wrecker* written in day glow neon marker on their foreheads. You may see this sign. You naive Sag doesn’t. You need to look out for your Sag. Remember what I said about Sags not being totally honest with themselves? That means you have to be honest FOR him. If your a girl, BEWARE the single, cute, perky girl in his circle of friends. If your a guy, keep a watch on the handsome single stud in HER circle of friends. This may sound a tad paranoid but Sag can’t resist a pretty face and a kind word. And if your luck is REALLY bad, they might see in your Sag all the things you see. Read: Competition. This might be hurtful to you, but to Sag, it’s all very flattering. And you might just save yourself much grief in the long run by nonchalantly asking him to grab you a beer while he’s in the middle of the fireworks of sparks going on between this person and him or deciding to go to that party (even though you’re so not in the mood) where you know Mr/Mrs Greener Grass will be.
14. Sags can attract the wrong people sometimes, going back to the previous example. Help him with this. Show him just because someone is a good time, doesn’t make them a good person. Sags are notorious for being bad judges of character sometimes. See #5.
15. Last but definitely not least….your gonna have to live with a few things. Your gonna have to be a friend as well as lovers. But more a friend. Sags are a double edged sword. The things we love about them turn into faults very easily. So if your Sag gets drunk and actually tells you he/she might have feelings for another person….be a friend. And be flattered. Because in their weirdass, goofy, backward fire sign way, it’s a compliment. Once you understand that, he’s yours.
Versus, I’m sorry but you are largely wrong, with whatever exceptions I give you below. I’m a 41 y.o. Sadge man. I think a lot of what you write is based on your own personal experience and upon the particular Sadge/s you’ve know.
You are correct about: #7, #10.
The rest apply to your own personal experience and do not apply to me personally–and in general you are too specific about your advice in ALL the rest. How can you generalize about alcohol, lack of judge of character and the like? Maybe you have a drinking issue and attract men with drinking issues too–and if so, what does this have to do with “one’s sign”?
I’ve never dated a libra lady, but from the looks of this board, I’m seeing some condescension coming out of libra ladies. So Nancy, where do you come up with this 10/10 rating? I don’t want a lady who ‘tolerates’ me. This pairing looks like a bummer on 1st glance. Hmm.
i am a libra lady. currently i am dating a sag man. these sags are really have commitment issues. the sag man whom i am dating expresses his feeling towards me but is not ready to commit. he was a good friend before so i know about his past relationships. what bothers me is his attitude despite of we dating at this point of time. he sometimes acts cold but sometimes he is just the best. i agree with Versus on some points but not all and according to my experience with a sag man this article is not too accurate.
Versus,
Just because you had a bad experience with a sag man does NOT mean that what was true about his representative of all sag men. It sounds like the issues he has are psychological and not because of his zodiac sign. You are doing an extreme disservice to people in assuming and spreading that to other people.
Versus, I’m a Libra and have been dating a Sag for 13 months. Everything you said is TRUE! I agree with every point you made. I’ve had several relationships but none have been like this one! We have NEVER had a fight not even so much as an argument! It’s amazing when we are together, it’s like we feed off each other. He does have a temper and can be selfish and stubborn but when he’s in a “mood”, I pull out my Libra scales of balance and speak calmly to him and before you know it everything is perfect again. He can be a handful and sometimes I feel like I’m managing him but I always let him think he’s in the drivers seat. I started mentioning marriage and commitment a few months ago and he almost “ran for the hills” but I started doing some research and realized I better back off. Since then, everything is back to normal. And yes, we have an amazing time in the bedroom and some very candid discussions about what we want and maybe experiment with, lol. I really do think of him as a wild stallion who has to wander but will always come back home b/c I make sure what he has at home is better than anything he will get elsewhere. So far, I can’t imagine being with anyone else.
lol hahaha i agree with versus when she said they CHEAT. sag men are very flirtatious, and will holla at the next girl by you…and then deny that he was trying to holla..lol i think this page is accurate cuz sag men will do what ever it takes to find the “right one” even if it means talking to everygirl that comes his way, knowing hes in a relationship..
oh yea..SEX is the bomb with a sag men 😉 and yes i am a libra and proud of it!
I think the Rising and Moon signs should be taken in account too. I am a Sagittarius/Libra/Sagittarius male, and only have half the characteristics of the Sun sign (the good ones! LOL) and the Libra Rising sign balances me out. So that 15 step guide doesn’t apply to all. However, I did meet my Twin Flame/Soul Mate, who we’ve been friends for over a year now (she is a Libra/Sagittarius/Libra!), unfortunately she is in a miserable marriage with a Capricorn right now. *sigh* We have so much in common it’s crazy! The balance and chemistry is unlike anything I have ever experienced, so I can justly and honestly say that a Libra woman and Sagittarius man is a puuurrrfect combo!
Actually, SagLibraSag, there’s even more to it than that. In my Compatibility Report every planet and aspect is compared and also the Rising Signs. You might want to order it and see for yourself. I hope your relationship works out. Good luck and thanks for visiting the site. Please tell a friend.
My best friend is Sag and I am Libra. I have not had sex with him because all of the background I have read says that you can’t get him through sex because he thinks nothing of that…it is just another pasttime like playing pool or watching the game. Every pretty girl turns his head and he needs that validation of his hotness to fuel his fire. I am not blind-this man is the epitome of the Sagittarius and his looks are reminscent of a Greek God. He is amazing, talented and really can have any female he wants. It’s been 3 years now and he does call me with personal issues-just last night he called me to discuss his problems he is having with his best friend of 20 years. This man trusts me and I trust him. I think as long as I never have sex with him I will have the best male friend anyone could ever have.
Monica belluci and vincent cassel should be included as well!
So I am 20 female libra and I am interested in a 29 male sagi..He’s very successful and I figured a older man would be good for me, although to be fair he looks more like 22 than almost 30 which is amazing. My problem is he seems only interested in having sex and I am attracted to him but I would like something a little more. Although to be fair his job takes him all over the world so I would have to deal with not seeing him for months at a time.
What should I do? Should I stop while we’re ahead or should I just give into the desires of sex and see what happens after that?
I recentlly had to end a 1 year “relationship” with a Sg man. He was 6 years older than me(33), but still did not know what he wanted. We started dating and when he asked about what I wanted from our relationship, I told him up front that in the next 5 years I would like to be married and have kids. He smiled and seemed cool with that and said,”we’ll see where this goes” I was fine with that. I was cooking, giving him massages, and being extra sweet and domestic, we had fun.
It didnt work out because I NEVER SAW HIM. I would call or text every weekend making plans or asking to hang out and he was always “busy”. But when he wanted to see me, I was always there. Plus he used to say he was not romantic, and did not know how to approprately show his feelings. Instead of saying,”Baby that dress isnt right for you”, It would be TOO honest. Honesty is fine, but damn, we all know how to talk to people.
He kept putting his friends(who were all growing up and getting married and starting families) first, and leave me so that he can go to bars. Finally I told him that I never wanted to see him again, because he was unreliable, and too wishy washy, and very selffish. It took him about a few weeks(He must have thought I would back down, we libras do that).
I caved a little and I even had my sister send him a note saying that I would give him second chance. Guess what? As soon as we set the date to meet, he chickened out and ran. I deleted him from facebook, my phone, email, and now he still tries to call leaving messages saying he’s sorry and that he doesnt know why he does these things. But at this point its too late for me to care or find out.
Now that I no longer care for him and I am starting something new with a leo/virgo cusp man who treats me like gold, now he wants me back. When he had me, he had “better” things to do. I will never give a Sg or Cancer man another chance.
@Jazell, I am a libra woman and I know how u feel, but my sag man was the same. He was older and he travelled and worked a lot too. Trust me, now that I have left him all he says is that he misses our sex. He hasnt one time mentioned the good times we had or anything but sex. I made the mistake of finding out that he was wrong for me, but because he was good in bed, I kept telling myslef that he is just a booty call. With him a booty call is all he wants so as long as he is getting what he wants(sex), he’ll “keep you around”. But don’t expect much more. You are pretty young so he might even try to tell u things u want to hear to keep you around. Dont fall for it. You will be in your late 20s before u know and you would have wasted all that time with a man who has not grown up. With a Sag man, he may be 20 years older than you and still have not felt its time to settle down. Trust me girl!
I was raised in a 2 parent household and my father told me if a man really loves you and wants you, he will make time for you NO MATTER WHAT!!! Don’t settle for anything less. I didn’t, now I am in a happy relationship with a man who may not have all the time in the world, but he makes time for me and shows his love, not just saying it when he wants some booty.
Sg men are great in bed and I have never left his bed unsatisfied, however they are not marriage material unless you are one of the lucky libra girls who were able to find one who is ready.
If you’re ever happily single or married but “looking” or even on vacation or just looking for some sex, then a sag man is the best. But if you are trying to plan a real future and want a man that can last the long haul, look elsewhere.
I AM female LIBRA…hear me roar! I have had the pleasure of being in a very passionate relationship with a SAGITTARIUS.
I consider myself to be old-fashioned, holding onto all of the values I’d been surrounded with for most of my life. What I found in HIM was the gentleman standing on my grandmothers porch waiting to take her out for ice cream. Until you have experienced being unappreciated of your service and commitment to your man will you begin to understand the love that the SAG will give. When I am talking, he listens to everything that I am saying, leaning in and engaged, lost in my eyes. When I am worried, he reassures me that HE is working on the betterment for us both to be happy. When I laugh, he places his arm around my waist and puts his chest against mine and laughs with me. The closeness and compatibility is beautiful. The one compromise that I have made is that he needs breathing room. I just become busy and I allow him to call ME. That way, we have created anticipation for the next time we are together. I love him and he expresses in his actions that he admires my wisdom and loves me too. Don’t sleep LIBRAN woman, because you can work but, you have to be clear from the beginning what you expect of him so that you can make him happy. It’s give and take. You can cater without losing yourself.
Wow. What a great summary of the relash. Ha. Especially the manners part–I almost died the first time my Sagittarius dude picked up his fork. Omg. But I definitely haven’t noticed any commitment issues with this guy. He’s in it to win it, it seems. Oh yeah, and the sex is $%#^ing HOT. Libra ladies, don’t pass this up. It’s definitely a shocker.
I am a Libra woman who has fallen for a Sagittarius man. I find that commitment is a tough thing for this guy, which I can understand because commitment can be really scary at times. If someone isn’t ready for something serious, then they shouldn’t try.
He and I really seemed to hit it off before we hooked up one night (due to alcohol). A week or two after the hookup, I confessed that I liked him (and told him that if he didn’t feel the same way that it was OK), and it’s been a rocky road ever since. For the past few months, I’ve experienced inconsistent behavior from him. One day, he’s really nice (and sometimes flirtatious), the next day, he’s very hostile and mean. I haven’t gone out of my way to contact him or “suffocate” him in any way, shape, or form … So this whole thing is puzzling. I am still continuing to give him his space, so he can’t say I’ve been clingy or weird in any way.
I’m frustrated because I can’t tell whether he likes me or despises me. I’m still very attracted to the guy, but I’d be happy and content we at least remained friends. It doesn’t look like that will happen though, which makes me sad. 🙁
Any thoughts from anyone about this?
I am have been with my sag for 4 years. We are currently engaged. He has no problem with commitment. Actually it is really me hesitating about saying the words ” I do” . I am a very social person. He is laid back and a homebody. He does have a bad temper that is so annoying! We can never really talk about issues we are having because he always becomes angry, even if it is just me talking about how I feel. He becomes frustrated so quickly that I am trying to decide if I can really deal with that for the rest of my life. Besides the attitudes he is a great provider, I do not have to worry about him cheating, he is encouraging, loving, and appreciative. IDK if we will make it down the aisle….but I really do love him.
I’m a libra married to a sag man. Somethings are true and some depends on the person. I felt that my sag man was ready for commitment faster than me. We did fought a lot in the beginning and I broke it off a couple of times because I had no patience for fighting but once we learned to communicate, the relationship was amazing. He is extremely attentive, a bit flirtatious but so am I. I actually learned to toned it down a bit bc sag man…or at least mine, can be very jealous even if they pretend they are not. It’s true about that they need space but so do I. I like doing my own thing and I like that he doesn’t mind. Prior relationships my exes will immediately assume I was cheating bc I said I was going to take a trip alone. That’s one thing that I don’t agree with the libra stereotype. I love traveling and doing things alone, partnerships….are good as long as the other person gives me lots of space.
I have been with a sag man for over 4 years., I find he is very controlling and insecure. He has a fabulous job and career and has everything going for him but its the simple things in life he cannot handle or enjoy. He is very self serving, its all about him!!!! and has a hard time with any type of constructive critisism., I am a libra male 45 and he is 52 i enjoy the simple easy things in life and he overthinks anything and everything., He does not want me to go back to work because it would take time away from “us” but only wants me to cater to his needs. There are time that he is the loving and emotional man i have ever met., but i am realizing that its only when he needs that love and emotional attention
I would say this is pretty much spot on. I am fine with my sag man ands hes the midle of road folksy type sometimes when im down dont know what to do he says if the lemonade your in (life) is to sour its because acidity is too much so just throw in more sugar. also look in the jug and you sure you didnt leave some lemons behind? lol. if theres nothing then just add the darned sugar and be done with it. that’s life! and ive got to agree its worked all these nineteen soem years.
10/10 ? Not in my experience. I’ve been married to a Sag man some years, and it’s not exactly working out.
Cons – a major Peter Pan complex, is a compulsive liar ( white lies), not romantic and has a wandering eye(online). Very self-centered and not intuitive about Libra’s feelings at all , absolutely refuses to confront issues in the relationship or take charge of anything (within the marriage).
On the plus side, he’s very low maintenance, puts up with my crap, makes no demands at all ( tbh, it gets boring) and in general is a good friend. Just not a good husband.
I am a sag man who is dating a libra man… when we first me it was as if we had been friends forever…(his comment not mine)…i agree with mostly everything that was said on the site. Its almost like we are two opposites that meet in the middle somehow to make it work. Moreover when we are together we have soooo much fun and laughter…i have never felt so at ease with a person. He calms me down somehow and I always feel at ease(sadges have alot energy). I feel at home with him.
P/S…. and the sex…BABY, BABY, BABY!!!
I’ve come to realize, as a Sag man, that I can become easily bored and distracted. So I constantly need something to stimulate my mind and hold my interest (which is why I think we cheat so much; coupled with being flirtatious). I like being on the move (us Sag men) we most often times don’t mind change and trying something NEW and different. Its like, we are laid back but at the same time we like movement and adventure… almost never really consistent with our emotions/feelings.
I’m a Sag man and I would have to agree with everything Versus said about us. I would only think after 10 years of putting up with us (Sag men) she would have learned something over the years. I was reading the post aloud to my girlfriend and she had to laugh because, you actually depicted our lives and some past experiences. *two-thumbs-up* That post was about me to a T’eee!!!
The most touching part for my girlfriend (when reading it aloud) was the being, adventures in the bed-room… I’ve expressed to her on several occasions about a three-some (be it guy or girl) and the thought of it makes her sick…. her morals for the most part! But I respect that so it will never happen in our bedroom 🙁 She says she doesn’t need any substitutes because I satisfy her completely.
Who’s to say I can’t have my own experiment. Hmmm
We (my Libra girlfriend and I (a Sag man) do balance each other out well. The first few yrs where rough because I was honest and she was very much a planner. As she would say, “I see’s the forest but you see a tree”. I pay close attention to tiny details she sees everything from start to finish… and then plans the future of our offspring. Lol
I’m very optimistic, not sure rather to settle down with her or not because I’m thinking one day a better catch may come along and I’ll be tied down. So I kinda have us both in limbo and with her planning, if things don’t go according to schedule, I think she may leave. But then again, if the sex keeps her happy shell stick around for a while. Idk but I need to make up my mind soon before I end up a old bachelor that looks back over my life and wonders, WHAT COULD HAVE BEEN.
Im a libra girl, and im really close friends with sag guy, we’ve known each other for 4 years and only stayed friends for that time. We didn’t see each other for about year though and only recently we”ve started talking again, but were non stop talkers we could go on for ages about anything. He inspires me and makes me feel happy. Yesterday though he told me that he had a secret crush on me over the 4 years, and i wouldve have never of guessed it he was so good at hiding it. I told him that i kinda liked him too, which i didnt really, but i didnt want him to feel alone about it, i dont if that was the right thing to do. But i feel like our relationship is changing into a more serious one, im not sure if i should get to deep into it, to be honest i sound more like a sag i have major commitment issues haha
I think more sadge dudes should comment on this cuz these libra girls are only saying what they think is going on sadge guys will tell it like it is PLEASE COMMENT guys!! But one thing I know is that when a libra says goodbye it kills a sadge cuz she’s too attractive and already has morethan two guys waiting for her to be single that’s a fact AND they may easily fall for the other dudes remember libra girls can make themselves compatible to every sign aslong as there’s love, I lost my libra girl cuz I thought shed never find out, well she did and now she’s dating someone that really really loves her.
I did my own research o the guy and he’s faithful and always with libra it destroys me seeing her so happy with another dude I hate the fact that I cheated on her she looks beautiful and I heard she’s pregnant I still hope she’ll come back to me even till this day
I have to agree with you real we are known to be the players and we secure ourselves with a libra’s love we often actually most of the time we get to cheat Yes 101%we love our libra beauties they bring the best out of us they are sweet caring and got style, well I was also in a relationship with a libra girl I say this with confidence and great assurance that girl LOVED me even though people would ask her what she saw in me even I would ask myself that question.
She respected me cared for me honest independent and always eager to make money although she wasn’t studying she ended up earning morethan I matter of fact she connected me to this job I have now she made friends with every one my friends use to ask me why am I with a girl that’s not studying well I use to ask myself that but now she drives a better car than mine she’s always wanted to be independent and that’s why I loved her somuch
Well sadly we’ve broken up my fault! I betrayed her trust I took her love for granted I thought shed never love another guy I was too sure of myself and she’s engaged and happy 🙁 I regret and hate myself for hurting her somuch she always made me feel like a man she was the light side of my life she was my best friend and understood my needs in any way in the past shed stick around after hearing what I’ve done or shed come back to me eventually but its true what this time she got tired it normally took us 3months then get back together I started realizing in 6months of breaking up that she’s gone, she’s married and my friends said they spotted her on a fancy restaurant and she didn’t ask about me I am heart broken sad this has been going on for a while now I need her back no one will ever feel her void how do I go on with my life without my soulmate I know if she loved me once she still would again I WANT HER BACK 4years later
Wow! I’m so glad I found this site…. I’m a libra woman who dated a Sag man for two months; it was an AMAZING time! We got along great, had much in common, wonderful sex and then one day out of the blue he sent me an email stating he didn’t want to see me anymore. I was in shock! I called him a couple of times immediately after reading the email but he would not answer so I just left a message thanking him for a wonderful time. We have never spoken again. Although I moved on, I miss the excitement he brought into my life…. After reading everyone’s stories, I have a better understanding of his behavior…. Thanks for sharing.
Ive recently have started a relationship with a sag guy he is amazing everything I could ask for his temper isnt a issue actually he calms me down lol needless to say he isnt the typical sag…he was more ready than me to jump into a ltr …i tried to ruun but he wouldnt let me in most cases are signs are reversed minus the cheating part..and the lieing part…lol and even thow we havent had sex yet I have a feeling it will be magic from beyond the galaxy
libra female who still has feelings for a sagittarius male
i felt a strong connection with this guy for a few months (and others saw it too). i was very sure he felt the same way too.
one thing led to another, and i approached him after everything and he said he didn’t feel the same way. i take people for their word, so i initially believed him when he said it. since then i’ve found out he’s quite the player too, so i’ve kept my distance and given him his space & freedom.
i know that archers have the reputation for being blunt and honest, but i don’t think that’s the case with this guy. he says one thing, but his actions don’t back up his words. one day he acts cruel (especially when he sees me with other guys), the next day he is very touchy-feely & flirtatious, and other days he’s almost too timid or cowardly to approach me. whenever we are in each others presence though, he finds different ways and excuses to touch me, even when we never say a word to each other.
im so confused! what do you all think is going on?
I am a 23 year old libra lady dating a 20 year old sag man…Im kind of a cougar lol just kidding….we’ve been together for almost 3 yrs. and just about everything versus posted is completely acurate. He truly is my best friend in the world and I think that’s why we deal with so few of the problems mentioned, but I know him inside and out, and wouldn’t put those things past him. I would say go ahead and let you man cheat though…i would say find another way to make him feel naughty lol…like sex in almost public places 😉
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i am a sag man…i luv my beloved librian..i cannot appeal to her..its my start of talking to her…i think she has started to like me..i just keep on thinking of her all day..i want her to be mine..can anyone give me some ideas or ways so that i could make her my girlfriend
Well I have read every1 commments… I’m a libra gal n I have date 2 sag man… The 1st one I loved dearly we were real good friends, we were open about everything… I was 20 and he was 29.. He was a great lover… He did have a wondering eye but he never cheated on me… He wasn’t very romantic which that drove me crazy but he showed me that he loved me alot… We did fight at times which I disliked alot… N one time he wouldn’t speck 2 me 4 like 30 mins cause I was talking 2 a male friend of ours… Later he confirmed he was jealous… But there was the fact thar I didn’t like when he told me he would be home at 8pm n he got home 1 hour later cause he went 2 see a game with friends…
But I loved him n he loved me.. He was a good provider.. He was my, lover, and friend all in 1… But we separated after being 2gether 2 yrs… Now i’m 39yrs old n i’m dating a 30yr old sag… I met him in Aug, 2011.. He is a hard worker but there is a big issue here… I met him cause he is involved with a aqurius female who hooks him up with other females but she didn’t like the fact that him n me hit it off n continue 2 see each… He has commitment issues, says he doesn’t have time 4 friends which is very true.. We both dislike argueing but this gal lies 2 him n says I call her and say things 2 her which aren’t true n he always confronts me about it… Recently I got tired of all this I put some pics of him n me together cause she checks everything I do through her friends n he got mad at me 4 this…
And told 2 get rid of my page and 2 stop causeing problems between him n her so I got even more mad and 4 the first time I spoke my mind. cause I have always told him that I don’t like agrueing but if you push my buttons you will find me… Before I always let it slide n wouldn’t say anything about him confronting me over her lies… It make it short I know he likes me but I don’t like shareing him with some1 else but I have let it slide 4 now… But he will lose me if he keeps it up…. He is great in bed n everytime we argue I give in n he never stays mad at me 4 long… I do like that I have my space but I dislike that we don’t spend more time together…
I can say that alot of what is said about sag men is true.. We libra have 2 tolerate alot n let them think they r in contol at all times… They r truthful in what they say but r very blunt n do tend 2 hurt us libras… When we get together in the sex department it like no words need 2 be said.. We compliment each other n fireworks spark…. We tend 2 be good friends n they love us dearly 4 this… N it’s true if we spilt we still prefer 2 be good friends… I care alot 4 my guy n he drives me crazy so I tolerate alot because of this but I wonder how he would feel if I date him n some1 else… I’m more possitive that he wouldn’t like it…
@ Cantuar… If you want 2 win the gal. U have 2 win her over… If you haven’t caught her eye it will be hard cause we do tend 2 only date those who catch our eye or have something special… My guy won me over by being a gentleman, by paying attention 2 me plus I felt right in his arms and loved… He respected me from the beginning n let me take charge… But he did catch my eye first… He is cute but that wasn’t it.. What caught my eye was his cute green eyes n his lips then the rest followed… He could have been cute but 1 thing I can say if I don’t feel a connection I rather walk…
Girls, exactly listen what Versus says! She IS ALL TRUE! Every single line that is written in her post is extremely true about Sags. They really are immature and cheaters. They are not man, I believe! They are like a boy who cannot grow up and take lessons from life or establish theories or think about consequences of possible actions. They always make mistakes.
Do not question Sags. You want a 2 weeks holiday escape, yes be with them and do not take anything they say or do seriously, just have fun. Don’t forget that they cannot commit! They cannot be honest!
Versus, you are really on it! If you Libra, really into getting real deal honesty and love, move one from Sag. I would advise not to give him a chance! All of them are the same.
Emmalene, I hate to say this, but I think you’re right.
I’m a Libra woman, and fell hard for a Sag man. He led me on for months, sent me numerous signals that we had a genuine connection, and then kicked me to the curb when he found out I wasn’t going to be an easy lay. He’s treated me horribly ever since, despite the fact that he said we’d still be friends.
I’ve come across a few more Sag males, and I find them all to be very similar: They’re only nice to people if they think they can get something out of it.
They DO seem to be true blue friends when it comes to male camaraderie, though. When it comes to women, though … That’s another story. It breaks my heart because I did see glimpses of a really good person in the guy I fell for, but he’s perpetually stuck in frat boy mode. Sad.
Now, will I avoid Sag men for the rest of my life? Nope, but after my few experiences, I’m definitely going to be more cautious with them.
I’m now involved with a Capricorn man. I still have some feelings for the Sag, but I’ve realized that I just need to close that book and move on. The Capricorn treats me wonderfully and has helped me realize that there ARE good guys out there and that I’m more than an object for sex.
Agreed on the friendship aspect, Sag is a ton of fun. But definitely NOT a go in terms of a relationship. They’re just flaky, naively idealistic, immature and ultimately hurtful little boys. I don’t think they really mean to lie, they’re just flakes–they can’t follow through. How un-evolved.
And sorry Versus, but F%^& if I’m gonna put up with some dude who isn’t 100% dedicated. If aren’t done sowing your wild oats and can’t be trusted around hot girls then… boy, BYE.
well i just met a gentleman this weekend and he’s a gemini and we get along so great and we have a lot in common, ive never had and man like this its like we were meant to be together.
it seems like too many libras have teamed up against sags…:-)
well its completely true that sags are immature and careless…..but what people don’t know is sags are of two kinds…one completely opposite to the other…. i myself am a sag and in a beautiful relationship with my beautiful libra…and amazingly my father in law and brother in law..both are sags…infact my brother in law and i even share our birthdays together……..it isn’t wrong to say that sags break hearts but the way it is being said here in these comments about sags is very much hurtful…because a good person will never say bad things about another person……
don’t think I’m trying to stand beside sagittarians…all I’m trying to say is.. libran women need to find the right sagittarian……and then..as it is written… you can know what a true soulmate feels like….
Very helpful my husband is a Sagittarian and im libran realy enjoyed reading this thankyou 🙂
So true about Sagittarius…Liars who never follow through…dating one for 3 years now and I can confirm that they have a wandering eye…very tiring relationship as you are expected to push their thinking and act as if they came with the brilliant idea. No focus at all and do not mind hurting you for their own selfish ways…A 10/10????
I am a libra woman and in a relationship with a sag man. It is true that they are very blunt and tactless. Not demonstrative in public but very passionate in private. We are also good friends on top of what we have. He has his serious moments and goofy ones. The one thing I have noticed though, he is changing for me and thats what I love about him. We have are moments where we argue but we try to patch it up after a day or so. I know in my heart he loves me and he knows I love him dearly.
if not sag then who should a libra women date?????????????????????
well im a libra girl and just got out fa relationship with a sag man. Met him in 2013 and we had a good few weeks and then he just changed and became an asshole…he really hurt me and i came home one day and he and his suitcases were gone.he just retuned this year begging forgiveness for me to take him back which i did because i still loved him and he just changed and did the same….Sag men are real jerks and expect us to have nice things to say about them when they hurt us but really dont think the best of us and wants to be friends… i am not intrested in being friends with a man that hurt me unneccessarily…Its true if they beliee they are right then they stick to their guns – i as a libra woman gonna do the same. its only when they want something they admit their wrongs just to get what they want. Its strange though that when i look it up most astrology sites regard us libra women and sag men as excellent matches….
Decades (5+) and 2 ex-husbands later, I’m still *in love* with my Sagg 1st love. Distance separated us as young adults, as well as fact I married early, he had children with 2 women early and went into a business that was most entrepreneurial (night club) that was not on the ethical level I would have found easy comfort with at that stage in my life.
I am a one-man woman and consider my passing on this relationship a major missed opportunity because our connection endured into his death nearing 20 years ago on a soul – spirit level despite it all, and I’m not sure today that my reason to walk another path (his inability to care for his chronic health condition that portended a real possibility of my being a young widow) was the best decision. Only God knows I might have been able to inspire his self-care, but given how the – Sagg man – Libra woman – connection is described on this website, it’s unlikely that such an effort on my part would have done anything but split us apart. Such a split for me really would have been worst than my not taking the risk ha been. At least I have an untainted memory which I think is a little sad, but it is what it is. I am a Libra woman! lol
He was one of a kind, for sure, and as he developed in adulthood he had revealed more and more of the man that I love to this day. I saw in him the noble and honorable, young, cocky boy helping me to climb over the school fence behind him so we could play where children were excluded at the time we sought to be there.
Sarim Husain says: March 5, 2015 at 9:05 pm
REPLY: Agree with your comments. I believe the 1st move, the course of the relationship, and how long it is to last has to be idea of the man in the first place. With a Sagg it means he is leading and the Libra is following. Both are power positions. However, there can only be one head or leader in a relationship, or chaos and disharmony arises. It’s not a big problem for me to do this with a strong Cardinal sign individual like a Sagg (Leo), etc. For my triple Libra nature the greater the sexual and romantic connection, the more readily I compromise to the male energy of leadership.
To me to sling power for powers’ sake, or even for the sake of ego fulfillment is tasteless and it insults that which I value most in relationships: The mutual ability to dance together, to compromise as a couple, and all the romance that those efforts symbolize to this Libra. Am I moonstruck and a dreamer? You betcha! But that’s part of my charm, and it is necessary to balance the logical and intellectual side that this Libra brings to a relationship. I am not meant to dance with everyone, but the ones I do dance with — it’s a tango!
The truth is that Sag don’t have patience to follow through anything boring. They like solving challenges and they hate it when their superior reason is not followed. To love a Sag, allow him to do the reasoning and there you will see a very faithful man. The question is, can you cope with his speed of reasoning? They reason deeper than most people can comprehend and once you don’t follow their thought they become impatient and can insult you. They are passionate and generous. They don’t lie. If they promise and Gail, then know that fulfilling that promise is something beyond them at the moment and depending on how you encourage them, they will certainly fulfill it. They dislike being nagged for any reason. To me Sag can date anyone but they will leave if you don’t improve. Sag likes improvements
I think Sag men are conceited and full of themselves and think the world revolves around them and it aint so, who in the world is not liar than a Sag man, must be the 13th zodiac sign, they lie on the spot and can chat themselves out of any situation on point, quick thinkers they are…yes they are very kind indeed, no doubt about that, very generous. I think Sag men loves to be in control and if they feel they are about to loose control they panic, I’ve seen that with a few I know.. I also find that they are great providers for their family but also find that they prefer their women be very dependent on them meaning she should stay home and do home duties while he go out and be the sole provider ( in my opinion I think men like that are insecure and not necessarily have the best interest at heart for been a provider), I kinda have mixed feelings about that , I think if two people are in a relationship, equality should be the order of the day…especially in today’s society. …to some it up, Sag men are controlling with no scope for compromising, their way or the highway!
I think you are quite true, many times scorpio’s are also like that.
Now that you mention that some bits are true about Scorpio…some, I didn’t even think about that 🙂
I’m sorry to everyone who’s been talking trash about Sagittarius men, but that’s bogus.
Yes, as a Sag guy myself, I can be blunt. But that’s only if I feel that I really have to be so. I’m currently in a relationship with a Libra girl, and it’s been going so well – in fact, I never want it to stop. I’m not necessarily “conceited” or anything of the sort. I know my weaknesses; I just mind myself not to be afraid of them. I may be wrong, as I’ve been told I don’t act too much like a normal Sagittarius guy. But I know for sure that Sags are not that negative.
As a 29 year old Sag male, I have to say many of these comments against sags are over generalizations. Just because you have had bad experiences with one or even a few does not mean we are all like that. I definitely do not conform to the “all sag men are jerks” theory. I can be blunt sometimes, but I always think before I speak because I don’t like hurting other’s feelings. I am generous with my family, friends, and even complete strangers, and have a genuine sense of compassion and caring for others. I do have a temper at times and get can angry, but hey, I am human, right? Some people see me as careless/irresponsible because I travel lots, but that’s only because I love seeing the world and place priority on amazing experiences over material possessions. Do I seem like a jerk? Maybe I am the exception, not the rule?
I fell in love with a Sagitarrius almost 4 years ago. I felt an instant connection. I mean, after a few days of just knowing him I already was harbouring a persistent crush. I’m quite sure it was one-sided to begin with, but the longer I felt that way, the more things would develop. You see, he was already in a committed relationship. I was sure I was just lusting over something I couldn’t have, but there were these moments we’d share that would feel so entirely electric that it gave me glimpses of hope. Gradually, I came to terms that I was completely and unforgivingly in love with the man – a first for me. He’s a lot older than I am and just so profoundly sophisticated and his personality just caught my attention in a way that left me pathetically enamoured. After meeting his partner, I felt a lot of things. Anger at him, mostly. I questioned why he made me feel this way when he was with someone else. How we could possibly share this innate pull when neither of us had even mentioned anything of the sort before. I just decided I was imagining the entire connection and moved on – had a lot of other firsts. He believes in astrology so I always found it interesting to read up about these things. I couldn’t agree more with the ”mind reading” aspect. I felt as if we were on such levelled wavelengths that, when he’d catch my gaze and look into my eyes, he’d know just what I was feeling. I feel like most of our truest connections laid above in a higher realm of our consciousness – like we both could feel something pulling at us without necessarily addressing it. Being a Libra, I am a romantic…and a bit of a flirt. I had to deal with a lot of internal conflict with my morals and ideals in this one. I’d never felt this way about anyone. I didn’t want to come off as a simple flirt so I would often keep our eye contact at a high to ensure he knew how I really felt. There was no harm if he didn’t, there’s something so safe about loving someone unattainable. I’m sure he’s too much of a gentleman to act on anything, even in the small windows he’s had a chance – or he has and stopped. As a Libra, I do usually take charge and intiative. But this is so delicate. Although he’s blunt, he’s not just another guy I can charm. I feel like my ‘magic’ doesn’t quite work on him – as if he’s too dear to acknowledge such things. I’ve never been certain on any of his feelings for me. I mean, I know he’s made remarks about my looks and personality – all beyond a general positive compliment – but I revere him so highly among anything and everything and I wouldn’t want to ever trouble him with my misunderstandings. Right now, I’d take anything he’d have to give me. I don’t think I’ll ever get over him.
This is me EXACTLY. This Sag man is the most captivating, magnetic, overwhelming person I’ve ever encountered. And he doesn’t even try! Not intentionally, I mean. Masculinity radiates from him. It oozes from every part of him. Not to be confused with arrogance and pride. I’m 27 and he’s in his early to mid 40s. To put it into perspective, he’s my boss’s, boss’s, boss. His hygiene and upkeep are PERFECT. I’ve never seen a man so well kept. Never a hair out of place. I check hehe! I feel like there is a connection between us. I know I’m not making this up. It’s like how someone can look at you without looking at you? That’s the feeling I ALWAYS feel around him. Another co-worker friend of mine is taken by him as well, but in a superficial “he’s hot” sort of way. She’s a Cancer. As you, I had to consider my strict morals, as he is taken. He is so pristine that I would never cheapen our connection with frivolous flirting. And somehow this has worked. The more I don’t flirt, the more I feel drawn in by him. I tried to convince myself it was all in my head. So, I decided to take the scenic route to go downstairs in order to avoid his office completely. So, why was I feeling so tense? Because as soon as I met the end of the hall, here he comes intercepting my path, that’s why. That’s what I mean, I could FEEL him coming. Geez, it drives me nuts. One day, I got the full effect when crossing paths with him it took me ten minutes to compose myself, I was so flustered. Then there is other younger Sag that’s a colleague that I would never date! He’s cool to talk to though. Funny how that works!
As a sag I am longing for a libra wife, my dad, mom, most of my relations are all cancer and it has been 33 years of train wreck if u sags cannot hold on to one of the nicest signs in libra get ready for a miserable life. Where is the balance here
Ok, I have been with my partner for 5 years, I am a Libran and he is a Sagittarius, he is 41 and I am 30 years….. at the start of the relationship everything was perfect like any relationship would be, 3 months after that things started to change, if would say something like cut into him about something, yes he would curl up and go quiet and shut me off and the conversation would be stopped! I have to stop my last word!!!! he hates everything negative and yes that means all negative stuff, am not allowed to sulk, be bored, or frown, I have to be happy, talk positive, have full of energy and etc….
yes, I’m not allowed to have an attitude for too long either as it puts a bad vibe in the room, but he seems to be allowed to do so!
Yes he believes in the word like life is too short, oh he creads it, needs it and worships it!
what you mean switch up on him, he hates it?
I’m not afraid of him and what I should say, I say what I have to say like anybody has a right to, he is totally scared of me, I will say stuff, as I see it, hear it and feel it. no bad is saying so.
They never admit to their faults and their mates always stick up for their lies and bullshit! admit to my faults and say I’m sorry, never works for them, how do I play these games back for him not to notice? that will be hard and I wouldn’t know what to do on how to do that!
He always thinks I am playing games, I have tried on so many levels to ease with him, but it doesn’t seem to work, I always say I’m sorry and say what I mean, I still get my head bittern off! it’s not true about the coming back, coos they don’t if they do, they still start on you and walk out the door again, and they are gone again, cos he is in a shit!
not when hanging around his ex all the time or every 6 months, sags do cheat! they can’t help it, they roam it’s their nature, like horses do!!!!!
they can’t keep their thing in their pants cos they want to explore behind their partners back, even when they are committed! and they have met another woman, they tell them that they are single, they are liars too, I have seen so many numbers of different females numbers laying around, not a good sign, they don’t like to work late even when they have to, they aren’t always honest and yes he is very picky he wants my hair to look and my clothes to be the same as his ex’s he had told me this to me face, he doesn’t wants kids or settle with me, he had told me this as he wants it with some1 else, Only with the 1 he truly loves, I have lost trust in him as he has lied to me and my feeling were nothing to him, but I’m not allowed to have feelings or even say them out loud! My sag strays a lot he denies it of course they would, I have heard him on the fone, cos he walks outside like he has a lot to hide…… does everything on his own never with his partner to make her happy, he never comforts me ever when I need him the most, he gets pissed at me when I have a crappy day! OMG….. sometimes he comes home from work feeling shit and he takes his crap out on me. say men are never there for their partners they don’t care about them, they only care about themselfs!!!!! us females we only get used get what they want and piss off! I have been with my sag for 5 years and we’ve only had sex 5 times in the last 5 years!!!!! he is very lousy, and the biggest liars of all time, my sag man cheated on my 6 months ago, I found out the hard way, he had been court and denies it! and he is still denying it today!!!!! and still continues to see her today as he hasn’t been home for 3 days!!!!!
I have been with him for 5 years and it’s see ya to you, I want nothing of him as their is no trust, no commitment, and forgiveness on what he has done to me, he thinks i’m really stupid not to see his little games he is playing,
They are selfish and they only do things for them selfs only, never think about anybody else, they don’t like doing anything else for any1, specially their partner.
What hurts most is he never admits to anything….. he seems to be never in the wrong, always has to be right!!!!!! and they other thing that hurt me the most when he said I could my ex back anytime I want and he still loves her, cos she is better than me, they are cheaters, and always be cheaters, he isn’t good with money and will be, and they don’t know how to save, they never tell you where they go or where they are going, very secretive people,
Oh and his dark side of course, it does have immense trust issues and is very 1 track minded person, never watches what he says or how to says them, very stubborn he has to always have double standards for everything, he has issues, and likes to take them out on others, and then blame you for it, they love playing games with your mind to see if you if you will bite back, they love playing games, with your mind, to see if you will snap, god my sag doesn’t know how to calm me down, or says I don’t want to know, he always wants the last words, librans aren’t allowed to have the last word, i’m so sick of the fighting and arguing thats all we do, nothing else, no fun times or anything, or great times, here or there,
He started to argue over little stupid things and it become bigger, he is very blunt, and i’m very sensitive when I get hurt!
He always has to have the last words and be centre of attention, yes when we argue he would fired up at me, and storm out, my partner as of no more anymore, said it was pulling him away, and he can’t deal with something like that, he started to lack he is pulling away more and more, I’m listening but he thinks I never!
I think he has found someone that who he wants to be with, he won’t admit to it, cos he is very secretive, I think he is going back to his ex, he always talks to her, it’s not hard for them to love their ex again, he stays in contact with her behind my back, never told me he was doing it, if he just told me I would of been fine, so he was hiding it from me, there is no trust!
as for now I am letting him come back, I’m sick of the 1 who has to say sorry all the time, I’m not even going to bother talking to him and cos it will be a waste of time, he still has foto’s of his ex’s, yes he has a bad shocking temper,and reckons he never had 1, there is no passion, it’s gone from the start from day 1, the words that come out of his mouth are mean and hurtful, and will attack me with everything he has, from all sides,he doesn’t like doing anything that is a responsibity for any1 else only for him, he wouldn’t do anything me either,
and will say stuff behind people back, and how they should live or the way they live, he says he loves me, but no love there and it’s not real to him, he won’t even commit to me like he said he wouldn’t this frustrates me bad it really does hurt me, and makes me very annoyed, I love cuddling up to him and waking up next to him, but that all gone now, as he said he will never come back while I am there, it’s also to do with his stubbornness and selfishness, he will not diguss anything with me, and will not, commit! and accuses me to get a man when he is at his weakest.
I am stupid to him and dumb!!!! he has no time for what’s so ever, I’m not important in his life, he is totally slowing me along, and he will never realize, what he had or has in his life, it too late, can’t do anything about it! it’s too sad, it’s bad enough that I have to go through it!
I am in the process of dating a sag. Man and I am libra . he was married for 26 years and 60, his wife passed away ten years ago. He tells me he is a one woman man. After reading these comments I am not sure about him. He is very well educated and romantic thru the emails that he sends to me. He tells me he has found what he wants in me . I am not sure what to do at this point any ideas ????
Girls– run. I dated a sag man and he literally became obsessed with me when I broke it off. They’re selfish and bullies and they hide it oh so well.