Leo Woman and Virgo Man Compatibility
Famous Virgo-Leo Couples:
Madonna and Guy Ritchie, Jennifer Lopez and Mark Anthony, Jennifer Lopez and Chris Judd, Jackie Kennedy Onassis and Maurice Tempelsman, Meghan Markle and Prince Harry
This is a surprisingly compatible, hard working and respectable combination. If you realize that every Leo progresses through Virgo for thirty years of their life, you can see the compatibility. The emphasis is on “doing one’s duty” which Leos secretly love because it enhances their sense of dignity. Much can be accomplished and these two are proud producers, be it family, business, or other fields of endeavor. They very much share a work ethic in common with a high degree of trust.
How to Attract a Virgo Man as a Leo Woman:
Tighten your focus and find out what he’s interested in. He’s an expert at something! I’m assuming you’re the kind of Leo that invites others up on the stage. Otherwise you would never be attracted to such a genuinely modest but outstanding individual. As you narrow your focus, you’ll be helping him get a bigger picture and inviting him to come out more and participate! Try to be tolerant as he “details out” the plans for the evening. I know it robs your time together of some spontaneity but that’s just where you come in.
How to Attract a Leo Woman as a Virgo Man:
You can attract your lioness by giving her some work to do or dangling a project in front of her. It seems contradictory, I know, but just try it, you’ll see. Leos have their slave side, and it is all the more exciting to have someone else recognize because they can usually fool people into thinking they are queens and wouldn’t dream of waiting on someone hand and foot. You should, of course, be very proper and try to use a fresh, creative approach. If you can’t think of a project in common, get her interested in something you are doing by asking her advice. Sit back and listen while she purrs and roars in approval.
Degree of Romance:
There is a great deal of romance possible here. There are three signs that are secretly as romantic as Leos and that is Aries, Virgo or Pisces man. You can trot out all your pedigrees here. You, of all signs, have an inside track on chivalry with some absolutely adorable and irresistible tricks up your sleeves. At last you have found the right audience. The more knightly and courtly you appear, the more she eats it up, even past the point of good taste. I mean where some women will blush, she just says, “Bring it on.” If you remember the basis of courtly love was worshipping an aristocratic lady beyond his reach, you get the drift. P.S. Unlike with some other signs she will be forgiving of your excesses and insecurities and will be reassuring to you if she is interested at all.
Degree of Passion:
Love is a performance and Leo likes center stage. You are good at providing props, for example, having Kleenex handy, keeping the candles from dripping on the bedside table, and making sure the door is locked. Things that she would overlook in her passion. In other words, you can set the stage and reap the rewards by being the perfect audience. Sincere praise drives her to out perform
Degree of Friendship:
Friendship is not particularly of value between these two. Let’s say reliable companionship instead.
Degree of Marriage:
This has an excellent of developing into a good stable marriage. Both partners take respect seriously and intend to put their best foot forward at all times. Whereas normally Leo might find Virgo a little boring, if you hook her into some work projects, that should fill the gap nicely. Set her to work remodeling your new home.
Progression of Relationship:
Normally Leos are demanding and pushy, but if you are playing your chivalrous cards carefully, she’ll be fascinated and let you lead the way. No one can out romance a Leo like a Virgo.
Sex:
Sex will be an important part of the relationship in that both partners thrive on a reliable, steady diet and each is willing to provide the same. I know you pretend to be shy, but Virgos always have an amazing bag of sexual tricks because they have paid attention to details through the years. There isn’t a Leo in the world who doesn’t have something to learn from a Virgo male, something that will thrill and delight.
When It’s Over:
When it’s over this should unwind in a business like manner. Records have been kept and a high standard of fairness and respect was held during the relationship. It is not likely it will turn into a friendship, but if you ever need anything years later you can count on her to be right there for you.
I disagree about this… to me, Virgos seem overly flirtatious and, more often than not, obnoxious. I don’t know a Virgo who’s shy or modest, and I also don’t know one that hasn’t tried to sleep with me, and everybody else in the room. They may be “court” you, but it’s kind of annoying when you tell them no and they don’t seem to get the picture. Maybe it’s just because I don’t particularly like Virgos, but I would give this more like a 6/10.
Don’t hold it against them. If you’re a Leo probably everybody tries to sleep with you.
well , you hevent met a lot of virgos then I’m 27 and as shy as can be , and yes we are VERY picky about are women and could care less about going out to find one, instead they kinda just show up in our radar
Nooo way this is COMPLETELY true!!! me and my virgo are exactly like its described… so much trust and respect for eachother i love him hes sooo amazing…
very flirtacious though, and everyone loves him, which makes me adore him even more since im the leo :]
@#4Olivia
🙂 Good description.
Of all signs I’d have never thought Virgo for me. I’m a cancer/leo.. Well he’s near to perfect then anyone I’ve ever met. We fit like a puzzle. I find all the little things I tend to worry about, he’s already taken care of. I can’t believe someone like that exist. I heard Virgo’s were boring in bed. NOT true. He is the first person to fulfill me totally and then some. I feel loved and cared about. Brings out my passion. He’s wonderful at taking care of details. He lets me take care of him. I feel needed, useful, and appreciated. He keeps himself clean and what woman wouldn’t LOVE that! He’s not a neat freak like I’ve heard virgos are, but he does know how to keep things clean. Again what woman wouldn’t love that. (maybe I’m a clean freak and I don’t see his cleaniness as a problem?) lol.. We agree on just about everything. Very much alike. Same tastes. Same stomach problems. A lot of understanding between us.. Now for our only “issue”. Well I do have mood swings even I don’t understand, I tend to close up until it passes or I figure it out. This drives him insane and he worries over it, gets angry (not outword anger though) He wants to know now and I can’t tell him now.. Sooo a little issue but I’m sure in time we can work it out. I love my virgo man. Oh yes I do. After being with a stinky, no attention to detail, nothing in common scorpio, I have found my heaven.. PS: Never seen him flirt.. He makes me feel like I’m the only woman on earth.
I tell you, this is a GREAT match~!!
I’m a little confused about this match, I am very much a Leo woman, and have worked with a Virgo man for the last 7 years, there have been times when he has truly iritated me but we are close friends I respect and trust him, he has just always been there really. Over the years I had noticed an attraction (from me) but he has never given me any reason to believe that it was reciprocated. So romantically I kept my distance. Until 3 weeks ago I would have said our relationship was like siblings (I am 8 years older than him). Then at his leaving drinks I got a little tipsy and confessed that there had been times that I had wished for a little more from him, his reaction was to give me his usual warm cuddle and a smile (he doesn’t smile alot). Later in the night when we were waiting for a cab.. Wooo Hoooo fireworks he just walked over and gave me the most passionate kiss ever, stating that he had waited 6 years for it and wasn’t missing his chance now….and off he goes? He has now moved overseas and contacts me frequently, internet and phone, his correspondence can range from charming to very cheeky and I am enjoying the chat, but just don’t really get it, does he want me? he says so, but why wait so long? Having witnessed some of his other relationships he doesn’t strike me as a player, but who knows. I do know he has always admired my work, and often calls me inspirational. I suppose the question is am I wasting my time, and is he just using me until a real lover comes along (as opposed to long distance lover)
I am a leo woman that is just going crazy over a virgo male. But it is so hard to really deal with him. I mean he pisses me off so much and he never does anything that I ask for him to do! I feel like he is superman. I just don’t understand what the problem is. I think he likes me but he refuses to show me some passion…I don’t know virgo men have to be the most difficult of all the zodiac. They aren’t single by choice I feel like its because they run all the girls away
I think he’s good for you. Stick with it.
I’m not sure if I like my friend, who’s a virgo male cause he seems to be so passive all the time. Plus, they said that virgo males are conservative and he doesn’t seem to be paying attention to me. I’m a leo woman. I don’t know what he’s thinking half the time or if he’s just shy cause the conversations we have are awkward.
I just met a Leo lady, I’m 45 born the 23rd of August and she is 50 born the 21st of August. Very attractive lady indeed, she looks like 36!! We went out for coffee flavored cocktails and dancing afterwards, I really enjoyed being around her, I have had no success with Aries, Scorpios, Libras, Cancer, Sagittarius, Pisces, Gemini, Taurus, Capricorn, Aquarius and Virgo!! This is my last shot!! I tried every Zodiac sign, I’ve called her for a second date but does not respond to my texts inmediately, I called her and asked why? she said it takes her time to warm up to someone…I really wan’t it to work out, should I keep trying? but she won’t be able to see me till the 22nd of May! HELP
hey well , i am a leo woman and i am in a relationship with a virgo man. sometimes i feel like he doesnt like me by his actions, he seems very distance at times,so i start doubting our relationship, he tells me whats wrong with me, he likes me so much,
@dnise It’s kind of a hard match that way hard for Leo. If he didn’t like you. believe it, he wouldn’t be around.
alright well I’m 12 in seventh grade and I REALLY like this kid in eigth grade, who I call “Muffin”, and it fits him perfectly. like one day he’s such a jerk and the next he’s so nice and I’m just like umm ? but he is gorgeous and he thinks I’m pretty haha but he won’t go out with cause I’m in a grade lower than him but just yeah you guys get the point haha
I’m a Leo woman and I met a very handsome virgo male 8 months ago. We Live 5 hrs away from each other but have managed to see one another once a month. We talk or text each other every other day but in the last 3 months the communication has slacked off to once a week.
I have been a little guilty of not recognizing his subtle intrest in me and may have come across as indifferent but I did verbalize to him my feelings for him. I’m suppose to be visiting him in 24 hrs but he has yet to confirm with me whether or not he will pick me up from the airport. I’m in a state of confusion as to whether or not his avoidance is out of virgos personality or if he would just rather I go away completely.
What bothers me most is that he says he knows how to verbalize his feelings but I wish he could just make it official if he doesn’t want to remain FWB.
I AM A LEO WOMAN N I HAVE BEEN DEALIN WITH A VIRGO MALE FOR TWO YEARS I SWEAR I QUESTION MYSELF ABOUT MY LOVE FOR HIM ALL THE TIME BUT I CANT SEEM TO DEAL WITH ANYONE BUT HIM AT TIMES HE CAN B SUCH A JERK N SO CARELESS TO MY FEELINGS WHICH R EASILY HURTIN ESPECIALLY WIT HIM BECAUSE WHAT HE THINKS REALLY MATTERS TO ME IT SEEMD LIK EVERYTHING I DO IS ALWAYS NEVER GOOD ENOUGH HE ALWAYS SAYS HE’S NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP N ETC I THOUGHT THAT HE WAS NOT THE WHORISH TYPE BUT I KNOW HE’S VERY SEXY N ALOT OF GIRLS NOTICE HIM BECAUSE HE IS SO LAID BAC IVE BEEN TRYIN TO FIGURE OUT WHAT SHOULD I DO TO GET HIM TO OPEN UP TO ME BECAUSE I REALLY FEEL LIKE GIVIN UP I KNOW IM NOT UGLY HE EVEN GETS MAD WHEN HIS FRIENDS LOOK AT ME… AT FIRST EVERYTHING WAS COOL BUT SEEMS LIKE HE’S GETTIN DISTANTER EVERYDAY NO CALLS NO TEXTS SOMETIMES EVEN NO ANSWER I RIDE BY HIS HOUSE WHERE I USED TO B ALMOST EVERYNIGHT N IM STARTIN TO C A DIFFERENT CAR EVRYNIGHT N I JUS CANT TAKE IT IM NOT COMMITTED TO HIM NEITHER IS HE TO ME BUT I STILL CANT SEM TO GET HIM OFF MY MIND N EVEN WHEN I DO TRY TO FIND MY ANOTHER FRIEND I CAN NEVER GET HIM OFF MY MIND N I NEVER LIKE THE FRIEND BUT THEY ALWAYS LIKE ME I JUS DNT KNOW WHAT TO DO ITS LIKE WHEN WE ARE TOGETHER EVERYTHING IS COOL I FORGET ABOUT THE THINGS THATS HAPPENED OR HOW I FELT LIKE HE IGNORED ME BECAUSE I JUS LOVE EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM FROM HIS SMELL TO HIS LOOKS EVEN HOW HE LOOKS WHEN HE’S ASLEEP I JUS PRAY THAT HE A SEE THAT I REALLY DO LOVE HIM BUT I KNOW I CANT CHANGE NE ONE EVEN THO I ALWAYS PUT MY INPUT N ON ME LOVIN HIM BUT I FEEL LIKE IM PUSHIN HIM AWAY SEEMS LIKE EVRY ONCE N A BLUE MOON HE TELLS ME HE LOVES ME THEN IM LIK WELL Y CANT WE B TOGETHER IN ITS ALWAYS BECAUSE HE DOESNT WANT A GIRLFRIEND IM 23 HE’S 32 HOW CAN I KNOW WHAT I WANT BUT U NOT WANT A STABLE RELATIONSHIP CAUSE IF HE ASKS ME IM RREEEAAADDDYYY!!!!! I KNOW HE MESSES WITH OTHER WOMEN I JUS HOPE I STAND OUT TO HIM THE MOST NE THING HE ASKS ME TO DO I DO IT DAMMMM IM LOVE STRUCK OR STUPID ONE (BUT ONLY BY CHOICE)
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To give you Lionesses some insight into a Virgo males mind is this… We are completely oblivious to a womans desire for us until it is made known. Perfect example in regards to the Leo female I now have an interest in. My cousin and I met her at the same time, although she approached me first, we talked like we had known each other for years. Sadly though she ended up giving my cousin her number so I withdrew my interest. Her and my cousin dated for a few months and we became fast friends. When the relationship ended she confessed her feelings towards me. I asked her why she didn’t just give me her number instead of to my cousin. She simply said because I didn’t seem interested in her and failed to notice her advances. I was dumb founded. I could not recall any advance on her part. Needless to say our relationship has blossomed into something unexpected. If your Virgo man seems distant, it’s not because he doesn’t like you. Chances are he has so much on his mind that he is only trying to process it all without worrying you about it. We tend to solve our problems in silence. Rest assured that once he figures things out he will be back to his normal self. If your Virgo man seems like a flirt, forgive him for he does not do it intentionally. It’s just the way we are. We are full of charisma, charm, a sense of humor unlike any other sign, which to others comes of as seduction and flirtation, when to us it is simply making friends. Trust me if you already have yourself a Virgo male he has already seduced the one he wants… You. And one more thing, never doubt his love for you for it is a love that will burn bright through even the darkest of nights. If he did not want to be with you trust me he would not be.
My trip did not go as planned because he(virgo) called the day before and said, “this will not be a good weekend” I was disappointed but I told him, “I am still going to make my trip and just do other things”. He got upset and didn’t think that was a good idea and voiced his concern of how could I turn a trip for him into a social outting.
So when I made it out there he decides that he will make time for me but I ignored his attempts. I have talked to since then but I feel as though we’re losing our connection.
I have been with my Virgo guy for nearly half a year now, I’m only 19 and he’s only 20. We’ve never had anyone else so we’re each other’s first in everything. We’ve known each other since High School and the way that we “met again” was very Hollywood. He is the most amazing person I have ever met. I totally agree with your comment Kate. What you said describes our relationship to a T! I’m the Leo girl and the reason I’ve never had a boyfriend is not only because I’m a romantic but also because nobody has impressed me enough, whilst he just jumped into my life and fascinated me from the start. We have no problems whatsoever and all our friends get mad because they say our relationship is so easy. To he and I we have found a partner for life, we’ve even talked about our future together, marriage, kids etc and we love each other very much. He and I have the same “issue” as you and your partner Kate. I go through stages and he always over-worries and gets panicky because I won’t open up to him, but I am learning to do it more and more and I find that the issue is actually that he cares too much at times… so maybe you’ll find that too 🙂
Hey Guys,
I am in a relationship with my guy for 4 .5 years now and last 1 year it has been a long distance relationship. I just had a fight with him but I will still try to keep my opinion unbiased. I feel Virgos are cute and toooooooooooooooooooooooooo straight foward which we ( leo women) don’t like. They don’t know how to flatter, are mostly inattentive to what we say. They don’t like being questioned and don’t question us too much. I hate this part coz I want to be as transparent as I can in my relationship. I just wish he understands that I don’t question him because I doubt him but its a routine procedure for us leos to know what our men are doing. cheers..have a nice and a healthy relationship :P)
Hi Nancy, I’m a leo woman who had a quick fling with a virgo who’s a few years younger than me (he seemed to like that!); he was the first person who managed to lure me away from self-imposed celibacy two years after the breakdown of my marriage, that’s how hot he is :), well, he has now left the country but I will be going to somewhere in his vicinity next month and really want to see him again, even if just once. We are in touch but losing contact (no much to talk about as we don’t know each other that well) but I really want to rekindle his interest and meet up briefly next month. What can i do to make him desperate to see me?! 🙂
IM A VIRGO MAN AND IVE BEEN WITH MY LEO PARTNER FOR ALMOST 4 YEARS,WE KNOWN EACH OTHER FOR 10 YEARS,AND I ALWAYS HAD A CRUSH ON HER,WE GOT TOGETHER AND AT FIRST EVERYTHING WAS GOOD,A FEW MONTHS THINGS GOT A LIL SHAKY AND LET ME CLEAR SOMETHING UP,IM NOT A FLIRT ITS THE OPPOSITE SHE IS VERY FLIRTATIOUS AND I DIDNT LIKE IT,YES IM HIGHLY JEALOUS OF HER,BUT I LOVE HER,SHE GETS MAD AT ME BECAUSE I DONT TELL HER WHATS GOING ON,ONLY BECAUSE SHE’S FLIRTY,BUT THATS MY DOWNFALL BECAUSE LEO’S HOLD GRUDGES AND THEY ARE VERY SPITEFUL, BUT OUR PROBLEM IS COMMUNICATION AND I PRAY WE CAN WORK ON THAT,TO ALL U PPL JUDGING US VIRGOS STOP IT,YOU ONLY KNOW I WANT YOU TO HEAR,YOU ONLY SEE WHAT I WANNA SHOW,BUT WE WORKING ON OUR ISSUES.(TO YA LEO’S STOP BEING SARCASTIC THATS HIGHLY UNATTRACTIVE)
haha.. I don’t agree with this at all. I am a LEO and I have dated 3 virgo men, and I know to never to do that again. I ended all 3 relationships for the same reasons, WAY too cheap (leos do not like cheap ass people, money comes and goes DEAL with it) WAY to anal, (i’m a little OCD as well but DAMN) thinks with their head, instead of looking at the big picture only pays attention to small details and not loyal at all. Leos will flirt but we are loyal people who will stand by you, until you do US wrong. I’m definitely flirtatious, but I will not sleep with someone who ISN’T my boyfriend and all 3 of them cheated on me.
I have never read anywhere that Virgos and Leos are good matches except for here, that includes all my books and sites I have been looking at so this really threw me off
I thank you all for your comments. I met this guy on match last Thursday night after talking a few lines and I drove 2 hours to have him cook me a steak.
I went back again last night only to spend the night and we had a blast. I was so worried because of his silence.
I am so open and he is so cautious. I do think we will be together forether. I have no doubt. I am 45 on the 13 and he is 51 today on 28th. I saved this site and will let you know. I see nothing but bliss…Good luck everyone
Don’t judge because of past relationships… not everyone is born under the sign are the same… keep your options open.
Virgos and Leos are loyal… I think that is a plus if you have an open mind.
Ok I need some help. I was dating a virgo man and I am a leo woman. Everything was going really well. He started acting more quite and distant than usual. He finally tells me what is going on and that he needs some space and time to figure it out. Now I am sympathetic to the issue and understand why he would need some space but I am not a patient person.
Anyway he has stopped communicating all together. I finally talked to him last week and he said he didnt have feelings for me very bluntly only after I pushed into it.
The problem is his actions before the shut down were of someone who defianetly has feelings. Is just being a jerk? Also I stold him to come pick up his stuff and he still hasnt. I need some insight I really liked/loved how i felt when I was with this virgo male.
@chris
They are sometimes so timid, especially facing a Leo, that they avoid stuff. Let him go and don’t look back. You need someone stronger.
Letting go is easier said than done. My question is do they say things to hurt you when their backs are against the wall?
I am a leo woman and the relationship was exactly the way described above. He found that “slave drive” and used it to the very last drop. There were alot of other factors that brought us to divorce and it ended as a business like manner. Problem is that even though the marriage was awful and seemed to me to be a complete sham, I can’t help but feel a strong connection to him. I think about giving it another chance but you know leos once their pride has been crushed!
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I am a Leo female and I’m engaged to a Virgo, and I. Love him so so much, we have or ups and Downs but at the end of the day where loyal and we respect each other. We been together for 6 years I’m 23 and hes 30 and its like. We fall in love with each other more and. More everyday! I’m his Queen and his my king. He makes being in love feel like a dream come true…
So recently I met a Virgo man, late August. It was special how we met. I’ll try to make this short. He was interested, I was interested, I asked him out the next day because when I met him and talked to him for like, less than 5 minutes, something told me when I got home that night that I had to see him again.
So I asked him out. He was shocked but said yes, we hung out that night all night talking, from 930-2AM! We didnt want the night to end, but when I finally caved because we both had to work the next day…..he walked me out to my car, and we kissed…..small kisses….twice…nothing crazy….but it was so dreamy!!!!!!!
We clicked! We couldn’t stop talking. He was from out of town visiting for business. As he usually does. We had met briefly before (at the gym), but never talked. So it was just this one time that was meant to be I guess. The next day was the Friday he was to leave to go back home, and even though we had like, 2 hours of sleep, he texted me and asked me out to lunch before he left. I took half a day, I was so excited! We had sushi for lunch, and it was more getting to know each other, talk about expectations, etc. Then he left (didn’t want to kiss me in public, thats his Virgo side coming out), but I still got a small “awkward” kiss and a hug before we parted. LOL. I knew it would be awkward…he can’t help it.
We’ve been talking since then.
***I should mention this imprtant piece….that when we were out on our first date…the question came up on if we were seeing anyone….and he hesitated and said it was at the end of something. So I didn’t pry. And we contoinued to talk.
Two weeks into our talking, he got cold feet and got scared and called me on my lunch hour and basically told me he had done the long distance thing before a fedw times and it never worked out because of the girl….we talked about it for 30 minutes, and he still wanted to talk to me when I fgot off work. When I got off work, he called me right on the dot…and we talked for an hour about it…and he was basically worried to hurt my feelings…and knew I didn’t like to waste time in relationships…but I assured him that there are no obligations, but he can do whatever he wants and makes him feel good and happy. In the end…he was like WOW, you are soo cool about this. Can I still call you, I still want to talk to you….I was like, SURE!
He’s 31(Virgo Sept 11) and I am 30 (Leo Aug 1st). I’ve dated enough now to understand that it will always be difficult to NOT pursue and not call and whatnot….men are hard to read. But I also know that I love being independant, I love being a hard working single, beautiful, woman. No baggage. Never been engaged or married. Ive had a lot of chasers….I am just ready to settle down. Ive gotten to the point now where I feel emotionally ready to be with the right man. And I felt like I found that man!
So fast forward to now (lots of texting, sexting, pictures, calling at work, etc.)….to LAST NIGHT. We share songs all the time, and I told him about this song “Hello Again” from Neil Diamond…and while the lovie dovie stuff is a bit too deep for a relationship/frie4ndship as young as ours, the rest of the lyrics were right on. I enjoy feeling the casual, easy-going, comfortable way he makes me feel. No pressure from either side. And he continues to pursue. While he liked the song, he then sent me a text saying ” I dont want to be a downer here, but what if one of us were to be involved with somoene, would we still talk to each other?”
I was alittle surprised…..I was emotionally prepared.. not shocked….but surprised….and I responded by saying, sure, of course….is this you telling me your involved with someone? And he then said in a LONG text that he reminded me of the time he said he was in the back end of a relationship that ended, he thought it was over but looks like they are going to try again, and he didnt want to hurt me…he loves all the conversations we have and would still like to see me when hes in town again if I’ll let him.
I said I understood. And that it was good that he was trying to work things out with her (again, I dont ask for details…dont know where in his state he lives, because I know Virgos can be very private), and thank you for being upfront..hes not hurting me in any way! oNe can never have too many friends, of course. For what its worth, before you told me, I felt like I finally found man that stood out from the rest..and I still feel that way even now. Of course we’ll have to get together whenever you come back out…Sorry if the song was too much…poor choice of songs to share 😉
From that text, he couldnt just end it there. So he CALLED. At 1030PM. And we talked until 400AM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It went from talking about our beliefs…and he wants to still talk and see me…and I could tell he was nervous about telling me the details of the drama and what the situation was…but I didn’t pry. And he felt good about that. And kept saying eventually and slowly he;ll feed me his “skeletons” one at a time. Cell phones dying..both on the floor with phones plugged in….your classic scenerio here loL! And then getting into some sexy dirty talk…flirty…asking more intimate questions about each other. It basically turned into another date night of questions, as if nothing was wrong to begin with!
Finally at 4AM we ended the call.
Obviously no one on here knows me, but my main concern isw that knowing my situation with men right now (I can’t get them away from me, its annoying,,.,,Im not your usual Leo female….the attention is nice for the confidnece….but sucks when it feels more like a curse)….I dont want to be his “fantasy”, his girl that he thinks he can never have…the girl with the nice brain, beautiful personality, beautiful facve and body (ugh…this is the curse part)….but then he has this situation right now, where there is “history”….and I can’t figure that part out because hes not ready to tell me the details, Im not going to pry….
BUT GOSH DARNIT,…..I thought I found the RIGHT ONE for me….and he was pissed too…..he was like, why could we meet years ago?! And I was like, well, everything happens for a reason! The whens, the wheres, the Hows, it all happens for a reason. And we can’t change our mistakes if we happen to have made them.
I just dont know what to do with this man. I understnad how he works now. But this situation, and knowing how some virgos over think things. He said he just can’t figure out his feelings, they are all over the place right now. I told him maybe he needs to get away and we shouldn’t talk for a while so he can figure it out the RIGHT way,. Sometimes yo9u need that to clear your head.
I just am so tired of being mens fantasies…a body to crave, a pretty face. And while I know I am more than that to him, this situation he has an him wanting to still talk to me makes me feel like he doesn’t want to lose me…keep me on the back burner…in case it doesn’t work out (again) with her….etc. You guys know what I am talking about. You Leo gals. Trtaditional or non-traditional Leo females out there with a Virgo man that is LOST…what would you say or do in this situation?????
SORRY SO LONG!!!
A
After 10 years i’m so curious to know what happened?
I’m leo woman having similar situation in 2020
I have a crush on a virgo male but I had a hard time admitting it sense I wasn’t sure he liked me. I am NOT open for rejection. I only started liking him after I kept catching him looking. All the girls in my school wont believe that he likes me because he is HOT. His b day is september 18 and i almost died when i found out that hes a virgo. I couldnt help but liking him though, virgos arent soooo bad. My sisters one. SP
Hello my fellow Lionesses and Nancy,
I met my virgo in June..it’s been mind blowing…. just fireworks everyday to such an extent that we are planning a future together.
He’s very conservative and shy….and I’m the complete opposite but in some odd way we balance each other out. He adores me….and that makes me want him even more.
Although he’s shy somehow my wildness, craziness is rubbing off on him….lol
When it comes to decision-making he wants to take time out to process and analyze everything and I understand that sometimes we have to slow down and look at the pros and cons so I respect that about him amongst other things.
As Leos I’ve noticed that if we want something we would do anything to get it but we are never desperate .
He keeps me grounded in a way I suppose….!
I’m dangerously in love with my superman….and fortunately for me he feels exactly the same.
Thank you Nancy!
Well It Started in 9th Grade When I met this Virgo at first he was just cute to me but it seems like every year I fall harder for him and he confuses the hell out of me he sometimes he be all over me then the other times. He acts as though he doesn’t know I exists….
WOW…where to begin!?!?!? Okay I am a leo woman and after not really searching I met the virgo man of my dreams! I have been in a long relationship with a sagitarrius that worked out at first as a boyfriend/girlfriend thing but after 2 years in a marriage and a baby together, things went down the drain. I think the problem with Sag. men is that they make horrible husbands but if you want to be in a non commited relationship with them, then it works out. Sag. men just need lots of space and like I said arent husband material…anyways I met my “superman” through a mutual friend, and im really into the whole Zodiac compatibility thing so when I found out he was a virgo I was kind of skeptical…Ive never dated a virgo man but my sister is a virgo and 99% of the time were at each others throats…But yeah SPARKS flew from the very first converstion! WE were in love with each other after the very first week..and weve only had hours and hours of phone conversations and weve never met in person. His whole family knows about me and he treats me very special. Us leos need constant ego stroking and boy does this man know how to do it! He is so work and family oriented and I love that about him…hes truly everything I couldve asked for. As for our sexual compatibility, I have no doubt in my mind that he will satisfy me. To fall in love with someone youve never seen before-I mean imagine what it will be like once we finally…you know! I swear i think this is the man I will be with forever he just melts all my problems away. I thank God for him everyday. And guys everyone is different. The sign compatability thing works to an extent but honestly its all about what you put out and what you expect in return.
As another said, this is the first sight that actually gives promise to Virgo/Leo.
As a Virgo man, I was with a Leo for four years, off and on. As mentioned, she had to ask me out because I was to shy to ask someone out who was over 20 years younger than myself! She was a incredible woman, but I didn’t have that “project” to satisfy the drive she had. She now is with a guy who is opening a business and they are getting married. Had I got my s**t together sooner, we would probably still be together. This website it totally accurate on most stuff and has opened my eyes to Aquarius and Libra, which other sites say just won’t work. Of course, everybody knows about Virgo/Capricorn! Happy New Year to all!
“Action should culminate in wisdom.”
-on Wisdom
“On this path effort never goes to waste, and there is no failure. Even a little effort toward spiritual awareness will protect you from the greatest fear.”
-on Failure
“The disunited mind is far from wise; how can it meditate? How be it at peace? When you know no peace, how can you know joy?”
-on Meditation
“The senses have been conditioned by attraction to the pleasant and aversion to the unpleasant: a man should not be ruled by them; they are obstacles in his path.”
-on Obstacles
“You have a right to perform your prescribed duty, but you are not entitled to the fruits of action. Never consider yourself the cause of the results of your activities, and never be attached to not doing your duty.”
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“I look upon all creatures equally; none are less dear to Me and none more dear. But those who worship me with love live in Me, and I come to life in them.”
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You hit the nail on the head sister. I am a leo female. I seem to have this crazy force that attracts virgos to me. They are very shy, but I think it is sort of adorable when they get all flustered.
It was the death of me, because it always turns into a major headache , that lasts way too long. Nearly all of my serious relationships have been virgos, and i really hadnt thought about until recently, which is why I would never do it again.
They are usually realy smart , and charming, but so secretive , and ANAL, god are they anal. I am pretty easy going, and i just couldnt take all the little criticisms , over the most minuet things, but i cared too much and dealt with it for too long, nearly every time. Virgos just bring us fun loving leos down
Yeah whatever !!! I’m no superman but I am a virgo male , and in that sense we tend to be critical but if you take the time to see things for what it is you’d overstand . You see if a virgo man is with you he must see something in you that’s different than most women and in most cases at least for me it’s intelligence . When someone does something dumb or worst say something dumber it pisses us off cause we look at you as an intelligent person that does or says stupid things . But to wrap this up theres the old saying some people mistakes kindness for weakness virgo’s usually knows if there spouse/mate is being unfaithful but they’ll never say anything we’ll just react by reckless talking to beat you up with words or indirect actions cause alot of women cheat but don’t even realize what they are doing an we’re experts at reading body language so just because we never told you that we knew about the ex you still keep in contact with or the onenight stand you had a few weeks/months/years or lies you tell and etc doesn’t means we don’t know so we react in cruel or supposed unjust ways thanks for reading…
I am 29 and a Leo, my husband is a virgo and we have been married 1.5 years and together for 6. My marriage is so boring, all he does is makes plans to do things all the time. We have nothing to talk about, don’t have sex and I am repulsed by him. The only thing he cares about is money and talking about doing stuff together which never happens. Oh and he is obsessed about my weight and what choice of clothes I wear. I hope to get the courage to get out of this soon, I feel like I am being suffocated daily!!
Hi, my boyfriend was born on sept27 but since theres that new zodiac.. hes a virgo now but he was a libra before, idk which one to read :S but he seems more like a virgo to me when hes sweet and all but then again, he says he loves me and we hung out a lot. He tells me how his exgirlfriend was clingy and didn’t give him space at all, to do his own thing. So now that I’m in a relationship with him, i give him lots of space so he wouldn’t leave me but, I sometimes feel lonely and get jealous because hes hanging out with other women when I’m giving him “space” .. When he does talk to me hes like the sweetest thing ever but then he gets his space again and i feel so left out.. help? is this good?
Im a Leo woman (35 years old) who think I am falling for a Virgo man.. I have recently (4 months ago) come out of a relationship of 12 years with a Sagittarius man who was very difficult, ups and downs and a lot of coldness. During the relationship with my x, I had been puzzled about this Virgo man coming on to me.
He’s a good friend of some friends of mine and he is 17 years older than me. We have had some very intimate chats the last month but I know he has a relationship with a woman (hasn’t been going on for very long, they don’t live together) and he lives on the other side of the world, far, far away from me. I think he is really into me and we share very deep conversations, extensive flirting and revelations, especially the last time we chatted. Now to my problem! I know I have no patience what so ever, but now, he hasn’t contacted me for 2 days, and I really want to make contact but I don’t know if I should. As I am a “go getter” and can probably come on strong if I get in the mood I want to control myself not to scare him away. I am not really sure if he feels the same way as I do, as he older, more experienced and a very “worldly” man so he might not put as much thought into this as I do, he also no doubt has many, many female friends although he claims he doesn’t share the same intimacy with then as he has done with me… What do I do? Wait? Make contact? Forget about him?
i’m a leo woman dating a virgo man and let me tell you this is a difficult relationship. I’ve dated my man for a year and 2 months. But wow this relationship takes work. As leo woman we are seductive and charming without noticing we are doing it. We demand attention as soon as we speak or walk into the room. But virgos are very reserved. Some exceptions. But they are not social butterflies like us. They dont find the need to have multiple friends.
I love my bf soooooo much. But there are two major issues we have. 1) his jealousy. He is a very very jealous sign. And 2) how they over analyze everything. Everything i say or do, its constantly critiqued.
But on a positive note i never loved a soul more than him. I think virgo’s and leo’s are good matches. Bc virgos keep us guessing, they are a huge challenge. they distance themselves and put up walls and make us WORK to tear them down. Something we are not used to.
What really is comment #43 saying?
Well I’m a Leo female, truth is Virgos are secretive ppl can’t be trusted, they want honesty in don’t give it. If they can charm a Leo CMON, their good. Maybe a waste!
I’m a Leo lady. My ex-BF of 4 years is a Virgo. This took alot of self-displine on my side, so much that i had wondered if it’s worth it. There’s alot of simple simple things that he does NOT do that should be within a love relationship-it’s the exact reason why i hesitate to say it’s a good match because for him, what i expect is over the top. Yes, he is very jealous as i am but about different sides of stories that are complete opposite that i conclude on many other factors, make us very different people.
How is it that we’ve somehow connected?
…Enhances sense of dignity, this article exlpain is accurate but it won’t go far if my virgo man neglects me because he’s a very responsible indivdual of his own agenda. Him being detail-oriented is a only a plus for him because i seriously say he only does small things like picking up after some else due to his own creed and it’s true, that’s why he criticizes, and in the big picture, is very narrow-minded. Selfish in my eyes as i am too, to him in my ways.
Awwww….It’s only as good as it gets. Me being the leo, I feel like i’ve relied on things that are nothing but lost causes.
Sex is satasfying, as if that’s the only reason.
hey whats goin on Lioness’s [Lol] I’m a Virgo Male [19] and i met my Leo[also 19] this past September. it was an amazing instant connection we went out all the time, spent almost every moment with eachother things were just goin beautifully! but she lost her job in January and shes not in school at the moment. i could tell that something was wrong with her but she would never open up to me about what it was. my cars recently broken down and i cant see her as often as i would like to. and on top of that she recently told me she doesnt wanna be in a relationship anymore[ it was like a week ago]. now i’ve been thrown into weird space bcuz she still talks to me and she still would’nt mind hangin out with me. but when we talk on the phone its like sometimes we can hold up a conversation but other times its like she has nothing to say. i would also like to add that she was totally in love with me even up until the last time we saw eachother [she tried on dresses for me =)]. when i get my car fixed i’m thinking about seeing her but i dont kno if she even likes me anymore what should i do.???
I am a Leo female (8/21) and I’m so in love with a wonderful, yet mysterious Virgo man (9/11). We have been “friends” and spending a lot of time with each other since 11/2010. In that short time, I’ve learned more about him than in the 5 years we’ve known each other. I really believe he cares about me more than a friend but he’s taking his time commiting, which is fine with me. I sometimes wonder if he will ever commit, being that I am a little impatient but I have been very patient with him. Recently, I expressed my feelings for him since I could no longer contain them. So far, I haven’t heard from him but it’s only been 24 hours. I hope he’s just trying to absorb what I told him. I’m giving him his time and space so he can sort the info out in his mind. This man is so mysterious but that is one quality that I love about him. He keeps me guessing. LOL. Anyway, I have never in all my years met a man like him. He is and has been a wonderful, caring friend and the more I get to know him, the deeper my feelings are for him. I just don’t want to scare him off because I don’t ever want to lose him. I truly believe he’s my soulmate. We have definitely bonded with each other and he has expressed his feelings in a sutle way. He is such a sweetheart, yet he can be a bit critical at times. I just laugh it off ’cause I know he’s only fussing because he cares. Love my Virgo man. Any comments/suggestions are much appreciated. Thank you.
Hi there! I’m a leo girl =) Sometimes us leos get so prideful we forget to ask for help. We don’t like the idea that we could be on the level of peasents (sarcastic tone here of course). What I mean is, she might feel so bad about her situation, she is too afraid that it demeans her character in some way. THEN, you lose your car? NOW the relationship has also taken a “down” turn. If you somehow manage to follow through with you car and can encourage her and find practical ways to help her fix her predicament, she’ll not only think you’re a knight, but she’ll love that you are that strong. But word to the wise, don’t be bossy with suggestions. Stories and enthusiasm about possibilities work best at getting a Leo girl’s attention. Remember, she secretly wants to be dominated… she just doesn’t want to be tamed 😉 hope that helps! oh, and compliment her genuinely for all the good stuff she still has goin on… it’ll give her a boost!
Yea, so I’m a Virgo man.. and its been about a month and a half since I’ve met my Lioness… SO far, everything has been perfect.. Like my friend Cory, she’s in a bit of a situation where she’s hurting.. (baby dad drama..money..etc) Anyways, we’ve been going out everyweekend and having a good time. I have to admit, when she’s around me, and i’m lost for words.. It wasn’t til this weekend, where I came out and told her that I was falling in love with her. NOW, her reaction was as I expected, She didn’t say I love you, nor did she reject my words. SHe simply started tearing up, and hugged me tight.. BUT i know about the stuff going on in her life, She has a kid ok,? SO thats like 100 times the pressure, and dealing with the kids dad. SO what I do is I sweet talk her, I make her feel at ease, and stress free.. I’m a HUGE beleiver in CHIVALRY!!! SO yea, I’m pretty much in love with her.. I just have to find ways of expressing myself, while not drowning her.. So I guess what I’m trying to say is that I really want to win her heart.. 🙂 Hmmm
🙂 I have 2 guys friends who are both Virgo’s one makes me get butterflies lol But the main one is my best friend but we’re always flirting. We have great communication- I never been able to talk with a guy for so long and never run out of nothing to talk about :] , and im completely comfortable with him .I dont know If I should even consider dating because I would NEVER want to loose him as my best friend 🙁 I LoVE him but im not sure if i love him as a friend or more yet xP
i don’t know what should i do,because of being prideful of my Leo woman…if she wouldn’t change it, i think I’m gonna leave her…
but for me, being a Virgo man too much hiding on what is real makes me feel so bad although it doesn’t mean that it ends up. but the trust that i gave to someone will might be fall.. or it might be even disappear..
what matter most….as long as it matter! virgo man and leo woman must be in the air.
I’m a Leo woman & i have been with a Virgo man… our relationship started w/ so much trials from his family… yet we manage to be together… he left his family for me and they kick him out of school… for month i told him to work even if it had to be far… then last time he told me he’ll be working away from me… what i only ask for him is communication though may not be always cause i know he’ll be busy… but he didn’t promise also he said his not sure to come see me on my birth day this 27… now it’s been 10 days I haven’t heard anything from him & i don’t know if he still cares for me…he only promise to comeback after my studies but that will be on Sept… and don’t know what to do or should i still wait for him… cause this Virgo man of mine always keep things himself & wont share it to me…
awww… it’s hard to be a Leo woman… cause i want things to be detailed but Virgo man are so damn secretive… keeping all to himself… WTH does he think, I’m a mind reader? LoL
now I’ m trying to live my life again like I’ve never met him.. but still waiting if he’ll keep his promise… or else all the hard work will be for nothing.
I’m not sure how to bring this message in this lions nest, but I dated a Leo a few months ago and I was stunned by her overwhelming passion towards me. I got scared and ran away. She checked my email, sms, phone calls as it was something normal to do. When I brought this up to her, she replied; you can check and read my stuff as well. Pretty strange isn’t it? I really need my space and privacy, something my Leo apparently doesn’t need at all. Sad but true I do mis her as for everything else she was so nice to me (and still is).
I’m a leo-woman(8/4) and i’ve met my virgo-man(9/6) a long time ago from clubbing events coz he’s an eventmanager. Anyways, it was just this april at a friends party (and before that we just saw each other at friends’ bday parties and he told me recently that he didnt really knew my name and just knew me from seeing) that we exchanged our phone nr. because of an old woman who wants to treat us free meal from mcdonalds and pointed at me to go on a date with him. Was supposed to be a joke, but after that party, I started to get drunk and a leo-woman, we prone to get flirty at such times ..and he took me with him doing his businesses at clubs for the next events and we went clubhopping. I was soo drunk I guess, that I asked him the whole night to kiss me. But he just had this huge smirk, and i was wondering wth why he wouldnt kiss me.. So nothing happened that night, but he was such a gentleman and brought me home afterwards.
I apologized the next day and told him I hope i wasnt that pushy and that I was really embarassed and everything and he said it was fine and that he hoped that i didnt find him stressful. So yeah, he started to write if we should meet up and I was the one always cancelling coz it reminded me everytime about that night haha!
After a couple of sincere sms of him, we finally meet up.. and went out that night again. That night, he didnt let go of my hand, always guiding me coz of my high heels. I guess thats just the Virgo-man style, theyre really gentlemen. And then after a couple of laughing moments at a friends houseparty, we were at the terrace and he was lying on that folding bed, and it was fullmoon and cloudy and we started to guess the form of the clouds and then.. I cant remember who kissed who but it was sooo passionate and so I guess he decided to do it after thinking bout it for a long time haha!
I always feel he cares for me, .. asks me if i’m hungry, gets me water at midnight if i’m thirsty,.. But there are those days I feel like he just wants somebody near him, and not really because he likes me. Just simply because he doesnt wants to be alone. We’ve been sleeping in the same bed, but most of the time, I sleep first coz he has still lots of work to do, and hugging is sometimes hard, coz he doesnt hug back … or kiss me, forget about cuddling..
He has though other ways of showing he cares. Though two months ago, we talked and we didnt really want to be in a relationship coz he just broke up with his gf this april and i just broke up with my bf last december. But that was two months ago… We see each other everyday but I still dont know if we are in a relationship. I want to ask him, but i’m scared that i’ll get an answer thatll hurt me.
Today is my birthday. And he asked me yesterday what are my plans for today, and since i had to work at 3pm, he suggested we should eat lunch before i go to work. And that I can choose any restaurant I want to go.. I guess his style of showing he cares goes on through material things. Buying me shoes, dinner, and such stuffs. But we do love that Lionesses.. right? 😉 Still, we want to be hugged and kissed and loved most of the times….
I do like him.. or should i say, i’m literally falling in love with him…and thats why when i’m with him, i’m patient, soo generous, and always calm. Good thing right? But I want a real relationship where I could say hes my boyfriend and that I’m his girlfriend.. But I guess it’ll take time before I get to start a conversation like that with him..
we’ll see what will happen in a couple of months…
PLSSSS update i wanna know what happens
sadly i hv no virgo experience so i cant advice but i certainly can relate to the feeling
it was with a gemini “eye rolling”
just becarful cause i think we sometimes want things that doesnt want us more than anything else
i’m in heaven.
I was supposed to meet my girlfriend after my work, but she didnt show up. hardcore. Waited for her for 2hours!! on my birthday!! But it figured out that she left her cellphone at home. Anyways, my virgo guy called me at 22:10 asking what I am doing. Told him what happend and that I’m alone for two hours already. Sooooo sweet of him asking me to go out with him, and that he has some errands to do so.. (as an event manager i supposed scattering some flyers or something)..
So we went out.. as a virgo guy, theyre not really party people.. thats what i noticed the past few times that we went out, he couldnt really stay at one place, always walking upfront and behind… thats what told me after the 2nd club around.So the first club we went to, 15mins..went to the next club.. then the nxt.. then the next… as for me, leoness, i was loving it!!! clubhopping is the best!!! fastforward,.. after the 4rth club, I told him .. “hey you dont have to do this bec. its my bday” and he was like “oh really? you shouldve told me before!” ..telling the taxi driver to bring us home.
I didnt really wanted to go home yet, so i told him to go somewhere else. 5th club. So we saw a club, playing some good rock music and that always amazes me that he knows basically everybody!! hi hello there, those guys starting to tease me like asking him …” is she your woman?” and was amazed when he told them ” yeah she’s my woman” (goosebumps but still on poise LOL) then went inside.. So they asked me “is that true?is he your man?” and i was like.. “hmm… YEAH!” hahaha!
we went inside… asked me what i wanted to drink.. i said caipirinha. got it. wanted to have water. got it. Almost everything that i wanted to do this day, he just did everything what i wanted! I was in heaven. And falling in love more and more and more….. And then he left, went outside. And i just danced all by myself, no big deal, i liked the music anyway… He came back,.. me still dancing..then he just came up to me like.. ” hey look what i got here!” …and I was shocked (but of course subtley) looked at him and then I told him.. “whats these?” (smirk on the face).. I just got 3 red roses!!!!!! to be continued….(I’m sooo tired people.. am gonna sleep now..)
Happy Happy Joy Joy,
I am a leo woman 8/15, i met my virgo man 9/14 over the internet jan 2011. We IM for the first few months with light and courtious conversation. Always sweet and polite. Some days we IM more than others. Finally I gave him my num about 3 mos in. The only time we would talk would be if he called me or he would call me from his place of work. I could not comprehend this but I liked his vibe so began to meet for dinner, bowling, etc. Very cheviours, handsome, positive and smart mouthed (lol), like the saying ” a lil salt and sugar”. Notheless i was impressed with how committed he was to his work and how he really made time to visit wit me. But I couldn’t understand why he had my num but didn’t want to give me his. After me giving him my num twice and he asked for it again I said no! I must not have been important enough for him to keep up wit it and demmed him too busy for me and decided to stop talking to him. Then around the first of March i contacted him, since i was n his city which is about 30 min form me, and tried to get him to come to a party. He didn’t come, but to my surprise he expressed he was glad i contacted him and that he would try harder at getting to know this “true lioness” and finally gave me hisss num in May 2011. We spent more time, he met some family and friends, including my dad and everthing seemed to flow great and he began to let his guard down. Then first of july we went to the beach, first time really spending some quality time together, but he made me hurt myself badly by being “chevorious”. 5 inch scar on the back of my leg. He felt so bad, i could see it on his face but i thought it was endearing and just keep the day positive wit blood running down my leg. I believe that accident overwhelmed him and he RAN, said he wasn’t ready for a commitment and he was sorry…I was stunned and outdone. A week went by he contacted me but i ingnored him. A week after i contacted him explaining i just need some time and i don’t hold grudges. From that he expressed how he feel for me the first day we met, how he didn’t want to lose me, how he cared and wanted to do things for and wit me, that he found what he been looking for his whole life but he got in his own way as usual. Now we’re into Aug, he just came to visit at my home for the first time, met one of my 2 daughters and other fam. Yet still, i havn’t met anyone n his circle, we’ve never been together past 7pm, we may c eachother once a week, IM more than we talk on the phone, i’ve never been to his spot, i wake up wanting to talk to him but i don’t get any communication until later in the evening. Everthing seems genuin, but moving at a slow pace, but I’m being patient. He said he’s just taking his time and does’t think he doing the things he should for him to be “my man”. I just don’t want my time to be wasted and my heart broke, but he could make me fall in love wit him once i feel he’s gotten out his own way. But at times i think he my b married or something, playing me….
what u all think?
@BETTY hope u have a great birthday. i see ur experiencing the same thing. Only thing that keeps me patient is that he truly may b worth the waite…We have time under our belt for seeing eachother for the last 7 mos. We still have a ways to go far as quality time and amounts of time. Bn n his world, spending the night together, eating at each others home, going to a movie. It seems he work soo much and i think he should be thinking about me during the day and communicate that but, i just WAITE.
(cont.) Thursday passed and I had to work on friday, it was kinda weird of him so suddenly showing me the cold shoulder after my work. I just couldnt understand. But I didnt say anything… Saturday I celebrated my birthday with friends at home but he couldnt come coz he was preparing for the event that night as well where he suggested me to come after and that all of my friends will get in for free, vip table and vodka. So sweet! Afterparty didnt turned out well, speaker at the party swas damaged and everyone were bored and i was soo embarassed so we went to another club and nobody were dancing and one by one, they decided to leave. I was so sad and had a lot of shots that night. And then suddenly at 5am, he just came and picked me up. Although I knew he’s gonna be so busy because of his event, so still showed up when everyone left. So guess he cares for me? 🙂 so sweet.
Sunday, hangover..He took a shot of me sleepin on couch and made it his wallpaper 😀 Anyways, aftera while, he told me hes gonna meet up a girl friend, (i havent seen her yet,) to ride the bicycle.. so I supposed he had a plan, then I called a girlfriend for us to meet up. Was that okay? I didnt think so coz when I dressed up to leave already, he asked me if I wanted to eat outside, being worried that i’ll go out all by myself.. but because I was a bout to meet my girlfriend, I told him that. And he was like “oh okay, i didnt know you had a plan already, then i’ll meet up with friends too”. I left and texted him after a couple of hours he should come and meet us adn that it was a misunderstanding coz I thought he had a plan already and thats why I planned somthing too. I was out for 7hours and called him i’m coming to his place. Then i lost my cellphone 🙁 After hearing that, he just went out to go to the police station. you know, he always surprises me.. I feel he cares, but I have to guess evrytime. I really like him… I think i’m falling for him already.. But as everyone is saying about Virgos, he’s such one.. And I’m scared I wont able to cope with that..
As of now, Monday, i’m in bed and he went out to meet his friends.. I kissed him on the cheeks, embraced him, smiled and told him to enjoy.. then that smirk of his again.. he likes it i guess when I kiss him, but he always hesitate kissing me.. I cant remember the last time he was the one who kissed me.. How can I bring him to kiss me? I havent been with a virgo before, but everyday with him is like an adventure already and i really like it… 😀
i’m so sorry this is sounding like a diary of my relationship with a virgo guy but I really wanna burse this out and I hope you can help me make it better ’cause i want this to work out..
🙂 betty
Im a leo girl and ive been with my virgo man for 3 years. I am very much in love with him but he is always suspicious of how much i love him, or more like how i always compliment and thank and verbally express gratitude for what he does. he is kinda insecure and it depresses me. we started fast in our relationship knowing eachother for no more than a week before dating, 6 months before moving in, and i loved getting to know him while also knowing he was mine and only mine 🙂 and in the long run i can sense our relationship will last forever. he was parentless @ 20 (when we met) and totally had this “the world shit on me so (F) the world i do what i want” bad boy attitude but he was depressed yet we had so many amazing adventures together. Though I fear that he was the “project” i was attracted to. We are far from organized, and live a very hecktic lifestyle, living paycheck to paycheck. which i think bothers him more than me. He is amazing and always makes me feel like a queen, always compliments me telling me how smart and beautiful i am, but when i try to return the favor suspision arouses in him and instantly were having a conversation on just how much do i really love him, and could i really be with him forever and then an mmm hhmm :/ after i just had to convince him he really is woth my time. he doesnt believe it, we always misunderstand eachother and it always turns into an argument and the only reason it esciladed so far is because he’s just trying to make me happy and he’s a piece of cras unworthy of me and im too irritable with him. which lately i really have been irritable with him because we have an argument like that at least 3 or 4 times a week and now i tell him to drope it before it gets worse… which in turn makes it worse. the last 6 months iv been depressed, have anxiety attacks, and developed acid reflux. I have always been 100% faithfull to him and i know he’s been to me too but lately i find myself being unfaithfull in my thinking and wanting to leave him but i dont want to hurt him and we have so much started with eachother, he wants to marry me and is always telling me this…. but i dont want to marry depression. but at the same time i feel like if i can just stick it through we could have an amazing life together. I dont know what to do or how to help him or how to show him i love him any more than i already do… im going crazy and could use some advice
@21 @22 – Take some spelling lessons or a decent type course. Find the right part of the website because I can’t believe you are a Virgo man. I don’t mean to be rude but try to be honest with you, so you can be honest to yourself.
Ok. I am a Leo (7/25) and I am married to a Virgo, who is 8 years older than I am. We have known each other for almost 2 years, been together for about 1 1/2 years, and we just got married about a month ago. At the beginning, he was incredibly affectionate, always telling me how beautiful my eyes are, how funny I was, how smart I was, etc. I went through a rough patch but he was there to pick me up again, and assure me that I wasnt a failure. He helped me put myself back together. Then he joined the military, and since then, he has been really distant. When we were apart, he got depressed and didnt answer his phone, didnt call when he said he would, etc. So, I picked up and moved over 2,000 miles to be with him (that is why he decided to marry me, because he knew I would stand beside him no matter what). He has gotten quite a bit better, still a bit distant. He doesn’t really compliment me any more (he does on occasion, when he thinks he has made me angry). And he has started critizing a lot more. (Even over little things like, me speeding while driving.) The other day, I tried digging for a little compliment by saying “baby, Your wifey is gettin a little pudgy” usually, when I say something along those lines, he will look at me, roll his eyes and say “no you aren’t! your beautiful!” but instead what he said was “well, you know what to do. Go running.” (i know he was kidding because of the look and little chuckle he gave me afterwards). I just miss the compliments. I love the hell out of him, and I know he loves me, bcz, he took the chance to marry me (he had been married before, and it ended very badly), I just get insecure when he doesn’t compliment/romance me very much… I have mentioned that to him before, but he responded that if he complimented/romanced me more then he felt like it would lose it’s meaning. So, how do I handle this situation? Do I just suck it up, grow a thicker skin and deal with it? Or is there something I could do differently, to encourage his affection?
And the other question I have is, How do i get him to open up to me more again? When we first started dating, we would talk all of the time, for hours on end, about everything from how our days were to our hopes and dreams for the future… Now, we still tend to talk about our future, but I have a hard time getting him to open up about how his day was, and what is happening on a regular basis at work. Is this something that I need to just accept?
Progression of Relationship: Normally Leos are demanding and pushy, but if you are playing your chivalrous cards carefully, she’ll be fascinated and let you lead the way. No one can out romance a Leo like a Virgo.
Just call me the lion tamer. I love dating Leos, and they really appear to love dating me. The relationships I’ve had have been good while they lasted.
Pretty true about when it’s over neither side has much to do with the other.
I met my first Virgo man recently and I was blown away. He was so impressive, articulate, sexy, etc. Ive always dated other fire signs(aries are the worst bfs), which now I try to stay away from theyre so annoying to me.I feel like Virgos and Capricorns can be our biggest fans which us Leos need. We had an amazing connection but I got turned off w his personal baggage so it has ended sadly. I always wonder what would of became and hope to meet another Virgo soon.
i recently started dating a Leo woman,and i must say she,s nothing short of amazing. As a Virgo man i usually have my guard up when it comes down to feelings, but she some how brought feelings out of me that i never knew i had. I was never one to belive in love at first sight, but it happened.We met on a on-line dating site in September . She is the girl of my dreams i never thought i would find such a girl. i conversation i happened to slip a told her i was falling in love w her. i was a little disappointed when she did not quite respond with the same. As days went on she slowly has opened up and has ensured me of her genuine feelings for me. we have only known each other for a month or so but i hope to keep her forever! just trying to win her heart . As we Virgo’s tend to be impatient, i will patiently wait till she’s ready to take the journey of life and all it has to offer with the man who will love and cherish her forever. If she does not i will continue on in search of another Leo .
alright, so i’m a leo but i like this guy who’s a virgo. when i first met him, it started off as a strictly friendly situation. he’s very quiet, the type of person that you would have to seek out and approach first; which i didn’t mind doing at all. i love shy people! but anyways, as i got to know him more, i realized just how cool and laid back and smart he was! and he is incredibly funny 🙂 as my feelings grow for him, i try not to let them show so i won’t risk scaring him off. our relationship is progressing, albeit very slowly. but i guess i should’t “try anything” just to have it backfire on me. i want his number and i wanna hang out with him some time cause he’s just so chill! too bad i’m really awkward and have zero game.. pleeease help me out! i need some advice ASAP.
by the way, my rising sign is aquarius, my sun sign is leo, and my moon sign is libra. so i’m a little shy/distant. thanks!
For Betty, or any other Leo woman, I am a Virgo (with Leo Moon, Leo Ascendant, Retrograde Mercury in Virgo, Venus in Virgo and a Mars in Sag) born 8/26 and just met a Leo girl (8/1) about a month ago. I’ve found that telling any girl that I like how I feel is the worst nightmare. Maybe its my Leo moon. I’m not sure. The Virgo mind is a very professional one. Everything must be in order. I think once feelings start being mixed around, things become “Okay, I will kiss her now, then hold her…” instead of winging it. Virgos are not passionate. Me, being a mix of the two (especially born near the cusp) has got me all in a whack – which sends a lot of mixed signals to my Leo friend. She’s great, she’s a princess (even a tattoo of a crown on her back …rolls eyes…) but denies she thinks she is one. Good luck to all with their significant others.
@Tory ima Leo Aquarius rising Virgo moon I’m shy n distance and shy quit mystery men are a huge turn on but making me laugh is priceless I’m guessing your b day Aug 10? Minds Aug 10 1991….but any way I’m in the same situation I thought me n Virgos don’t click but what attracted me to him he was so sly n quite and out of everyone in the room he was the 1 that caught my eye but he took the lead gahhhhhh I can’t explain LOL I’m scared to fall for this Guy now that we talk we text mostly he can be such a tool n a freak and dominant at times sighhhhh I love it…
And his such a great communicater :)))) we talk about everything
I really love reading all your comments guys!!!!!! I’m also a Leo woman (25) in love with a Virgo man (28) and let me tell you this…there is only one man worthy of a Leo queen and that is the Virgo King!! My god!!! I feel so happy and i’m lucky to have him!
Best of luck to you all!!!
Oh and my brother who is a Virgo is also in a relationship with a Leo woman…I think we’re made for each other!
I am a Leo (08/13) and I am in a relationship with a Virgo (09/16), I met my Virgo man online in Feb 2015..
since our first conversation it was an instant connection I felt as if we’ve known each other for years. after a week of messaging online we exchanged numbers and began talking on the phone we would be on the phone for hours just getting to know one another. after a month of talking on the phone we finally met up and just talked after that visit we were inseparable we were spending every day together. By march we were exclusive I was head over hills for this guy so soon into our relationship I would always think to myself this is it I found Mr. Right But, things got complicated he had so much baggage(sole provider for mother & three siblings) although he told me before hand it really took its toll on me after we had been together for over 8 months the main reason his family situation got to me was because he in a collision in my car and couldn’t really help me out as far as paying the car note because now I have two to pay smh. I still love him its just now I’m stressed not only is the wrecked car getting to me when I want to talk to him about how I’m FEELING it just seems like it goes in one ear and out the other he never truly listen to me. Lately I’ve been feeling like he’s taking me for granted not appreciated of me being here in his life and the part I took as being his woman/wife to be. he doesn’t like to go out with me and friends and always tell me to go alone I really enjoy staying in the house and just begin with him but NOT ALL THE TIME sometime I want him to go out with even if its something simple like a movie or just out to eat. I have been nothing but faithful to him but lately my thoughts have been very unfaithful and I would never cheat on him but something is telling me it may just be time to let him/US go but then aging something is telling me to stick it out its just a rough patch and we will get through it. its always that thought in the back of my mind telling me I have too much passion for my Virgo guy and he will never truly love me the way I need him too in order to be HAPPY………
All interesting reading. I am a Virgo male 9/15 and fell head over heels for the first time in my life with a beautiful leo female 08/08. I unfortunately was with an ill girlfriend and in a waning relationship having been faithful to her always. My leo friend was dating another leo male but not sure of him.
During our conversation we realized that we had deep feelings for each other going back 6 years and suddenly felt we wanted to be in each others arms for good. I was prepared to go miles to be with my leo girl but unfortunately without knowing when i could become free from my present GF – my leo girl decided to move on with her leo date
I am now going through so much heart ache and am left so empty and feel i have lost the chance of a lifetime. I so want her back – we were fun together – but will have to accept whatever happens with a heavy heart.
Virgoes don’t generally express love for someone but once they do they love with white heat and nothing is too small or no obstacle too large for them to overcome for his Leo woman
am a leo 08/18 and is a virgo 08/27 lord am overwhelmed with emotions i cant explain he doesn’t express the love but he will continuously tell you he loves you to death wat is that supposed to mean ..i wanna see not be told am not a an angel to know .. am just over this
I am a Leo woman married first time later in life to a Virgo man who seems to have a lot of Libra traits. We are very unique. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t.
I have not been happy a lot of the time. It has been very trying. We work well together-projects wise speaking… I am stronger willed than him, oddly this works at times. He is very kind and gives a lot to our marriage and so do I we both work at it and on it…. He is there for me and I am there for him too….
It is a very unique feeling to know he is there 100% for me when in the past men have not been. So this being said I find great value in the work that my marriage takes. He listens and is a wonderful communicator and writer as well. I mean he really really listens. Our bedroom life is good not great but good. He can be a picky worrier however, and this drives me over the edge. Multi-tasking is virtually not happening in his world and I can multi-task until tomorrow but not him!
But when the going gets tough he is there the next morning. Even staying overnight in the hospital next to me in a chair. So overall this deserves a real fair look-see. We do love each other but deeply passionately, well not always, it is more friendship based. And it seems to fluctuate with us oddly enough.
Chemistry is there, but I am a very strong personality and aggressive and to him that can be a turn off at time. As he is more delicate in his approach to getting things started to where we head for the bedroom. His charm is wonderful though, but temper not so great. Can literally have violent tantrums of hitting walls and slamming things around. I feel like I deal with a mental nut at these times. It is scary. And he is the only Virgo I have ever known this kind of way. SO I really don’t get that aspect of his personality and I do natal charts as just a fun hobby and have broken it down and it still doesn’t make any sense to me!
He does at times really seem to get me and I am a very complex Leo lady who is very moody with a Libra rising and Leo moon also. I thought I would share some things here in case one day it might help someone else. Also communication wise we literally need an interpreter. It is not easy–probably the most difficult relationship communication wise we both have ever been in, we both have readily admitted this at the start. But we love to talk and sort things through, but after the first year this gets EXHAUSTING.
As time goes on I see us divorced later on down the line sadly enough. Even though I have to admit he is the best man I have ever been in love with. He just doesn’t always “get who I am” as a person nor I him. Hope this may assist someone someday, somewhere…out there. It was written not to offend or upset anyone but just based on my own marriage and experiences within this one relationship is all. But I have tons of Virgo’s around me and always have my whole life! So one never knows….
OK so I’m a virgo man 8-31 and she’s a leo 8-17, (which happen to be my the day my mother was suppos to give birth to me). We originally meet when she was 13 and I was 14 and dated briefly for a week. Due to my parents strick life style I was unable to apeal to her leo always want to be around me or doing something we didn’t work. We went on to have our separate lives her having a child me getting married (ugh) having 3 beautiful children. We would see each other over there course of time, her never being attracted to me cause now at the age of 20 I was 245 pounds aND over looked by her, (I was depressed in my relationship what you exspect). But I always said I would have her even though I hated to like her, lol. I
I went thru the next 4 years 1 getting a divorce from a toxic aquarist, and losing about 75 pounds. Anyway we say eachother in a unconventional way I was talking to someone she new nothing serious that thot was pregnant Amy way ??. But we both payed no attention to eachother for a year and a half, yes we Bacame social media friends and even went out to clubs together, but very little interaction with each other, as I learned as the smooth virgo/leo cusp/ supposed to be leo, to do. It took 13 years 3 months, 3 weeks after we broke up as teenagersx for us to both notice eachother, by this time we were wanted by many people but few got our attention. Me being the virgo/leocusp/suppose to be leo ( cause I was supposed to be born on her b day ironic huh), I was a late bloomer and just hit my peak and her being the beautiful leo she is, was always the peak, the upper Escalon of beauty. We chilled one Christmas eve while I was back in town on vacation cause I relocated south, and let’s just say that was the best Christmas gift I ever received. The gift that keeps on giving. I came back north and we been together ever since. I hated to like her I believe cause I always knew I loved her. To this day we say we hate to love each other cause we really love eachother like nothing we ever felt before or I felt before. It was no coincidence that it happened 13 years later after we broke up teenagers and my b day is 31 which is 13 and her child was born on the 31 as well, and 3 is the number of completion, and we feel complete, and it happened on Christmas. I know I’m saying a lot but signs mean everything, look for them. Like I said before I was married and never felt what I feel for her for no one not even In my Playa days leading up to her. It was unexpected but so wanted and overdue for us. My true soul mate, my real best friend, and addictive irrational love. Her past love was a virgo, but a September virgo, he ain’t nothing like me. Lol, I believe all I said ande being a virgo/leocusp/supposed to be virgo was the right amount of dominance, confidence, love, verbally and physically oh and did I say awesome sex omg, another story, that made this work. Also her being a leo, her outer roar but her inner kindness, love, and affection, support was just what we needed at the right time when we both gave up on love. Now 3 years later we are stronger then, we talk for hours and we still hangout just us 2 like we just meet. I could go for hours how much I love this girl, but she looking at me like who am I texting for so long lol. But I’m a leave it buy saying when Leo’s and Virgos love each other there’s nothing they can’t do. The ultimate relation ship. Love you bae. ??????????
Are you still together in 2020?