Taurus Man and Cancer Woman Compatibility
Taurus-Cancer Couples:
Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers
When these two team up, it’s all about home, family, warm hearts, and full tummies. Life tends to center around the kitchen and family room. The ‘audience” is a small enthusiastic crowd of one or two, creating a secure circle of life and love. Both partners are rabid about security. They eat, drink, sleep, and breath it. As long as they both contribute equally to this ideal haven or port in a storm, things go well. Problems start if one partner is irresponsible or seems not to be contributing to the secure package (called “Our Future”) by taking foolish risks or, really, any risks at all or even shows a pulsebeat now and then. They tend to get things set up and want to keep them that way, thank you very much. Pretty soon their house begins to look like a garage sale. That’s ok. They love the feeling of old, familiar things.
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Attract a Taurus Man as a Cancer Woman: Ask him how he feels (meaning are his physical needs being met). Fuss over him – is he eating right? Does he need help with some errands? How’s work going? Keep the conversation very personal. No need to invite the Obamas into the small talk you’ll both enjoy so much. Brush imaginary lint off his shoulder. Straighten his tie. Mirror his body image during conversation. Become more aware of your own body language so you are communicating in the language he understands best.
How to Attract a Cancer Woman as a Taurus Man: Let slip that you pay your bills on time and are supporting a vulnerable elderly relative (or would love to). Ask her about her mother. Your mantra must become “Family is Everything to Me” – of course you don’t mean what she means by that but all’s fair in love and Guerre. Be a conscious tipper. Study the bills carefully before handing over your credit card. Act like you take money very seriously.
Degree of Romance: The urge to submerge and be protected is too urgent to allow for much romance. There’s just enough to be decent to each other on Valentine’s Day.
Degree of Passion: Passion is a little disturbing to these two because it is not premeditated and therefore untrustworthy. Who needs passion as a motivator when the fanatic desire for security underlies every word and deed?
Degree of Friendship: They can be fast friends because they each tend to focus on one other person. It would not occur to one of them to divvy out a microeconomic KIVA loan until they both had enough “stuff” for themselves and that day will never come for these two.
Degree of Marriage: Perfect for marriage and gathering of the clans every Sunday afternoon for a BBQ. Don’t even dream about inviting strangers and stay off that chair. That’s where Uncle Harvey always sits.
Progression of Relationship: Predictable. A huge big deal is made about meeting each other’s families.
Sex: They rely on the feelings of touch associated with sex to bond them nonverbally. They have a strong infantlike visceral connection based on taste and smell. Their lovemaking includes special textures, noises and pet nicknames.
When It’s Over: Endless tears of self-pity with little growth accompanying. Neurotic fears about splitting up possessions. He may continue to live in a room downstairs or in the basement long after they gave begun the separation process.
fred astaire and rogers were only couples on the screen X)
Yes, of course, but they worked together intensely all those years.
i’m involved in this combination – for some reason, it sounds like it’s better off for the two of us to be with other people since it sounds so blah…like i’m doing him a favor letting him off because i don’t provide enough excitement or stimulation, and vice versa.
however, i also read the ‘Taurus woman – Cancer man’ combo, that sounds a lot more appealing. Even though the signs are the same, does it matter which sex belongs to what sign?
been here and agree with Emily. very, very blah. you can keep the Taurus man. lazy lay
@wnily
YEs, it matters which sex belongs to which sign, very much so.
@Delight 23
Ha!
Same here anna… All the above may be true but i’m sticking with mine.
What does 8/1 mean, or is it suppose to be 8/10.
well to be honest im in this combination and its not entirely like that… there is passion and excitement we just find it in different ways to other people. im very happy and secure and i think thats whats important 🙂
My last relationship was with a Taurus. That was 3 years ago, and I’m still not over it. We don’t talk anymore. I’m over him, but not over what could have been, if that makes sense. Taurus male/Cancer female can be an amazing match. There is definitely a lot of compatibility- sexually, emotionally, mentally. Mine just didn’t work out =(
*CW I’m surprised it didn’t work out and I bet it’s hard to get over. What went wrong?
I married a Taurean man. This pretty much sums up our life together. The reality of it is, family and home are everything to us. We just had our first baby girl and we are totally in love with her and even more with each other. Taurus makes an amazing father and a very attentive and affectionate husband, although his patience level sometimes is compromised by his short fuse and headstrong personality. I know i am to blame for most of these eh short fuses lol, but all i have to do is give him a kiss on the nosse and all is forgotten. Very much on cue with this description. Loved it!!!
I had fell in love with a Taurean cusp Aries man, born 20th April. Im a cancer women, I must say he might be thinking my outlook personality seems to be easy-going but inside me, kinda emotional plus my ups & downs mood swings which drives him crazy! But He’s very quiet- they called it silent-killer, and we hardly communicating in the phone , only sms and when we met, All we talked about work and finance. He is not ready not commitment or relationships but we do have this so called “sex buddy” going on between us for the past 2 months. And till now i have not express my feelings for him. But i could feel he’s doesnt want this.
So true. My taurus man and I (cancer woman) have been married 24 yrs and dont regret any day of it. Theres always a lot of security and friendship in this relationship.
I love the Taurus male/cancer woman combo! I dated a Taurus for a while, then I ended up breaking up with him. He was the best, most satisfying and lovely boyfriend. Four months later after the breakup, we hang out and I feel that love never left us. I hope he feels the same way. I found the courage to ask him out on a date (when us cancers know what we want, we go for it!) We are going out on a date soon, I hope I can get him back 🙂
My best friend is a male taurus and I am a cancer woman. We have been friends for nearly 7 years now (since I was 14), however it has been a distant friendship for five of those years because my mother moved our family out of state. He traveled up to iowa from south texas to take me to my prom. Only recently have we revealed our feelings for eachother. We are taking things slowly because he is in the military. I don’t foresee that things would be mundane for us. I dated a taurus before and it was anything but boring. I am nothing, if not thorough. I have checked other sources and this one says nothing along the lines of the other sites. I don’t believe it.
you are so right!!!
I have the biggest crush ever on a Taurus man!!!! We have so much fun every time we hang out but I don’t know how to tell him I want to date him. Yes… I know… Hiding inside my Cancer shell seems easier than getting rejected. Help! Lol. I wanted a Leo forever but they are oh so dramatic :S Just felt like adding that in there. 🙂 Oh, and I love love love this site. It is amazing 🙂 Sorry I am being a spaz right now!
first of all i just want to say that i think its all true and i love this site
but i had a question … i dont know which is better for me (taurus man) a virgo, a cancer or a capricorn ???? thx
Taurus man is a great organizer and has a sense of spontaneous fun. Will lewt you participate equaLLY IN everything. Doesnot think so much of the future though.
@ confused taurus,
these comments are according to my taurus male friends:
1) “Virgo girls are brilliant, very active and sexual but they have little bit of loyality issues (eg Billy Joel’s wife). They do not accept your weakness and they will force you to change it. If you’re not improving yourself, they will soon seek for a better potential person.”
2) “Cancer girls are amazing but little moody (you have to be their counsellor and cheer them up all the time). They have many secretes between people, because they love the politics. Their social connections are very private. They like to run a big projects, like to face the challenges and fully motivated when they work.”
3) “Capricon girls are very organised, but very stubborn.. (they’ll not listen to you sometimes). Good at planning and organising but very passive, unimaginative and always comparing me with other men. i had to do all the research when we date and she expects too much. They like to keep many other men on the list apart from you (unless you are marrying to her).”
Based on all these comments, i think there’s no perfect match. it would be nice to try and find out by yourself. Never be afraid to love XD
by the way it is George Lucas(May 14th) and Linda Ronstadt, not George Micheal (June 25th)
@eva the taurus girl taurus girls rule!!!
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I have been with a taurus man for 7 plus years and then he decided that he needed to break up with me a month ago due to my lacking of caring of his work life. We were very much in love and we still are in love but he said, things cannot go on while he’s been feeling unsupported from his partner for quite some time now. I guess right now, we’re just distance ourselves to focus on us and to better ourselves. I misses him so much that i felt like life couldn’t go no further without him but it is what it is when a taurus man breaks up with you…his decision has been made. 🙁
Btw, all of you cancer women out there that’s checking out taurus men, you guys should go for it, but just learn how to ask them how they’re doing with work/school and always be stable and be on their level as to conversation wise and never sulk if you see yourself seeking for a very long term into making marriage relationship. Once ya capture their heart fully, ya will not regret on what they will have in store for you:) ya won’t regret it!
i have to say,cancer men are BIG BABIES. i did an acting lesson with one, and everything he does is for him to get female attention, his moroccan and MUSLIM, and seems to think this make him special. CANCERSlove to PLAY MIND GAMES. one time i was speaking to him ( I called him-stupid thing to do), and he said Taurus women are controlling , because his MUM is Taurus. I often get the point, that he wants me physically, but is not sure emotionally about me. I know this for a factin one of our acting lessons, he was stanind b ehind me and he had a HARD ON!, i was shocked by this and he quickly dashed to the toilt, I guess to releave himself, and I tried to stay away from him, but he kept sitting nexdt to me. His about 30yrs old now, and I think being the person Iam, im passionate, loving and caring and some what quite at times. I and he knows we could be goodor even great for each other sexually/emotionally. I just believe he would be a waste of good time and my love, because he can not emotionally connect with me , without it being sexual on his part. There are several times, he’ll catche me on my own and start saying , “we have a connection “, like his expectig me to get on my knees and bow down to his every command. I know being tauurs that I deserve ever lasting love , that is true and genuine. I know that he can not give that to me. so Ysen if your reading this connect to yourself emotionally, and maturally and you might experience true life in your life time. lol
The love of my life was a Taurus, through 1.5 years at the end of and after high school, we had such an amazing (nonverbal) connection that we knew what the other was thinking even when we were alone in our own homes. We were best, best friends, too. He was so supportive of me, so patient, I felt so secure with him. We went our separate ways for college and had one amazing night together seven years after parting, I thought for sure we were back together for good, but it was not to be (different places, different stages of life…). I am currently going through a divorce after 15 yrs of marriage to a (very insecure, very defensive, very emotionally stunted) Cancer man and started dating a Taurus man a few months ago and it is amazing. I feel like I am back with the love of my life. While my marriage was a daily struggle from the beginning, my new relationship feels so easy and secure, we don’t even have to talk, we just love being in each other’s presence. I am reading many good things about Taurus man-Cancer woman and have high hopes for us! It just FEELS right (in that intuitive Cancer woman way)!
At my 30th high school reunion I ran into my high school boyfriend. After our first hug hello I felt like I had gone back 30 years (yes, I was in love with him then) and those feelings were still there. He spent most of evening 2 inches from me. The first week or so after the reunion we met for coffee, went out for dirnks, talked until 4 in the morning, it almost felt too intense. He said it felt right. Then it stopped. I asked several times to see him and he said he was busy. I have backed off but I fell in love with him again. I have never fallen so hard so fast. Did he freak out? or was I delusional that he was into me and is not? Not knowing taurus men, should I push this or just move on?
the combination of earth and water is domestic bliss. The taurus man and cancer woman compliment each other wonderfully. Their strengths make for a harmonious union and even their weaknesses can cancel each other out. A possessive man caring for the insecure woman! Love it.
I’ve been married to a taurean. They such life out of you. High expectations, but when it comes to them, a complete blunder. Never finish off work properly. No sense of appreciation and always complaining. I’m a sagittarian woman, an totally independent. But he is always nagging, never understanding and never helps! Very arrogant and rude and expects me to function the way he wants it!
I’ve been married to a taurean. They suck life out of you. High expectations, but when it comes to them, a complete blunder. Never finish off work properly. No sense of appreciation and always complaining. I’m a sagittarian woman, totally independent. But he is always nagging, never understanding and never helps! Very arrogant and rude and expects me to function the way he wants it!
Then leave him, simple 🙂
I’m a cancer female who dated a Taurus male when I was 16 he was 18….I fell in love quick..?.we lasted maybe a year….he gave me a ring asked me to marry him….then found out he was sleeping with my best friend and got her pregnant…years later we was both going through divorce so we hooked back up….he promised he’d never do what he done ever again….he cried…I fell for it only to be lied to multiple times….they cheat….!!
im a cancerian woman who dated a Taurus man for a year.When it was over we just stopped talking to each other and that was the end no breaking up or anything like that.I must say though that’s how I always break up with my exes I just fall off their radar and never to be spotted again lol..Well as a flirty cancerian I tried to bring out the fun in this man by going out together experiencing the night life and clubbing it was fun while it lasted but when boredom set in I didn’t know what to do with him.I love a partner I can have a good laugh with and this man was too serious to the point of being cold.i would use my flirty ways and sense of humor and he will laugh but it got tiring in the long run.Taurus men are good for a cancer woman who is reserved and not as outgoing as l am.Must be my libra rising plus my mom is a libra so l grew up knowing that you have to socially fluent to be happy in life make others happy.These people are so cold and just so stubborn that they don’t want to try anything new.Very lazy as well both male and females.Too introverted more than cancer and just want to go home and watch tv while I want to go dance some salsa once in a while.So l will say this to cancerian woman who is curious and adventurous like me it doesn’t work.It will frustrate you and you gonna start whining and looking like a bad person.They are sexual but not in a fun and kinky way the cancerians would wish lol.Well that was my observation.
Very lazy lay indeed..Like Nancy said ,stick in the mud Taurus.If you are an energetic cancerian you will end up slowing down your pace with these slow men.You will end getting frustrated and unhappy.Then you will be made to feel like you have very high expectations and are crazy.They deserve to be left for a better and faster mate.Taurus and Capricorn are very cold signs compared to humorous cancers.Cancer women it’s not worth it to be with this man.Try leos or even sags .
Nothing but mediocre relationship.Taurus is way too introverted for me.Im introverted too but I also love people and being out and about then coming home to recharge.But Taurus is just too quiet is not talkative and no sense of humor.Feels lonely being around this guy.What to do?Maybe just walking away without a word is better.I can’t change his nature so something’s gotta give..
This is so true, I am a cancer woman and have dated three taurus men. MY third taurus just broke up with me and its all the same. They are so boring, move ridiculously slow, and lack any curiosity or passion. They are also selfish. Cancer woman needs someone more affectionate and fun, like a Leo . so done with the taurus ego and boring dull lifestyle.They are stuck in their ways and will NEVER meet you halfway, then blame you and call you high maitenacne. If you are cancer woman please avoid.